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Why Do Men Do So Much for Sex?

Something that continues to confound me is Sex and the extent that men go to get it. I am not a prude, neither am I dishonest about my personal desires. I feel attraction and sexual impulse and I am neither far right hedonistic nor puritanical. I am what you’d describe as a moderate in most things. Yet, in this self-attired toga of moderation, I find the subject of the male valuation of sex grossly disproportionate to its seemingly glorious benefits.

If all masculine energy channeled towards sex since the dawn of civilization had been directed towards cracking the code of immortality, man-kind would probably be living forever by now. From human mating calls in the form of a display of wealth or aggression, to the eventual attainment of orgasm, men invest inordinate amounts of time and energy into getting laid. Men will lie, spend their life savings, lower their standards and drag themselves in the mud just for sex. They will work all their lives to accumulate wealth and power only to seek validation for their egos through sexual acquisition. History has seen kings desert their kingdoms for P or go to fight other nations and lay to waste entire communities just for knacks.

11 times out of 10, men in power will abuse privilege for sex. They will score points on interns or blackmail subordinates into sex. They will underestimate the risk of shame and being prosecuted and force themselves on an unwilling woman and blame everything else but themselves on why they took those decisions. Many-a-time after the throaty grunts and the laughable variants of the O-face, many-a-man have looked down at the supposed object of their fantasy and cringed at how stupid they had been to have done it at all. It is even more unfortunate that the average time for sexual activity in men is so short that under more critical evaluation, one wonders why any supposedly intelligent species will pile up so much investments or base long term decisions and repercussions on such a short term activity– forget all the beer parlour talk about libido and longevity in bed — all na wash.

Whether it is a one night stand that starts at a bar with a drink; or a pityfuck that a mumu man eventually gets from a controlling woman after 5 years of tagging along in the shadows and playing the nth wheel; the play up, foreplay, forward investment that goes into actualizing the goal, in my opinion, barely justifies the gains or the drama that comes with chasing sex.

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Here are a few good examples (or perhaps in these cases, bad):

1. Husband gbenshes housemaid (read as rape or consensual if you will) wife finds out, family separates. Was the knack worth it?

2. High flying executive smacks an intern’s butt in a moment of testosterone affected rationality. High flying executive is fired, loses all his benefits. Was the impulsive decision worth it?

3. Young undergrad with bright prospects pops a dollop that turns into a baby and now he is fighting not to pay child support at 20.

4. Man in the heat of passion doesn’t want to yield to the woman’s insistence to stop. Few months, or even decades down the line, his life, career, and achievement crumble on a me-too thread.

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Poor judgment calls on sex continue to be the bane of men’s existence, mine inclusive, and it is worth reflecting deeply upon and talking about as more boys become men in a world intent on grooming men that would readily trade their brains for sex at the drop of a thong. This lack of sense is evident in the all too familiar conversation that men find hard to compute when a fling says.

“I think I am pregnant?”

Men’s typical reaction to this question, and the next question that usually follows, “How?” is all you need to know that we are either wired to short out at a certain level of unexpected mental activity, or we are just plain stupid. How the acclaimed master of beast and nature cannot properly rationalize the possibility of this outcome after having had unprotected sex continues to be evidence of how quickly our IQs drop as men, regardless of our pedigree, when we are faced with a W A P.

In another dimension, porn and prostitution continues to be a thriving industry because everywhere in the world, the desire for sex continues to be a thing of value to men and they will give what they have to get it. And many women know this. They know that when push comes to shove, their body is ALWAYS an asset that can be traded for value to men who are willing and able to pay, whether as voyeur or violator. This carnal acculturation starts as soon as chests start to sprout and the leering gaze of men their father’s age stay longer than necessary in the area below their faces. Initially, these ‘weird’ actions of men (regardless of age) might throw teenage girls off balance; like men’s inexplicable generosity, their unctuous praise and promises, or roving arms that drape around shoulders and carelessly drops to the breasts, or accidentally grazes a precociously well-rounded behind. It doesn’t take long for many girls to understand this dialect and leverage it for all it is worth.

I believe the hype around sex is a function of the intrinsic value men place on it. I see consensual sex as an exchange between the genders that requires initiation and agreement — an offer and acceptance that lends it a transactionary nature. I think men are socialized to assume the initiator role and women are socialized to assume the agreer role even though this distinction is arguable. A distant hypothesis is that the biology of the sexual organs, the nature of sexual activity and the relatively varying velocity of desire, all create a natural system that drives the flux of sexual energy from men towards women. I also believe the many cultural taboos surrounding sex, fidelity and most especially monogamy, stimulates an unhealthy curiosity that make men continue to desire the forbidden. I feel that more of the invisible forces behind sexual desire come from nature and that despite our celebrated advancement as a race, there are still many things we don’t know. I think that built into the man’s tendency to rise to every occasion is evolution’s way of ensuring the continuance of our race. The fact that men remain sexually active much earlier, for much longer and at more frequency, or that one or two fertile men can populate the whole world, attests to this position. I believe this urgency and primal desire is what makes men so fickle, less rational and prone to manipulation in the sex game. From early on in childhood when a girl knows her power over a boy and with a twirl of her eyes, can get him to do assignments or fight another boy on her behalf, the discerning woman can manipulate men into submission, lending the man’s desires as her willing ally. I feel that somewhere in our minds as men, our natural desires lead us to overestimate the gains of sex. We ascribe a high emotional value to it and this in turn informs what proportion of our sense, credibility, money, life, time we are willing to give up for it. And because a few women know this, sex will continue to be a currency of exchange between husband and wife, sugar baby and benefactor, teenage boy and teenage girl, 90 year old man and 25 year old woman and this endless dance of desire will continue till the world ends.

Since our desires will not go away or be lessened by socialization or cultural norms like marriage, my charge is that every man should have a conversation with himself and probe his inner motivations by asking himself variants of the following:

Is sex worth what I am giving up for it or what I will lose in the course of getting it?

Am I overestimating the value of what I will be getting from the sexual interaction?

Why would I, who have had great accomplishments in other endeavors of life and shown great wisdom and talent, lose my sense of judgment when it comes to sex?

Knowing that we are equally susceptible to the same stirrings that make other men prone to judgment errors is wisdom, and staying aware for long enough not to fall victim to our desires is even greater wisdom.

As my great friend, the Wise Samanja will say, “Nor take ten minutes dabaru your life. Think am well!”

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Emmanuel Onwubiko: The idiocy of attacking Oyedepo on CAMA

Recently, one of the most powerful voices against dictorship and human rights violations in Nigeria and the founding Bishop of the fastest growing religious organisation:- the Living Faith Church, Reverend David Oyedepo has been made the object of political campaign calumny and vicious attacks by the Current president of Nigeria Muhammadu Buhari.

The unreasonable reason for these deluge of attacks including media attacks by some completely ignorant and rebellious characters, is because of the stand of the Christian leader concerning certain provisions of the companies and Allied matters Act of 2020 in which the financial controls of religious and non-governmental organisation were interfered with and certain powers vested in the Corporate Affairs Commission (CAC).

Reverend Oyedepo had advised the Federal Government to expunge the part of the newly signed amended CAMA that gives the supervising minister the power to remove the board of trustees of churches without recourse to the court.

The Bishop had affirmed as follows: “in the document, they said the registrar can remove the trustees with no recourse to the court. They shouldn’t try it. This must be from somebody who woke up from the wrong side of the bed after dreaming. The person must have drafted the aspect in the bill as their custom is. I am 51 years old in this thing (Christianity) , don’t try it. I have been with Jesus some time and i am sent as a prophet to the nations. There minister can remove the trustees and close the account of a church is….. Infact they say they would appoint managers. So, they can appoint occultists to be managers of church affairs when we are alive. Don’t try it when this crude prophet is alive, when all the sons of the prophets are alive. Don’t try it, this is a timely advice”.

But rather than engage in introspection and listen to divergent opinions on these contentious provisions in the amended version of CAMA, the president started pouring invective and unmitigated insults on Reverend David Oyedepo in what has become a familiar character of the media team of President Muhammadu Buhari to always resort to argumentum ad hominem whenever Nigerians are not happy with certain policies of the administration.

One of the most unruly and ethically notorious members of the President Buhari’s media team, even asked Oyedepo to set up his own Country if he can’t accept changes to the business law.

An aide to President Muhammadu Buhari on Social Media, Lauretta Onochie, reportedly berated the presiding bishop of Living Faith Church Worldwide, David Oyedepo, for kicking against the Company and Allied Matters Acts in churches.

Oyedepo, while speaking in his church on Sunday, described as illegal the power given to a minister to remove a trustee and close the accounts of the church without legal backing.

He said, “Who was Paul persecuting? The church! Who said, “I’m the one you are persecuting?” Jesus! This country is going too far and it’s a risk. I saw something on CAMA (Company Allied Matters Act) and they put religious bodies there that Registrar-General can remove trustees without recourse to the court. Don’t try it!”

Reacting to the issue, the media said Onochie said, “I hope this is not true. If it is, Oyedepo will have to manufacture his own country and live by his own laws.
“As long as he lives and operates within the entity called Nigeria, he will live by Nigerian rules and laws. He will do as he’s told by the law. Enough of lawlessness.”

Recall that controversially, the new amendments to CAMA provides that religious bodies and non-governmental organisations will be strictly regulated by the Registrar-General of Corporate Affairs Commission and a supervising minister.

The law also wields power to suspend the trustees of an association or a religious body and appoint an interim manager or managers to coordinate its affairs where it reasonably believes that there had been any misconduct or mismanagement, or where the affairs of the association are being run fraudulently or where it is necessary or desirable for the purpose of public interest.

I must state without mincing words that this garrulous media aide who deployed gutter language to respond to the well thought out criticisms of the amendment to CAMA 2020, must be living in fool’s paradise not to have realised that Nigeria is a constitutional democracy and therefore, President Buhari is neither an unopposed constitutional monarch nor is he a fascist leader in the mode of Benito Musolini of the pre-Workd war Italy.

What this means is that, Nigerians have the fundamental Human Rights to exercise their freedom of expression and in this instance, the opinion of Rev. Oyedepo is constructive and positive whereas the response from the presidency is irrational, idiotic, and thoughtless.

I will ask the media team of President Buhari to pick up copies of the Nigerian constitution to go through chapter four to realize that the president is totally obliged to listen to educated and rational opinion of Nigerians and to be responsive and not antagonistic.

Can they please in their sober moments read sections 39(1), 40, 38(1) as follows: says: “38(1). Every person shall be entitled to freedom of thought, conscience and religion, including freedom to change his religion or belief, and freedom (either alone or in community with others, and in public or private) to manifest and propagate his religion or belief in worship, teaching, practice and observance.”

Then section 39(1) provides that: “Every person shall be entitled to freedom of expression, including freedom to hold opinions and to receive and impact ideas and information without interference.” The next section which is 40 added that: “Every person shall be entitled to assemble freely and associate with other persons, and in particular he may form or belong to any political party, trade union or any other association for the protection of his interests”.

Moreover, Nigeria being a constitutional democracy, cannot be making a law that makes the executive arm of government far and above the other arms or segments of government when the grund norm has clearly envisaged a clear delineation or Separation of powers in section 4,5 and 6 as follows: “4(1). The legislative powers of the Federal Republic of Nigeria shall be vested in a National Assembly for the Federation which shall consist of a Senate and a House of Representatives.
(2). the National Assembly shall have power to make laws for the peace, order and good government of the Federation or any part thereof with respect to any matter included in the Exclusive Legislative list set out in part 1 of the Second Schedule to this Constitution.
The House of Assembly of the state shall have power to make laws for the peace, order and good government of the State or any part thereof with respect to the following matters, that is to say-
a. any matter not included in the Exclusive Legislative List set out in Part 1 of the Second Schedule to this Constitution;
b. any matter included in the Concurrent LEGISLATIVE List set out in the first column of Part ll of the Second Schedule to this Constitution to the extent prescribed in the second column opposite thereto; and
c. any other matter with respect to which it is empowered to make laws in accordance with the provisions of this Constitution.

Specifically, the powers of the executive arm of government is provided for in section 5. (1) thus: “Subject to the provisions of this Constitution, the executive powers of the Federation
a. shall be vested in the President and may, subject as aforesaid and to the provision of any law made by the National Assembly, be exercised by him either directly or through the Vice-president and Ministers of the Government of the Federation or officers in the public service of the Federation; and
b. shall extend to the execution and maintenance of this Constitution, all laws made by the National Assembly has, for the time being, power to make laws.”

Then section 6. (1) says,: “the judicial powers of the Federation shall be vested in the courts to which this section relates, being courts established for the Federation.
2. The judicial powers of a State shall be vested in the courts to which this section relates being courts established, subject as provided by this Constitution, for a State.
3. The courts to which this section relates, established by this Constitution for the Federation and for the State, specified in subsection (5)(a) to (i0 of the section shall be only superior courts of record in Nigeria; and save as otherwise prescribed by the National Assembly or by the House of Assembly of a State, each court shall have all the powers of a superior court of record.

Before I proceed, can I say that it is irregular for president Buhari to try to control the finances of churches when there is a clear separation between church and state? Also, it is unnatural for the government to enjoy the arbitrary powers to suo moto nominate trustees for organisations that are NON-GOVERNMENTAL because this is a direct affront to the operational independence of non-governmental groups and a way to kill the vibrancy of the civil society community.

What has happened is that President Buhari through his lackeys in the National Assembly has succeeded in crippling opposition voices even when the essence of the law as a whole is to encourage ease of doing business.

By the way, how does religious worship fall into a commercial venture? Perhaps, the media officials recruited by president Buhari thinks that their boss is a tyrant and therefore not subject to the tenets of the Constitution which even in section 10 prohibits government from making religions as state apparatuses.

Make no mistake about it; the law itself is a wonderful piece of legislations but the insertions of these aforementioned toxic and obnoxious provisions to cripple religious worships and the independence of non-governmental organizations was done in bad faith and must be expunged just as Reverend Oyedepo demanded.

To begin with, the Companies and Allied Matters Act, 2020 (“the Act”), repeals and replaces the extant Companies and Allied Matters Act of 1990. The new CAMA, now seen as Nigeria’s most significant but nevertheless highly contentious and controversial business legislation in three decades, introduces new provisions that promote the ease of doing business whilst reducing regulatory hurdles and also bringing the provisions in tangent with the technological realities of the 21st century.

Promoters of this law in the media wants us to believe that this is expected to ultimately promote investments, create more jobs, and promote a friendly business climate in Nigeria. But they are dead wrong. How can government try to control how businesses are organised as if the executive arm of government now enjoys the judicial powers of the Federation. Why then do we have Section 6 of the Nigerian constitution?

Some of the provisions of the amended bill and how it will affect businesses are explained below by some media writers tgus: S.18 (2) of the new CAMA now makes it possible to establish a private company with only one (1) member or shareholder. This is good news for growing startups and young entrepreneurs because it has totally resolved business registration bottlenecks. A lot of businesses have been forced into unnecessary partnerships because prior to the new CAMA, to legally own a business in Nigeria, you needed to provide at least two or more people as co-owners of the business.

Section 40 (1): There is the introduction of Statement of Compliance (SOC) signed by an Applicant (or agent), without the need for a Lawyer or Notary Public to attest to Declaration of Compliance (DOC). SOC is a requirement of the law that indicates that the applicant has complied with the registration and requirements.

Section 27: This section replaces ‘Authorized Share Capital’ with ‘Minimum Share Capital’. This implies that the promoter(s) of a business is not required to pay for or allocate shares that are not needed at the specific time of incorporation.

The procurement of a Common Seal is no longer a mandatory requirement according to S.98 of the new CAMA. With the amended bill, companies can now authenticate documents by other means other than a common seal. This means you don’t need to stamp seals on documents anymore. The world is digital so who needs those seals.

The new CAMA makes provision for electronic filing, electronic share transfer and e-meetings for private companies. You can now register your business from anywhere in the country via the e-registration portal. The new CAMA also provides for remote or virtual general meetings, provided that such meetings are conducted in accordance with the Articles of Association of the company. This will facilitate participation at such meetings from any location within and outside the shores of the country, at minimal costs.
Small companies or any company having a single shareholder are no longer mandated to appoint auditors at the annual general meeting to audit the financial records of the company. S. 402 of the new CAMA provides for the exemption in relation to the audit of accounts in respect of a financial year.

Relatedly, these media canvassers of these reform measures stressed that the appointment of a Company Secretary is now optional for private companies.

According to S. 330 (1) of the new CAMA, the appointment of a company secretary is only mandatory for public companies.

Besides, the new Act, introduces Limited Liability Partnerships and Limited Partnerships, which combines flexibility and tax status of a partnership with the status of limited liability for members of a company. This they envisaged implies that Startups are not stuck with the option of setting up a Company, but also enjoy the benefits of partnership which a partnership agreement (including vesting agreement, and founders agreements) beyond the regular Articles and Memorandum of Association, whilst still protecting their personal assets from being sold in claims for debts, liability, or creditors.

The media reports too that Under Section 223 (12) of the new Act, filing fees for Registration of Charges payable to the CAC (Corporate Affairs Commission) has been reduced to 0.35% of the value of the charge. This they reasoned is expected to lead to up to 65% reduction in the associated cost payable under the regime
the new Act extends merger beyond LLCs to Incorporated Trustees.

Section 849 implies that two or more NGOs, social entrepreneurs with different registered organizations, with similar goals can merge to form one (1) single organization.
Section 119 emphasizes transparency in terms of control in a company. It requires that persons with significant control in a company disclose its shareholding to other shareholders. For example, anyone who has person(s) holding shares on their behalf as trustees or proxies, whilst being shareholders themselves in same company, are expected to disclose such relationship for transparency.

S.307 (1) of the Act prohibits a person from being a director in more than five (5) public companies at a time.

The media promoters of the amended version also claimed that the new Act introduces a framework for rescuing a company in distress and to keep it alive as against allowing such entity to become insolvent. Provisions were made with respect to Company Voluntary Arrangements (S.434 to S.442), Administration (S.443 to S.549) and Netting (S.718 to S.721).

The National Assembly and the Executive arm of government shot themselves on their legs by shutting out the real stakeholders in the process of amendments apparently to allow them introduce from the backdoors those tyrannical rules that will take the control of Non governmental bodies from their formators to the Government so they appoint their cronies to run these organisations if the government feels intimidated by the independent opinions of these Non governmental individuals. This is a plot to destabilize pluralism in the society. These amendments have failed the simple test of sound policy making process.

“Public policy is best described as the broad area of government laws, regulations, court decisions, and local ordinances.Today, government affects all aspects of our lives. Everyone has a stake in the public policies enacted by federal, state, and local governments.
Many citizens and groups try to influence public policy through the political process by supporting candidates and political parties. That’s a good way to make a positive impact, but not the best way.
Politicians and political parties come and go. Their positions on issues can change due to circumstances. They can be voted out of power as easily as they are voted in.
The best way to make a lasting impact on public policy is to change public opinion. When you change the beliefs of the people, politicians and political parties change with them”, (https://www.mackinac.org/).

The opposition of President Muhammadu Buhari to the strong voices that rejec these draconiam amendments is in breach of the well known rules of constitutional democracy.

As one top rating scholar wrote thus: “Rule of law and democracy are both desirable attributes of a political system. Scholars writing of democratic transitions from authoritarian rule usually argue that the goal of such a transition is the establishment of democracy with the rule of law, implying that both may be achieved simultaneously.”

The researcher stated that perhaps that is so. “What is often meant by rule of law is no more than the notion that government should work its will through general legislation, legislation to which the governors themselves are subject, rather than through irregular decrees and ad hominem proclamations.”

“But rule of law may require more than this: it may require that people are able to foresee accurately the legal consequences of their actions and not be subject to sudden surprises whether or not these take the form of legistation, or perhaps that the law contain, or at least not violate, certain substantive principles and rights.”

“Democratic rule minimally requires government by the people or their representatives, elected on a broad franchise. But, in some conceptions, it too many require more than that. Perhaps, democracy demands that the range of choice open to government be broad and not constricted by externally imposed restraints (such as legal protections for minorities). We expect, for example, or hope, that our government can correct inequities arising from markets or social interactions. Such interventions can involve confiscatory taxes or draconian regulations, either of which can threaten claims for minority rights. Or perhaps, democracy requires that the people be regularly and genuinely consulted on fundamental legal changes so that institutions or practices of deliberation and consultation are in place and functioning(https://www.researchgate.net).

These amendments that relates to the plot by President Muhammadu Buhari to control how NGOs and Churches are administered are satanic and must be expunged by the National Assembly or annulled by the Court of law immediately.

*Emmanuel Onwubiko is the Head of HUMAN RIGHTS WRITERS ASSOCIATION OF NIGERIA (HURIWA) and blogs@www. huriwanigeria.com,www.emmanuelonwubiko.com;www.thenigerianinsidernews.com).

Hate speech: DSS is better than NBC

Tonnie Iredia

History tells us that in most heterogeneous societies, multiple centrifugal forces make it easy for the fragile fabric that binds society together to give way at the slightest provocation.

To avoid the dismemberment of such societies therefore the remedy is to always pursue policies that can unite the different groups that make-up any such society.

Nigeria is a good example of a nation whose constituents have for long been restive about what many see as basic inequality in the management of public affairs.

This has over the years tended to accentuate ethnoreligious intolerance-compelling government to rely more on prescriptive criteria than merit in many policies.

Under the circumstance, Nigerian leaders have found it expedient to take steps to consciously dissuade the use of intemperate language that can inflame passion and cause anarchy in society. But this has to be done without encroaching on the fundamental principle of freedom of expression which democracy guarantees.

According to Section 39, of the Nigerian Constitution 1999, “every person shall be entitled to freedom of expression including freedom to hold opinions and to receive and impart ideas and information without interference.”

However, Section 45 of the same constitution makes it clear that freedom of expression must not be used to make reckless statements that can adversely affect other persons.

In other words, the government has a duty to ensure that laws such as that on defamation are made to protect the rights of other citizens. Bearing in mind that the mass media have the capacity of disseminating information far and wide, the conduct of the media has to be regulated to avoid disseminating insensitive materials that can pitch one group of society against the other.

Therefore, a regulation such as the National Broadcasting Code (NBC) which among other things, seeks to prohibit fake news and hate speech that is injurious to society is tolerable, provided, it is neither politicized nor used for witch-hunting.

Put differently, no regulation should be negatively constructed to become a fault-finding tool or an instrument to gag the media.

On Monday, August 10, 2020, a former Deputy Governor of the Central Bank who is currently a Directing Staff at Nigeria’s authoritative Policy Research Institute in Kuru, Jos, Dr Obadiah Mailafia while participating in a radio programme alleged that a serving Nigerian state governor was one of the commanders of the dreaded Boko Haram group.

In the reported words of Mailafia, “some of us also have our intelligence networks. I have met with some of the bandits; we have met with some of their high commanders – one or two who have repented – they have sat down with us not once, not twice. They told us that one of the northern governors is the commander of Boko Haram in Nigeria.”

As was expected, two relevant Nigerian Agencies, the Department of State Services DSS and the broadcast regulator, the Nigerian Broadcasting Commission NBC quickly reacted to the subject. While the DSS invited Mailafia for questioning with a view to extracting more facts on the authenticity of his claims, the NBC examined the broadcast against the backdrop of its mandate to ensure that no broadcast station is used to undermine the continued existence of the country.

The two agencies have since made a number of declarations on the subject. On its part, the NBC, instantly found the radio station, Nigeria Info 99.3 guilty of what it called “unprofessional broadcast” and imposed a fine of N5million on the station.

In the case of the DSS, the conclusion arrived at was that it was indecent on the part of Mailafia to have disseminated such information without using his well-connected links in society to verify the heavy allegations before making them public.

Thereafter the DSSwarned all highly-placed citizens to show greater restraint in their public utterances. Before reaching her conclusion, the DSS invited Mailafia twice for interrogation thereby giving him ample opportunity to defend himself.

When compared with the summary trial which the NBC gave to the Nigeria Info radio station, it is obvious that at least on this matter, the DSS has been more humane than the broadcast regulator. Although the DSS has all the instruments of coercion at her disposal, she was not coercive. Indeed, Mailafia’s lawyer testified that the service was civil in her conduct with his client.

Many people particularly broadcasters, this writer inclusive, have since remained baffled by the speed with which the broadcast regulator found the radio station guilty of “unprofessional conduct” in its transmission. First, the interview was organised by the station on one of its regular slots- ‘Morning Crossfire’ where different personalities are invited to air views on burning issues, in which case it was a normal programme which had no trappings of mischief.

Second, the guest was by every standard, a first-class political newsmaker, capable of throwing light on issues of public interest being a bonafide Nigerian political leader who would have been our President if the party which sponsored him as a Presidential candidate had won last year’s Presidential elections.

Third, the programme was a LIVE broadcast that could not have been subjected to editorial control, unlike a recorded programme that could be edited to remove unwanted portions. Fourth, following global realities in broadcasting, LIVE programming is today the new trend-making it untenable to question the format and philosophy of Morning CrossFire.

Based on the above, we think NBC’s posture is not a plus to society just as it cannot improve the broadcasting profession in Nigeria. Rather, the huge fine on a purported offence could only have instilled fear in broadcasters to now embrace self-censorship and timidity.

The NBC needs to move away and very quickly too, from that old perception of radio as an organ for telling the people what the government wants them to hear. Public expectations of the media in society have since gone beyond that narrow prism.

Today, the media is expected to undertake a surveillance of the environment, while monitoring the process of governance as mandated by Section 22 of the Nigerian Constitution. It is also to serve as a link between the government and the people; as well as criticize and analyze events.

More importantly, the media is not only to inform the people but also to protect their rights to know while at the same time pointing out danger signals in the horizon for people to avert a woeful end.

As heavy as Mailafia’s allegation appears to be, there is no conclusive proof that it is false just as the allegation is neither different nor heavier than the old unproved belief that Boko Haram was founded by a governor. The intelligence services should, therefore, see Mailafia’s addition as a new vista for understanding the advent and growth of insurgency and how to bring it to a peaceful end in our country.

Electioneering campaigns going on in Edo state at the moment, are replete with hate speeches thereby confirming that the greatest culprit of hate speech is the political class.

We cannot make progress if offending politicians receive sermons only while the media, they use are heavily penalised by a regulator, whose component parts – Minister, Board and Management are singing discordant tunes.

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Donald Trump’s Sister Says He’s An ‘Unprincipled Phoney’

US President Donald Trump’s eldest sister, a former federal judge, has said her brother is a liar who “has no principles”, secret recordings reveal.

The critical remarks by Maryanne Trump Barry were recorded by her niece, Mary Trump, who last month published a book excoriating the president.

“His goddamned tweet and lying, oh my God,” Ms Barry is heard saying. “It’s the phoniness and this cruelty.”

Mary Trump said she had taped her aunt to protect herself from litigation.

Mr Trump responded to the latest revelations in a statement issued by the White House, saying: “Every day it’s something else, who cares.”

The recordings were first reported by The Washington Post, after which the Associated Press obtained them.

‘He had somebody take the exams’

In the secret recordings, Ms Barry criticises the Trump administration’s immigration policy, which has led to children being held at migrant detention centres at the border.

“All he wants to do is appeal to his base,” she said.

One of the claims made in Mary Trump’s memoir – Too Much and Never Enough: How My Family Created the World’s Most Dangerous Man – is that her uncle paid a friend to take a SAT test for him – a standardised exam which determines university placement.

Ms Barry refers to this in the recording, even suggesting that she remembers the name of the friend involved.

“He got into University of Pennsylvania because he had somebody take the exams,” she said.

Ms Barry has been supportive of her brother Donald and has previously said the two were close. She once told the story of how he had visited her every day she was in hospital following an operation.

“Once would have been enough – the duty call. That’s how love shows, when you go that extra yard.” She also said she “knew better even as a child than to even attempt to compete with Donald”.

A Superior Court judge in California has ordered the president to pay $44,100 (£34,000) to Stephanie Clifford, also known as Stormy Daniels.

The sum was awarded to cover her legal fees relating to a non-disclosure agreement over an alleged affair between the two.

Ms Daniels alleges that she and Mr Trump had sex in a hotel room in Lake Tahoe, a resort area between California and Nevada, in 2006.

The president denies the affair.

Ms Daniels said she had signed an agreement to keep quiet about her claims in exchange for $130,000 in October 2016, days before the presidential election.

In a court ruling published online, a judge ruled that despite the case being dismissed, Ms. Daniels was “the prevailing party” in the dispute and therefore her costs should be covered.

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FG Lacks the Sincerity and Capacity to Successfully Implement CAMA – Pastor Wole Oladiyun

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The Senior Pastor of the Christ Livingspring Apostolic Ministry (CLAM), Omole, Lagos, Pastor Wole Oladiyun, has expressed concern that the 2020 CAMA Legislation is susceptible to abuse and manipulation by the corrupt and dishonest public service system Nigeria runs.

According to the critically acclaimed minister of God, the Church as a collective entity in Nigeria does not trust the government, hence the barrage of criticisms that heralded the signing of the 2020 CAMA legislation by President Muhammadu Buhari on August 7.

While featuring on The Podium Medias Instagram Personality Interview Series – ON THE PODIUM – via @thepodiummediaonline, Pastor Oladiyun said: “The church does not trust the government; what they want to do, the intention is good because this is already being done in the developed world where the systems are purposefully structured to do that. CLAM has prayer centres in the UK and USA, so we know the rules and regulations. But I have gone through the CAMA Law, and I regret to say that Nigerians will not be honest with its implementation”.

According to him, CAMA will be a tool of vendetta and revenge by government officials. “If the people in government see that a particular church is criticizing government even if it is the truth, they will use the CAMA Law to finish the church. Also, the Government does not have the network and the capacity to manage and successfully implement the law. And if they want to do it the way the Charity Commission operates in the UK, I do not see the right level of honesty in our leaders. It is not going to work”.

He says his concern about the CAMA Law being abused and manipulated is not entirely misplaced because government officials are already talking and acting in a way that suggests that there is a premeditated agenda to gag the Church and stigmatise church leaders.

““I read a publication where they said any organisation that does not obey CAMA Law is doomed. They are already fanning the embers of war. It should not be so. They should make it transparent. When they want to look at NGOs, including churches, they must do it holistically and objectively. It must involve churches, mosques, and even traditional worshippers – the Sango and Ogun worshippers. Let them go to their shrines and tell them to obey CAMA law”, he added.

He said the body of Christ would collectively fight and resist CAMA because there is no honesty or sincerity in its implementation.

Pastor Oladiyun rebuffed insinuations that churches are protesting against CAMA because they do not want to be accountable and transparent in their financial dealings. That is totally untrue, he said, adding: “In CLAM, for instance, we have nothing to fear. Every year, we audit our books and file all necessary returns. So, we are not new to accountability and transparency. My fear and concern is that the Federal Government has no structure to sustain the effective implementation of the law”, he clarified.

He also rejected criticisms that ministers of God have become politicians with their incessant comments on government and governance in the country. ” I am not a politician, but I am an activist. I want things to get better in Nigeria. I will not relent in calling on government officials to do the right thing. Nobody can cajole me. This country belongs to all of us, and I have the right to air my views as loudly as I can. I have always used the pulpit to exhort those in positions of authority to please do the right thing. Nigeria is too blessed to be poor and stranded”.

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El-Rufa’i, NBA and court order

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On August 21, the Nigerian Bar Association (NBA) sent a letter to the Governor of Kaduna state, Mallam Nasiru El-Rufa’i, indicating his withdrawal as NBA2020 conference speaker. The governor was billed to speak on the topic “Who is a Nigerian? The letter generated a lot of controversy from different angles of the country, especially among the Nigerians that were spending significant time on social media expressing their views on national issues of interest.

According to the NBA president, the invitation was withdrawn from the governor following a petition by some lawyers under the aegis of Open Bar Initiative following rising killings in Southern Kaduna.

Well, writing on this kind of issue ends up with different interpretations, no wonder sometimes I find it very disturbing and difficult to press my keyboards on any stuff that may generate comments if not anger to many people, especially those that are not in line with the author`s stand. Permit me to clarify this to you that I am neither a supporter of Mallam El-Rufa’i nor his sympathiser. In fact, I have issues with some of his strict and anti-masses policies but we have no option than voice out our opinion, especially on any issue capable of downsizing democracy, human rights and the rule of law in the country.

Let me start with this, the NBA as an association has the right to invite or withdraw invitation to anybody in their program because they are the organisers of the program and therefore have the right to select the guests for the program.

Be that as it may, I have personally not seen anything wrong in Inviting someone to a program and withdrawing same. What makes the issue create unnecessary attention among the general members of the public is the issue of allegations against the governor in relation to rising cases of attacks in Southern Kaduna. The NBA president stated that the withdrawal of the governor`s invitation has nothing to do with religion or ethnicity.

Whatever he said, the majority will find it very offensive, especially those that hold the opinion that the association’s approach was very poor and uncalled for, the association failed to give the governor a fair hearing, which is one of the cardinal principals of the rule of law. The governor is presumed innocent of the said allegation till a court pronounces him guilty. The views of some members of the association shouldn’t be the basis to withdraw such invitation unless the association wants it. 

This is just like teenagers’ prank we had back in university days that you send your party invitations to some people and still give words to bouncers not to allow them to gain entry just to humiliate them at the entrance then you later apologise to them. NBA apologiding to the governor simply means that the association is not convinced withdrawing the invite was right or affirming my thought on the above mentioned issues

There are a lot of conspiracies surrounding the matter. Religious and tribal champions are busy giving the incident different interpretations and inclinations but I perceive the whole melodrama ensued between NBA and El-Rufa’i as part of the 2023 political game. If not for political reason, why will the NBA allow other speakers like Wike and Obasanjo? Are they saying they have history of obeying court orders?

If NBA is concerned on the killings in Southern Kaduna, they will not have entitled the theme of the conference “Am I a Nigerian-A debate on National Identity”, instead, they should have opted for “The Indigeneship-Citizenship Conundrum”  to make fool out of him. It will be a very good avenue for people to dig deep by asking unhidden agenda and questions some people think about him. This will also pave way for them to understand why the governor has issues with Southern Kaduna leaders. But the association denied all these opportunities to their members and general public just because of the interest of insignificant few among them.

Now their attitude towards El-Rufa’i is creating a different narrative among the fragile country`s ethno-religious population; a significant number of the population are turning the saga as an issue of ethno-religious sentiment. El-Rufai`s presence in the conference will not benefit the common Nigerian with anything but will definitely bring out different stories especially on the current crisis in the state. 

In addition, NBA’s reactions to such issue that has colouration of religious is nothing but fuelling the disintegration among the major religions in the country, especially now that everything in Nigeria one must put religious and tribal sentiments for such things to attract attention.
Moreover, the NBA has directed the Muslim lawyer to nominate another Muslim governor to speak in the event. This has indicated that NBA and their sponsors have an axe to grind with El-Rufa’i. The NBA, which is the body of learned and a rallying point and unifying factor, has derailed from this core objective. What a shame!

A lot of negative narrations are going on daily in Nigeria from Mailafia`s allegations to another. All these will not let us understand the major challenges facing the country like insecurity, poor democratic governance, abject poverty and unemployment that have become the order of the day in the country.

Nigerians should be conscious of the issues that can castigate one another and lead us to unnecessary conflict that may result in further loss of lives and destruction of property. Few unpatriotic individuals and organisations try to use unhidden agenda and conspiracies to divide us for their personal interest.

Mohammed, a democratic governance enthusiast, writes from Funtua, Katsina state.

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Video: I sent Yar’adua to grave, Jonathan to Otuoke, El-Rufai boasts

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The Kaduna State Governor, Nasir El-Rufai has said that he is not afraid of attack from anyone.

Governor El-Rufai said that he dispatched two former Nigeria presidents who attacked him.

He said one is dead and the other is out of office.

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El-Rufai made boast shortly after the Nigerian Bar Association (NBA) withdrew the invitation extended to him as guest speaker in the forthcoming NBA virtual annual general conference.

Governor el-Rufai had wept and lamented that NBA denied him fairing-hearing in the matter.

He noted that he accepted the invitation of the NBA to participate in a panel discussion on national identity as part of his commitment to the evolution of a national consensus, nothing more.

Disinvited

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THIS is not the time to hold grudges against Malam Nasir El-Rufai. It is not the time to say he, like Napoleon, suffers a small man’s syndrome, or that he pulled down the homes of rivals. It is not the time to say his mind has not grown above his height, and that he does not deserve to speak about who is a Nigerian.

So, some avatars of liberty will say the Nigerian Bar Association railed against the three Johns of thinkers: Locke, Mill, Rousseau. They invited him to their conference only to disinvite him. The man salivated over an empty table. They probably did that because the man has a sour tongue, a fratricidal impulse, pitches tribe against tribe and, in the vexed issue of southern Kaduna, El-Rufai has taken sides, and has anointed violence against peace.

If anything, the man on the democratic throne in Kaduna is a Nigerian. He is Nigerian enough to confess that he is Fulani, and he is honest enough to say that he wants to go after the Christian leaders in southern Kaduna who have lashed him over his sectarian furies.

We can also forgive him for poor memory. Maybe he forgot that when the region raged a few years ago, he confessed he paid Fulani hordes to silence them. He paid with the nation’s taxpayer’s money. He confessed they were the goons of evil, the machete-happy brutes whose eyes blared with human blood. Like harmattan fires, they brushed through the homesteads and farms of their quarries. They barbequed fathers, roasted mothers, turned farms into a dark, frescoed mural of bonfires. They haunted huts, glamorised houses in smoulders, prostrated schools, littered a litany of streets with disembodied limbs. In echoes of the 1960’s pogrom, they grinned so others may scream; maniacal glee over gleams of blood.

The governor has many matters on his mind, so he could not remember. Hence he says he will unveil the leaders who begged to swap gift for peace in southern Kaduna. His morality may not be balanced because his power of revenge dwarfs his power of recall. He read law, and maybe his history is famished. Something foul happened to his mnemonic faculty. When he was minister, he said he knew the marauders. Now, he says he is gathering material on rampaging Christians. How time flies from memory. He has lost the power of the past. He is obliterating his own past. Maybe he did not want to forget. Fate tampered with his cerebellum.

If the Christian leaders want money, does that cancel the carnage going on? Is he not saying Christian leaders set their own people on fire? He has no evidence. He said it for the headline. He craves public spotlight. Hence he is bitter that the NBA disinvited him. No need to fume with the man. El-Rufai is at war with El-Rufai.

He loves attention, and does he not deserve it? Nothing wrong with vanity. After all, one of the world’s great actors, Al Pacino, says, “vanity is my favorite sin.” Except that El-Rufai can never admit it is a sin.

He won governorship election twice. The people must love him. He is so democratic that he loves one set of people against another. One plus one equals one, apology to Dostoyevsky’s novel of ideas, Man from the Underground. For him, it means Fulani plus Fulani equals Kaduna S  tate. Or Fulani plus Muslim equals Kaduna State. So, for him, Kaduna is one, and it is Fulani. One is majority. Of what use are the over 30 nationalities in southern Kaduna? They may be many but less than one and Kaduna is just one. Maybe 30 are like the Biblical tower of babel, and his tribe bestows peace to his ears than the cacophony of variety.

Recently he said the presidency should go south. He who damned the south of Kaduna and dispensed with the Christians for reelection? He said he wanted a Muslim/Fulani as deputy and implied the Christians could go to hell. The fires of hell are alive in southern Kaduna.

His ticket went to heaven and won. So the same man wants presidency to go south, and anyone is taking him seriously? He is a closet comedian. If he cannot accept Non-Fulani on his ticket at home, why would he want it in Nigeria? So, when the NBA says they don’t want him to define who a Nigerian is, we deprived him a good platform to amuse us.

Theorists of liberty often clash with the concept of decency. It’s like Paul’s assertion, “Shall we continue in sin so that grace may bound?” Shall we allow El-Rufai to defile decency, so free speech may abound? The NBA says, Nigeria forbid. The thing is, he is immune to Lai Mohammed’s hate speech law.

But El-Rufai wanted NBA as a way to push for balance, to confess Nigeria, but act Fulani. The classic hypocrite. The hegemonist as inclusionist. The people of southern Kaduna want to be at peace. They may not always be innocent when the settlers lay claim to their own soils. But they should not be displaced because a governor separates memory from peace. He should not be a rabble-rouser as leader when the rabble has lost its temper. Men like him give peaceful Fulani-Muslims a bad name.

El-Rufai backs a southern president in order to be vice president. If the ticket wins, he may not wait three months to toss hot coal under the president’s seat and whip up headlines.

His concept of society is caste. He does not want equality. He touts it until he flouts it. He wanted a Christian beside him in the first term and Muslim afterwards. He remembered he gave money to appease the plunderers before he forgot.

He is like what Historian Isabel Wilkerson is saying in her new book, Caste: the origins of our discontent. It looks at how racism in America is like a caste system. That is how El-Rufai is looking at the folks in southern Kaduna. He is saying to the over 30 tribes to “keep to your caste,” in the words of Emile Bronte in Jane Eyre. That is his concept of who is a Nigerian.

He should know we run a republican constitution, and he may sit on the governor’s throne today. But as Victor Hugo quips in his novel, Les Miserables, “A chair is not a caste.”

How I Escaped From Police Custody – Ibadan Serial Killer

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Ibadan serial killer, Sunday Shodipe, has narrated how he escaped from Mokola Police Station in Ibadan, the Oyo State capital last Tuesday.

The Ibadan serial killer said the police officer warned him not to make any attempt to escape while taking his bath.

Speaking further, the Ibadan serial killer said he was not even thinking of running away at that point. He disclosed that he finally escaped when he saw that the officer was engrossed in a discussion with another person and not paying attention to him.

His words: “The new female DPO asked officer Funsho to allow me take my bath. He cautioned me not to try to escape when I am taking my bath.

“I escaped when I saw him discussing with another person. I climbed the borehole pole and jumped the fence. The people living in the area saw me when I escaped but they did not raise any alarm.”

The suspect had killed about eight people, mainly women at Akinyele Local Government Area of Oyo State.