Home Blog Page 282

Lawyer in shock as client becomes pregnant for husband in the course of divorce proceedings

Edidiong Offiong, a female lawyer, was left in utter shock after discovering that her client, who had filed for divorce, was seven months pregnant with the same husband she was attempting to legally separate from!

The incident, which unfolded during a court session, was shared by Offiong on her law firm’s official Facebook page. She narrated how the divorce case she was handling took a completely unexpected turn, leaving her emotionally drained and professionally stunned.

Offiong explained that from the onset, she recommended peaceful settlement, noting that the husband was open to reconciliation. However, her client firmly declined all efforts at resolving the matter out of court.

Despite the husband’s persistent calls begging her to mediate or help speak to his wife directly, the client remained unyielding. With no progress in sight, Offiong proceeded with the court case as instructed.

The suit was making significant progress when, two weeks before a critical court appearance, the client informed her of her intention to withdraw the case. When asked for a valid reason, the client calmly disclosed she was pregnant.

Initially alarmed that the pregnancy could further complicate the case if another man was involved, the lawyer investigated and discovered to her greatest surprise that the pregnancy belonged to the same husband her client wanted to divorce.

The revelation caused a stir in court, especially when the opposing counsel cheekily suggested that the court should ask Offiong why she looked surprised if she had been informed. The opposing counsel had known about the pregnancy but chose to remain silent.

Offiong admitted she didn’t know whether to laugh or cry during the hearing. The husband smiled throughout, repeatedly thanking her, while the once-defiant client stood shyly behind him, creating a highly awkward atmosphere.

The lawyer expressed her frustration, lamenting the emotional toll the case had taken. She described the couple as two lovebirds who stressed her unnecessarily, only to reunite behind her back while litigation was ongoing.

She ended her account with advice to couples considering divorce: if you’re not fully ready to end your marriage, seek a break or attempt peace talks, don’t surprise your lawyer and the court with unexpected outcomes mid-trial.

The lawyer’s text in full:

I withdraw a divorce matter I have been handling for a client today in court.

Reasons; my client is about seven months pregnant for his husband.

I don’t have a problem with her pregnancy because they’re still married unless nature or the Court decides their divorce.

My frustration is that I first recommended amicable settlement, my client was not ready to give in at all but her husband was ready. I don’t know how the husband managed to get my contact, he keeps calling that I should persuade my client or I should help him do vvoman to vvoman talk with her. I did my best but my client said NEVER. I proceeded to Court as instructed by my client.

Suit was going well in court and we were at the verge of breakthrough, only for me to receive the shocking news two weeks ago that she wants to withdraw the suit. Well, I have no choice than to suit her but I must have a valid reason to tell the court. To my greatest amazement my client softly said she’s pregnant. I was scared if it’s for someone else so we find a way out. On further investigation, pregnancy is for her husband. N/B they’re currently on the divorce together.

Two love birds that had difficulty settling amicably stressed my brain

Not the opposing counsel telling the court that the court should ask me why I’m wearing a surprised face if “I was not informed”
God knows I wasn’t informed…! Counsel knew it but he kept quiet, waiting for my client to use his mouth and talk.

When I say I’m suffering, y’all think it’s a joke

When Lawyers or people in Court that witness this things say it, y’all think it’s a joke.

I didn’t know whether to cry or laugh. My client’s husband was smiling and thanking me a million times and my client was shy behind the husband…Iyip chi’ses di’nyanga mien

If you’re not ready for divorce, don’t take any step.

Try settlement first or you take a little break. Don’t come and take me by surprise after you’ve turn backyard and do one or two fucjkyydfffkkk with your partner…..ke ndo owo ekek o!

Amiloadednews

Presidency replies sceptics, says Tinubu’s visit to Saint Lucia is strategic engagement, not vacation

Contrary to the position of critics on President Bola Tinubu’s trip to Saint Lucia, the Presidency on Sunday defended his ongoing state visit to the Caribbean country, describing it as a landmark diplomatic and cultural mission.

Former presidential candidate and Labour Party leader, Mr. Peter Obi, condemned the President’s trip to Saint Lucia, calling it an ill-timed and insensitive decision in the face of deepening national crises.

In a post on X (formerly Twitter) on Saturday, Obi said he was “struggling with my senses to understand what is happening to governance in this country.

“What I have seen and witnessed in the last two years has left me in shock about poor governance delivery and apparent channelling of energy into politics and satisfaction of the elites, while the masses in our midst are languishing in want.”

Likewise, rights lawyer and law teacher, Prof. Chidi Odinkalu, in his Sunday column titled: Democracy Without Voters: The origin of Nigeria’s insecurity crisis had condemned the trip saying: “While the country burns, the president has curiously eloped to Saint Lucia, a territory of about 179,000 persons described by the Global Organised Crime Index as ‘a key Caribbean transit hub for cocaine shipments bound mainly for the US, Europe or Canada.’ To the Nigerians concerned about the optics of all this, it is as if all he can offer is the middle finger.”

Odinklalu, however, added that: “The only thing more abysmal than the indifference of the ruling APC government to the current crisis of mass-murder across the country has been the disgraceful abdication by the political opposition. In the midst of all this carnage, little has been heard from them. Instead, opposition politicians have been hyper-active in the political transfer season herding into the APC.”

In all, the Presidency insists that the visit is rekindling Nigeria’s ancestral and strategic ties with the Caribbean nation and the wider CARICOM bloc.

According to the Presidency a in statement signed by the Special Adviser to the President on Information and Strategy, Bayo Onanuga, said, “In the wake of some Nigerians’ misguided, mischievous, and uninformed comments regarding President Bola Tinubu’s historic state visit to Saint Lucia, it is necessary to clarify the purpose of the visit.”

The statement is titled ‘Why President Tinubu is on a state visit to Saint Lucia.’

It added, “First, from the perspective of the Government of Saint Lucia, the visit by the Nigerian leader paves the way for the rekindling of our ancestral bonds, igniting a new era of diplomatic, cultural, and economic possibilities between our nations.”

Onanuga explained that Saint Lucia, like many Caribbean nations, has deep ancestral roots connected to West Africa, especially Nigeria.

The statement read,” In the mid-19th century, a wave of immigrants from present-day Nigeria arrived in Saint Lucia, bringing cultural and religious practices that persist today.

“Citizens of Saint Lucia are excited that President Tinubu has chosen to visit the island.

“They long to strengthen their bonds with African nations with which they share ancestral links.”

The Presidency described the visit as a major effort within the framework of South-South cooperation and Nigeria’s Four D’s foreign policy strategy- Democracy, Development, Diaspora, and Demography.

It said, “Saint Lucia is the headquarters of the Organisation of Eastern Caribbean States and the gateway to the 15 CARICOM member states.

“The CARICOM states have a combined GDP of over $130 billion, a significant figure in South-South trade discourse.”

Citing diplomatic and historical bonds, Onanuga recalled key historical ties between Nigeria and Saint Lucia, most notably the life and career of Sir Darnley Alexander, a Saint Lucian who served as Chief Justice of Nigeria from 1975 to 1979.

“Sir Darnley Alexander, a Saint Lucian-born jurist who died on February 10, 1989, served as Chief Justice of Nigeria from 1975 to 1979,” it said, adding that, “He first came to Nigeria in 1957, recruited as a legal draftsman by the Western Regional Government of Chief Obafemi Awolowo.”

It explained that Alexander became the acting Director of Public Prosecutions in 1958.

In 1960, he was appointed Solicitor General and Permanent Secretary of the Western Regional Ministry of Justice.

Four years later, he was appointed a judge in the Lagos High Court, and in 1969, the defunct South Eastern State appointed him the chief judge.

He later became the Chief Justice of Nigeria in 1975, succeeding Sir Teslim Olawale Elias.

The presidency also highlighted the contributions of other Saint Lucians, including Neville Skeete, who helped design the Central Bank of Nigeria headquarters, and Sir Darnley’s son Michael, a frontline medical officer during the Nigerian civil war.

On the cultural front, the Presidency stated that Tinubu’s visit aligns with the African Union’s Sixth Region agenda, which recognises the African diaspora as a key development partner.

“Nigeria actively fosters cultural exchange through collaboration in education, culture, and heritage preservation.

“Our cultural exports, including Afrobeats, Nollywood, and literature, are already making a significant impact on Saint Lucia and the wider Caribbean,” it said.

Highlighting Nigeria’s growing cultural footprint, the statement noted, “The Gros Islet Street Party is arguably one of Saint Lucia’s most famous cultural events. It has been held every Friday for over 50 years.

“On the Friday before President Tinubu’s arrival, Afrobeats and Nigerian music dominated the airwaves, a testament to Nigeria’s growing soft power and cultural footprint.”

On democratic values, the Presidency stressed that “Saint Lucia is a stable parliamentary democracy, making it a natural ally for Nigeria, which has enjoyed 26 years of uninterrupted democratic governance.”

During the live coverage of Tinubu’s arrival, a Saint Lucian commentator reportedly described him as a “fighter for democracy.”

Regarding Nigeria’s growing population, the statement said, “Nigeria is projected to become the third most populous country in the world by 2050.

“President Tinubu has consistently emphasised that Nigeria’s youthful population is a driver of economic transformation via education, industrialisation, and innovation.”

As part of his itinerary, President Tinubu is scheduled to visit the Sir Arthur Lewis Community College to deepen educational partnerships.

The delegation also includes members of the Nigerian Technical Aid Corps, who are deployed to ACP countries to provide professional services.

“This assistance is delivered through the deployment of Nigerian professionals to recipient countries to address specific needs,” Onanuga explained.

The statement added that Saint Lucia’s Prime Minister will host a reception for the Nigerian community, where they will meet with the President and his delegation.

“This event is a unique opportunity for the Nigerian community to interact with their President and discuss matters of mutual interest, further strengthening the ties between the two nations,” the presidency said.

Saint Lucia, which gained independence in 1979, has hosted fewer than 10 official state visits.

The last visit by an African leader was President Nelson Mandela’s in 1998 during the 19th CARICOM Heads of Government Summit.

Oba-Ship Dignity: Obas must accept traditional customs and burial rites of the institutions they voluntarily joined! By Justice Phillips Akinside

Traditional rulers in Ogun State must submit to the customs and burial rites of the institutions they voluntarily joined, a state High Court judge, Justice Phillips Akinside, has declared.

Speaking at the fifth Chief Kehinde Sofola Memorial Bar Lecture on Wednesday, the judge argued that once a person becomes an Oba in accordance with the customs of their people, they forfeit the right to opt out of those same customs — even in death.

Delivering the keynote address at the event organised by the Nigerian Bar Association, Sagamu branch, Akinside said: “If selection/nomination, appointment and approval of the appointment of a candidate to a chieftaincy is done in accordance with the customs and traditions of his people, it stands to reason that his installation and burial rites should also be in accordance with such customs and traditions.”

He added “The Obas have no right or legal right to change the tradition they have voluntarily come into. Under the 1999 Constitution of Nigeria, a person has the right to practice any religion of his choice.

“He can be born a Christian, become a Muslim or vice versa. If he chooses to become a traditionalist, he is at liberty to do so. Having done so, he cannot change the goalpost in the middle of the match and complain that his right to religious freedom has been infringed. He seemed to have waived such right.”

Akinside also said the upgrade of Bales or the direct appointment of a chief by the state executive council to the status of a coronet oba had generated a lot of controversies.

He, however, said the coronet obas were minor chiefs without prescribed authority and therefore lacked the power to install chiefs in their domain.

The Chief Judge of Ogun State, Justice Mosunmola Dipeolu, urged legal practitioners to prioritise the rule of law and protect the people’s fundamental human rights over tradition.

Justice Dipeolu, represented by Justice Adetokunbo Jibodu, said the theme of the annual lecture, “Obas And Chiefs Law Of Ogun State: Chieftaincy Disputes, Their Effects On The Community And Legal Protection of Religious Freedom,” could not have come at a better time, as it helped to address the core issues of social cohesiveness, cultural identity and fundamental rights of the people of the state.

He said the theme of the annual lecture also brings to bear the intricate intersection of law, tradition, community stability and individual liberty.

Dipeolu stated that the 2021 Obas and Chiefs Laws of the state, as amended, establish the legal framework for the recognition, appointment, grading, regulation and deposition of traditional rulers in the state.

He added that the objectives of the laws were commendable as they helped to preserve culture and tradition and promote order and legitimacy by establishing explicit protocols for ascending to traditional stools assuring legitimacy and avoiding turmoil among others.

He, however, said despite the legislative framework, chieftaincy disputes remained a significant challenge in the state, as in many parts of Nigeria.

He added that the issue of fundamental rights to religious freedom about the traditional institution also remained a struggle.

Addressing the challenge at hand, Dipeolu urged the legal practitioners to be inspired by the life of the late Chief Sofola (SAN) who exemplified legal expertise, unshakeable principles, and a strong dedication to justice for all.

The CJ described Sofola as a jurist par excellence and icon in the legal profession, whose life exemplified quality, integrity and steadfast dedication to the rule of law.

Welcoming the participants, the Sagamu NBA branch chairman, David Efuwape, said the choice of the theme was to help broaden people’s horizons on the 2021 Obas and Chiefs Law of the state, while the outcome of the discussion could also be the basis for the review of the law.

Efuwape said his leadership would continue to engender the legal practice anchored on the promotion of justice, equity, and fairness while promoting peace, unity and harmony in the state.

There were also goodwill messages from the Akarigbo and paramount ruler of Remo land, Oba Babatunde Ajayi as well as the former Speaker of the state House of Assembly, Kunle Oluomo.

Climate Change: Tuvalu joins other Pacific island nations to apply for Australian climate change visa

Over a third of Tuvalu citizens have entered the ballot for a world-first climate visa which would allow them to permanently migrate to Australia.

Opening for the first intake on 16 June, the influx of registrations could indicate that programme will be hugely oversubscribed, with only 280 visas awarded to Tuvalu citizens from the random ballot each year.

The visa programme has been pegged by the Australia’s foreign affairs department as a landmark response to the threat of climate-related displacement.

At just five metres (16ft) above sea level, the tiny Pacific archipelago is one of the most climate-threatened nations in the world.

There have been 1,124 applications submitted to the ballot as of 27 June, which accounts for 4,052 Tuvalu citizens with the inclusion of family members.

The island nation is home to 10,643 people, according to census figures collected in 2022.

Getty Images A very narrow stretch of land is surrounded by shallow turquoise water.

If successful, holders of the Pacific Engagement visa will be granted indefinite permanent residency in Australia, with the ability to freely travel in and out of the country.

The visa will also provide for Australian supports on arrival in the country, such as access to the country’s Medicare system, childcare subsidies and the ability to study at schools, university and vocational facilities at the same subsidisation as Australian citizens.

Entry to the 2025 ballot costs A$25 (£11.93, $16.37), and will close 18 July.

The new class of visa was created as part of the Australia-Tuvalu Falepili Union, announced in August 2024, which includes a commitment by Canberra to defend the island in the face of natural disasters, public health emergencies and “military aggression”.

“For the first time there is a country that has committed legally to recognise the future statehood and sovereignty of Tuvalu despite the detrimental impact of climate changed-induced sea level rise,” said Prime Minister Feleti Teo in a statement last year.

Scientists at Nasa have predicted that the majority of land mass and critical infrastructure in Tuvalu will sit below the level of the current high tide by 2050.

Source: BBC

Democracy Without Voters: The origin of Nigeria’s insecurity crisis

By Chidi Anselm Odinkalu

“On matters of security, the bulk (sic) stops at the President’s table.” Bola Ahmed Tinubu April 2014

On 26 January 2009, the Mamman Bello Ali died. He was the governor of Yobe State in north-east Nigeria. At around the same time, an anti-terrorism campaign by the government of Nigeria in Yobe State and its neighbour, Borno State, was about to make a murderous transition into a full-blown insurgency. As Governor Mamman Ali made his earthly transition in a Florida hospital, his deputy, Ibrahim Gaidam assumed office on the same day as the new governor of Yobe State. Today, as Minister of Police Affairs in the federal government, Governor Gaidam, whose life in politics has included a stint as a member of the Senate, has high responsibility for policing the country. He is so ineffectual in this role that few Nigerians notice his existence.

Around 9 November 2014, a suicide-bomber dressed as a student detonated himself in the middle of school assembly at the Government Boys Secondary School in Potiskum, Yobe State. The police confirmed that the attack “left 47 people dead, including the suicide bomber. Another 79 were wounded. Dozens of students were injured so severely medics were unable to save them.” It was a tragedy on an unspeakable scale. The blame for the attack fell on Jama’atu Ahlis-Sunna Lidda’Awati Wal-Jihad, (the Islamist insurgency better known as Boko Haram). Ibrahim Gaidam was still Governor.

The following day, President Goodluck Jonathan’s campaign was in full swing as he sought the support of the country for his re-election in 2015 under the banner of the then ruling Peoples’ Democratic Party. The All Progressives Congress, then newly formed as an opposition Alliance was quick to take political advantage. It described Jonathan’s campaign launch as “insensitive and callous” and accused him and the PDP of “dancing on the graves of the pupils as well as of all the victims of Boko Haram insurgency.” The APC took the opportunity to recall another mass-casualty bombing incident in Nyanya on the outskirts of Abuja in April 2014 and said that following that incident, “President Jonathan went dancing ‘Azonto’ in Kano less than 48 hours later.”

In the period from 2009 to 2014, when Islamist violence of Boko Haram in north-east Nigeria transitioned into a full-blown insurgency, the Peoples’ Democratic Party (PDP) was in power. Educational infrastructure bore a major brunt of the attacks by the group which built a brand in murderous violence by campaigning against Western education. The worst-affected states – Borno and Yobe – happened to be outside the orbit of the ruling party. In the half-decade to 2014, the violence accounted for at least 611 teachers reportedly killed and another 19,000 forced to flee. In 2014 alone, the insurgency killed over 6,644 persons in the affected states.

In May 2014, the United Nations Security Council listed Boko Haram as a terrorist organisation. Three years earlier, the Gaji Galtimari Presidential Committee on the Security Challenges in the North-East Zone of Nigeria had reported that the group “started as an innocuous non-violent group” around 2003.

This rise in Boko Haram’s campaign of mass-casualty violence was both new and shocking. The response of the then ruling government appeared slow, ponderous, and mal-adapted. It was also political season. The escalation in the attacks and killings from the Islamist insurgency in north-east Nigeria in 2014 coincided with the run-up to Nigeria’s 2015 general elections.

For the PDP in power at the time, it was a struggle to manage the optics of campaigning in the midst of growing carnage. The APC, then a new opposition formation, relished in its role, making political capital out of the situation. Its forceful critique of the PDP’s management of the Boko Haram insecurity or lack of it was central in ensuring the defeat of the ruling party in the 2015 election.

The popular narrative of Muhammadu Buhari, the APC candidate for the presidency in 2015, as a no-nonsense soldier did more than any other thing in reassuring Nigerians that the party would bring competence to the handling of the crisis of insecurity in the country. Instead, since then, insecurity in Nigeria has metastasized under the successive presidencies of President Muhammadu Buhari and his successor, Bola Ahmed Tinubu. The violence, which was mostly confined in the states of the north-east one decade ago, has become hydra-headed under various nomenclatures all over the country.

In its latest Conflict Barometer (2024) report, the Heidelberg Institute for International Conflict Research identified at least 10 sites of active, conflict-related killings in Nigeria, at least five of which fall into the highest classifications of seriousness.

In the north-east, Boko Haram has mutated into a confederacy of mass-murder under different appellations, each seeking supremacy in an Olympiad of mass-casualty violence.

In North-Central Nigeria, the party chose to mis-characterise as “farmer-herder” clashes, a methodical campaign of land-grabbing by people described by the government mostly as “foreigners.”

Under the watch of the APC government, in 2021, the north-west overtook the northeast in mass-casualty atrocities. Unable to manage the situation in the region, the government took to labeling the perpetrators of the atrocities in the north-west as “bandits.”

Unlike the north-east where improvised explosive devices (IEDs) and suicide-bombers were major features of the insurgency, the major items in the violence in the north-west are motor-bikes and Kalashnikovs. Yet, the government cannot account for how these bikes and guns get into the hands of those who use them to habitually liquidate Nigerians on an industrial scale.

Kaduna was central in this shift. Installed in power in 2015 in the APC Tsunami as the new APC Governor of strategically significant Kaduna State, Nasir El-Rufai, was voluble in promoting mass-murder as profitable, incredibly proclaiming on national television how he paid the killers of Nigerians in order to encourage them to stop killing. The casual malevolence of his proferred justification was beyond shocking: “We got a group of people that were going round trying to trace some of these people in Cameroon, Niger and so on to tell them that there is a new governor who is Fulani like them and has no problem paying compensations for lives lost and he is begging them to stop the killing.”

Even worse, the mis-management of the insecurity under the government of the APC has smacked of a level of indifference, cynicism, and lack of empathy that the PDP would never have dreamed of. In Benue State last week, all of this was on show. Forced by public opinion finally to re-route himself to visit victims of mass liquidation in Benue State, in Nigeria’s Middle Belt, President Bola Ahmed Tinubu first had children line up in the rain to be splashed with mud by his majestic convoy before the obligatory serenading from uniformed women living in internal displacement from the violence. It was right out of the manual of political narcissism jointly authored by Louis VIX and Marie Antoniette.

While the country burns, the president has curiously eloped to Saint Lucia, a territory of about 179,000 persons described by the Global Organised Crime Index as “a key Caribbean transit hub for cocaine shipments bound mainly for the US, Europe or Canada.” To the Nigerians concerned about the optics of all this, it is as if all he can offer is the middle finger.

The only thing more abysmal than the indifference of the ruling APC government to the current crisis of mass-murder across the country has been the disgraceful abdication by the political opposition. In the midst of all this carnage, little has been heard from them. Instead, opposition politicians have been hyper-active in the political transfer season herding into the APC.

Those who expect the police, armed and security services to shoot the country out of this crisis are unlikely to get their wish. The durability of Nigeria’s insecurity crisis is essentially a crisis of irresponsible political leadership. The security services can only implement a strategy set by the politicians. At the moment, the politicians are fixated on 2027. By then, in many parts of Nigeria, there may be no voters left and many of those in place would have been displaced from their voters cards. But the politicians do not have to care because they do not need voters to get into office. That is the original sin of insecurity in Nigeria.

A lawyer and a teacher, Odinkalu can be reached at [email protected]

The views expressed by contributors are strictly personal and not of Law & Society Magazine.

Nigeria, From Where Comes Our Help

Paper delivered by Prof. Mike Ozekhome, SAN, at a Public Lecture held at the University of Ibadan, Ibadan, Nigeria

Nigeria, a country endowed with vast human and natural resources, holds a central position in the African geopolitical and economic landscape. With a population of over 220 million people[1] and significant crude oil reserves, it stands as the continent’s most populous country and one of its richest in terms of natural endowment. Yet, in the face of such wealth and demographic strength, Nigeria continues to struggle with enduring challenges that undermine its national potential. These challenges include insecurity, political instability, widespread poverty, youth unemployment, institutional decay, and a general lack of trust in public leadership. In light of these contradictions, a growing number of Nigerians have begun to echo a timeless question: from where comes our help?

The question is derived from the first verse of Psalm 121 in the Christian Bible, which reads, “I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh my help?”[2] It is a question that is not merely spiritual but deeply existential, especially in the Nigerian context. It reflects the desperation of a people caught between national promise and persistent dysfunction. It articulates the psychological fatigue of citizens who, despite their resilience, continue to suffer under the weight of political mismanagement, corruption, violence, and socio-economic dislocation.

The Nigerian Constitution, which came into effect in 1999 at the beginning of the Fourth Republic which proclaims that: “the security and welfare of the people shall be the primary purpose of government.”[3] Despite this declaration, the lived experiences of millions of Nigerians suggest otherwise. Armed conflict in the northeast, kidnappings across the middle belt and southern regions, rampant banditry in the northwest, and urban violence in major cities all point to a severe failure of the state’s primary function[4]. Additionally, public infrastructure remains poor, healthcare systems are overstretched, and the education sector continues to suffer from underfunding and industrial actions[5]. About sixty-three (63) percent or 133 Million Nigerians are classified as multidimensionally poor according to a 2022 report by the National Bureau of Statistics[6].

This national predicament has caused many citizens, particularly young people, to seek opportunities abroad. The mass migration phenomenon, popularly referred to as “Japa,”[7] has become symbolic of the growing loss of faith in the Nigerian system[8]. Professionals, including doctors, engineers, and academics, are leaving the country in large numbers, further weakening an already strained domestic workforce. Trust in electoral processes has also declined, with the 2023 general elections drawing criticism over logistical failures, voter suppression, and credibility questions[9].

2.0       THE HISTORICAL BURDEN

Nigeria’s modern history is a tapestry of promise, pain, and unresolved contradictions. At independence, we inherited a nation bursting with potential—vast natural resources, a young and aspirational population, and a promising institutional framework. Instead, what followed was a pattern of squandered opportunities and structural erosion.

Enshrined in our national narrative is the repeated failure to translate constitutional gains into real development. Despite over six decades of self-rule, we remain “geometrically vast in population but arithmetically poor in growth and maturity”[10]. We are a country blessed with human and material wealth, yet we see systemic neglect that has left us living in poverty, craving justice, and struggling for basic dignity[11].

The collapse of industrial capacity—from Ashaka Steel and UAC to defunct national carriers—presents a haunting symbol of our reversal[12]. We once ranked among the world’s fastest-growing economies, yet today we languish as the poverty capital of the world[13]. Security, once taken for granted in our communities, has become a luxury beyond reach[14]. These are not isolated anomalies; they are the symptoms of deep-seated historical neglect and institutional decay.

2.1       The Leadership Question

If historical roots reveal the weeds, leadership is the rot at the core. Professor Chinua Achebe famously described our national pathology as “a failure of leadership.” Today, this remains painfully true[15]. Leadership in Nigeria has too often been about power without purpose, about patronage instead of public service—about self-enrichment rather than national enrichment.

We have seen leaders who see themselves not as servants of the people, but as lords over them. They are shielded from accountability by institutional fragility, surrounded by sycophants, and driven by self-interest—all while democratic forms mask oppressive realities[16].

Our leaders have weaponized ethnicity and religion to divide us, perpetuate fear, and justify incompetence. Where there should be bridges, they construct walls. Where there should be unity, they sow discord[17]. Boko Haram’s emergence is not simply about ideology—it is also a bitter outcry against exclusion and injustice perpetrated by the centre[18].

Yet all is not lost. Countries like South Korea, Singapore, and Rwanda—once in situations far worse than ours—found their way through transformative leadership committed to national unity and long-term planning[19]. These nations remind us: leadership matters. It can be the fulcrum on which fortunes change, or the pivot by which potentials perish.

2.2       The Socio-Economic Quagmire

Nigeria’s socio-economic landscape is stuck in a vicious cycle of poverty, inequality, and underdevelopment. Our nation, blessed with abundant natural and human resources, finds itself paradoxically impoverished—a phenomenon that Ozekhome aptly referred to as “economic insecurity,” where even formal recession looms amid plenty[20].

Consider the widening chasm between rich and poor. Oil revenues—our supposed lifeline—fuel government coffers but barely trickle to rural communities, where most Nigerians toil[21] . The result is an economy that offers few jobs, delivering neither dignity nor hope. Amid this landscape, disillusionment festers: “poor compensation or remuneration breeds inequality and affects productivity,” and, ultimately, fosters instability[22].

Infrastructure, a critical foundation of development, often exists more as blueprint than reality—pipelines rusting unused, railways decaying, power grids failing to deliver. Industrial capacity has collapsed, smothered by theft, neglect, and foreign neglect. The country that could build steel now depends on soup-imported cans—and cooks with candles dusk till dawn.

Such socio-economic dislocation does more than impoverish—it erodes civic trust, deepens regional inequality, and fuels insurgencies. When work is scarce, and wages low, people withdraw from the system; some even take up arms. This quagmire, thus, is not merely about money—it is about hope, dignity, and the breach of the social contract.

2.3       The Identity Crisis & Insecurity

The insecurities of Nigeria are not solely a breakdown of public order; they are symptoms of a fractured national identity. Ozekhome has observed this as the “national question,” rooted in exclusion and aggravated by systemic non-inclusiveness—where minorities feel neither seen, heard, nor represented, and unity becomes a fragile facade[23].

Violent extremism, whether Boko Haram in the northeast or Biafra agitation in the southeast, is often less about ideology, more about grievance. The latter can be traced to hunger, unemployment, arbitrary governance, and perceived marginalisation in citizenship and opportunities[24].

Similarly, farmer-herder clashes, kidnappings, and communal violence act as distress calls from a society convulsed by contest for survival and dignity. These conflicts, often labeled as ethnic or religious, are more accurately a byproduct of structural failure—an economy and polity unable to ensure order, equity, or access.

We witness, then, an erosion of the sense of “Nigerian” as anything more than a temporary label. Instead, we retreat into sub-national identities—ethnic, regional, sectarian—because the larger nation has failed to guarantee basic rights and security.

2.4       Youth & Diaspora: Seeds of Hope

Amidst the prevailing gloom, Nigeria’s youth and its diaspora emerge not just as observers, but as active catalysts for transformative change. As I pointed out in a discourse on democracy and governance, our youth are the architects of national renewal—the energy, innovation, and creativity they bring forward is Nigeria’s greatest untapped asset[25].

The diaspora, too, plays a critical complementary role. Often maligned as detached, they are in fact bridges across continents, channeling ideas, remittances, and global advocacy for reform. In recent contributions, I highlighted how diaspora legal professionals, working in concert with civil society, can offer invaluable support to our institutions—whether advocating for judicial independence or providing technical training to Nigerian lawyers and judges[26].

Consider these real-world interventions:

  • Diaspora groups funding leadership training and gender quotas, inspired by models like Canada’s Equal Voice program—boosting inclusivity and representation[27].
  • Financial and technical support flowing to local initiatives such as BudgIT and Enough is Enough—vital for fostering budget transparency and youth engagement in political processes[28].
  • Remittances—nearly $20 billion sent home in 2023 alone—acting as economic lifelines for millions of families, directly sustaining education, healthcare, and small enterprises These accomplishments are neither anecdotal nor peripheral; they are deep wells of possibility. They show that while the state may falter, individual Nigerians—especially the young and those abroad—continue to build, innovate, advocate, and reconnect Nigeria to global opportunities.

If “help” is to come from anywhere, it must come in part from the hands, hearts, and minds of these citizens—those within and beyond our borders who refuse to surrender to despair. They are our seeds of hope.

Click here to read and download the entire paper.

NIGERIA.-FROM-WHERE-COMES-OUR-HELP-By-Mike-Ozekhome

[1]WorldMeter, ‘Nigeria Population’ <https://www.worldometers.info/world-population/nigeria-population/> Accessed on the 20th of June, 2025.

[2]Psalm 121:1 KJV.

[3]Section 14(2)(b) 1999 Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria (As amended).

[4]Nsirimovu, Okwuwada, ‘The modern day Consequences, Causes, and Nature of Kidnapping, Terrorism, Banditry, and violent crime in Nigeria: A comprehensive analysis’ (2023) <https://www.researchgate.net/publication/371691686_The_modern_day_Consequences_Causes_and_Nature_of_Kidnapping_Terrorism_Banditry_and_violent_crime_in_Nigeria_A_comprehensive_analysis> Accessed on the 20th of June, 2025.

[5]ibid

[6]National Bureau of Statistics (2022) <https://www.nigerianstat.gov.ng/news/78> Accessed on the 20th of June, 2025.

[7]ThisDay News, ‘Nigeria and Burden of Japa Syndrome’ (2023) <https://www.thisdaylive.com/2023/05/02/nigeria-and-burden-of-japa-syndrome/> Accessed on the 20th of June, 2025.

[8]ibid

[9]Dii, Christian, ‘Voters’ disposition and the outcome of 2023 general elections in Nigeria’ (2023)International Journal of Development and Management Review18 (1).

[10] Ozekhome, Mike, Nigeria @60: No social justice, religious and inter-ethnic tolerance (commentary, 2020), The Niche, The Vanguard Nigeria, https://thenicheng.com  and https://www.vanguardngr.com. (accessed June 2025)

[11]  Ozekhome, Mike, [Ibid. n.3]

[12] Mike Ozekhome, Me Celebrate Nigeria at 60? Sorry, No!!! – HARD FACTS, 2020. (newswirelawandevents.com) (accessed June 2025)

[13] Ibid n.3

[14] Ozekhome, Mike, Me Celebrate Nigeria at 60? Sorry, No!!! – HARD FACTS (2020), Newswire Law & Events, https://newswirelawandevents.com. (accessed June 2025)

[15] Ozekhome, Mike, Is This the Nigeria of Our Dream? (lecture, 2015), Mike Ozekhome Chambers, https://mikeozekhomeschambers.com. (accessed June 2025)

[16] Ibid

[17]Ozekhome, Mike, Me Celebrate Nigeria at 60? Sorry, No!!! (2020), Newswire Law & Events, https://newswirelawandevents.com. (accessed June 2025)

[18] Ozekhome, Mike (quoting James Madison on Boko Haram), A New Nigeria of Our Dream (2015), The Eagle Online, https://theeagleonline.com.ng. (accessed June 2025)

[19] Ibid n.2

[20]Ozekhome, Mike, “Economic Insecurity” (commentary, 2025), Mike Ozekhome Chambers Facebook, https://www.facebook.com/ozekhomemikeSAN/ (accessed June 2025).

[21] Wikipedia, Poverty in Nigeria, 2025, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Poverty_in_Nigeria  (accessed June 2025).

[22]Ozekhome, Mike, Minimum Wage, Maximum Rage (2024), BarristerNG, https://barristerng.com/minimum-wage-maximum-rage-by-professor-mike-ozekhome-san-con-ofr/  (accessed June 2025).

[23]Ozekhome, Mike & Sani, Shehu, “Ozekhome, Sani Others Seek Constitution Review to Address Nationality Problem” (2023), The Guardian Nigeria, https://guardian.ng/news/ozekhome-sani-others-seek-constitution-review-to-address-nationality-problem/  (accessed June 2025).

[24] Vanguard, “Ozekhome on IPoB and National Inclusivity” (2022), https://www.vanguardngr.com  (accessed June 2025).

[25] Ozekhome, Mike, Has Democracy Led to Good Governance for Nigerians? (Part 1) (2025), Mike Ozekhome Chambers, https://mikeozekhomeschambers.com/nigerias-political-leadership-since-1960-and-rhythms-of-corruption-part-8/ (accessed June 2025).

[26]Sight News, “The Role of Nigerian Diaspora Groups in Enhancing Electoral Processes, Governance and Democracy,” by Ozekhome (May 2025), https://thesightnews.com/2025/05/01/the-role-of-nigerian-diaspora-groups-in-enhancing-electoral-processes-governance-and-democracy-by-prof-mike-ozekhome-san/  (accessed June 2025).

[27] Sight News, [Ibid.] (ref. 19).

[28] Sight News, [Ibid.] (ref. 19).

That 461-billion dollar wedding, how riches of Lauren Sanchez and Jeff Bezos’ guest list scale up to more than the GDP of South Africa, Bangladesh or Denmark

It has been described as the ‘wedding of the century’, with Michelin star food, foam parties and more stars than the Oscars.

But as 200 VIP guests descended on the the church at Giorgio Maggiore, the one kilometre square island would host a total wealth worth more than the entire GDP of South Africa, Bangladesh or Denmark.

Bride and groom Jeff Bezos and Lauren Sanchez alone are worth a staggering $263.8billion, more than the total value of all goods and services produced in New Zealand.

And as the world’s wealthiest men and women gathered in the 16th-century basilica to celebrate the Amazon mogul’s nuptials, they brought together a total wealth of more than $461billion.

The GDP of South Africa is a lowly $380billion by comparison – while Denmark is $407billion and Bangladesh is $437billion. Greece, at $243billion, is only just more than half as much.

They included tech billionaires, reality TV dynasties and legends of film and TV – who danced away among the glittering Venetian canals until the early hours of this morning.

Reportedly costing $20million and stirring fury among the local residents, stars were treated to a $1,000-a-head meal while there was a strict no-phone policy at the ‘extremely intimate’ affair.

Here MailOnline looks at some of the top big-hitters, and how the world’s wealthiest man managed to attract more than ten times the wealth needed to end world hunger to the pews of an Italian church: 

Bezos’ $461bn guestlist:

Jeff Bezos and Lauren Sanchez: $263.8bn

Bill Gates: $117bn 

Miguel Bezos: $30bn 

Francois-Henri Pinault: $18.5bn

Barry Diller: $4.2bn 

Josh Kushner: $3.8bn 

Oprah Winfrey: $3.1bn 

Domenico Dolce: $2.4bn 

Stefano Gabbana: $2.4bn 

Lachlan Murdoch: $2.1bn 

Kim Kardashian: $1.7bn

Sam Altman: $1.7bn 

Diane von Furstenberg: $1.2bn 

Jerry Seinfeld: $1.1bn 

Scooter Braun: $1bn 

Ari Emanuel: $1bn 

Jared Kushner: $900m 

Crown Prince of Jordan, Hussein bin Abdullah: $750m 

Kylie Jenner: $670m

Tom Brady: $530m 

Tommy Hilfiger: $450m 

Brian Grazer: $400m 

Leonardo DiCaprio: $300m

Kris Jenner: $200m 

Ted Sarandos: $200m 

Usher: $180m 

Wendy Ding: $100m 

Gayle King: $80m 

Barack Obama: $70m 

Khloe Kardashian: $60m 

Kendall Jenner: $60m

Ivanka Trump: $50m 

Tony Gonzalez: $50m 

Orlando Bloom: $40m

Karlie Kloss: $40m

Sydney Sweeney: $40m 

Queen Rania of Jordan: $35m 

Ellie Goulding: $30m 

Corey Gamble: $15m

Jewel Kilcher: $14m 

Edward Enninful: $9m 

Sarah Staudinger: $3m

Sara Foster: $3m 

Sarah Jane Nader: $2m 

Guilherme Siqueira: $1.5m 

The celebs

With glamour and gliz the key factors of the Venice spectacular, hoards of celebrities descended on the historic centre for the big day.

Oprah Winfrey, 71, showed off her slimmed-down figure as she travelled across with her pal Gayle King.

The TV personality, worth $3.1billion, flaunted her toned curves after dropping the pounds using weight-loss drug Ozempic.

Gayle, 70, is herself worth $80million and seems to have been brought as the media mogul’s plus one.

Orlando Bloom, worth $40million, set pulses racing as he travelled to Venice as one of the world’s most eligible bachelors, having recently split from fiancée Katy Perry.

The star, whose former partner is putting on a brave face while touring Australia with their daughter Daisy, four, was spotted smiling with a series of glamorous women as he made the most of the celebrations.

Jerry Seinfeld, worth $1.1bn, looked smart in black tie as he was seen leaving The Gritti Palace and joining fellow A-list guests on a water taxi alongside his glamorous wife Jessica.

The cookbook author beamed in a sparkling gown as they patiently waited outside the 15th century palazzo.

Tom Brady, who has a net worth of $530million, risked an awkward-run in with his former flame Brooks Nader as they were both among the flocks of A-listers arriving in Venice.

But the NFL star – who is also currently single – was seen enjoying a swim, cocktails and lunch during a lads’ day out at the Hotel Cipriani – alongside Bloom, Leonardo DiCaprio, Scooter Braun and Edward Enninful.

The group ordered tequila, did laps of the pool and stayed under the radar as they seemed in good spirits at one of Venice’s most luxury hotels.

DiCaprio, worth $300million, covered his face with a black cap throughout the weekend as he attended the wedding with his stunning girlfriend Vittoria Ceretti.

The model, 27, who has been dating the 50-year-old Hollywood actor for two years, was all smiles as she left the Gritti Palace Hotel before being helped into a water taxi in an elegant black dress. 

And American sweetheart Sydney Sweeney, 27, is said to have stolen the show as a source claimed she was the ‘most sought after person’ during the festivities.

Worth $40million, she confirmed her split from fiancé Jonathan Davino earlier this year.

Brady was reportedly seen chatting her up at the hotel bar over the course of the multi-day lavish wedding extravaganza while she wowed guests with her ‘down to Earth’ and ‘fun’ personality, in addition to her stunning looks.

Wearing a strapless pink dress that featured a ruched bodice, she styled her signature blonde locks with beachy waves on the big day.

Pregnant Karlie Kloss, worth $40million, exhuded summery glamour as the 32-year-old supermodel also alighted on the Italian city, while expecting her third child by her husband Joshua Kushner.

And Ellie Goulding, 38, made an unexpected arrival at the first day of the highly-anticipated three-day nuptials, surprising fans as no connection between her and the bride and groom has been made publicly known.

The hitmaker, who is worth $30million, looked nothing short of sensational in a plunging nude gown covered in royal blue sequins in an intricate floral pattern. 

The reality dynasty

The stunning wedding was a prime location for the Kardashians – who united to celebrate their billionaire friends with suitable eccentricity.

Late last night as the party wrapped, photographers captured Kim and Khloe Kardashian making a speedy getaway in a waiting water taxi. 

The bleary-eyed sisters, true to form, posed for the cameras as the boat set sail – throwing up peace signs and making duck faces at the awaiting lenses. 

A little while later, their supermodel sister Kendall Jenner made her own escape, weaving through the city’s canals and posing against the breathtaking backdrop of Italy’s finest architecture. 

This morning Kim and Khloe were spotted wearing casual ensembles as they made a low-key exit from the Italian city, presumably to board a private flight back to Los Angeles. 

Their mother Kris, 69, and sisters Kendall, 29, and Kylie, 27, were nowhere in sight as the duo headed out of Venice, as they appeared to be staying in the city for longer. 

It comes despite the celebrations are far from over, with the festivities slated to continue at the Arsenale di Venezia on Saturday night. 

The reality star family hit the shops as they celebrated Khloe Kardashian’s 41st birthday in Venice.

And Kim was mocked as she couldn’t seem to stay off her phone, snapping selfies nonstop throughout the day. She even slipped in a sizzling SKIMS promo, flaunting an animal print bikini on social media.

Kim Kardashian is worth $1.7billion, with Kylie Jenner close behind at $670million. Kris Jenner has a reported $200million while Kendall and Khloe are worth $60million. 

The tech billionaires 

Among the wealthiest guests at the Bezos-Sanchez wedding were Jeff’s fellow tech billionaires, who made soaring profits from revolutionary new computers and systems.

Bill Gates – the inventor of Microsoft and the world’s third richest man – was among the masses, lending his $117billion fortune to the total.

Before the big day the 69-year-old was spotted in a casual black polo shirt and shorts as he explored the lagoon city with his girlfriend Paula Hurd, 62.

For the wedding itself he shed the Silicon Valley-esq dress and looked smart in black tie, mingling outside the church entrance. 

Third on the rich list is Miguel Bezos – Jeff’s adoptive father – who gave their son $245,573 in the mid-1990s as he crowdfunded to start his now-famous online store.

Their fortune is now said to be worth £30billion as Amazon rocketed to success.

Barry Diller, who founded the internet and media conglomerate IAC, is now worth $4.2billion – with successes including the launch of online travel giant Expedia and The Daily Beast.

OpenAI founder Sam Altman also made the list despite being just 40. As one of the leading figures in the AI boom, he has made an estimated $1.7billion.

Ted Sarandos, the co-CEO of Netflix, was a further addition, with a less considerable $200million dwarfed by his fellow tech-bros.

The fashion moguls

Amazon billionaire Jeff Bezos is said to have ‘gasped’ when he set eyes on Lauren Sanchez in her stunning bespoke Dolce & Gabbana gown.

So it perhaps made sense that both Domenico Dolce and Stefano Gabbana – both worth $2.4billion – were in attendance to see their creation in action.

The elaborate wedding dress contained lacy, floral sleeves, a tight bodice, high neckline, long flowing skirt with an enormous train, and buttons down the front. 

Dolce looked classy as he attended the wedding, pairing a black jacket and shirt with a statement, bedazzled necklace.

Gabbana, dressed down as he left the Gritti Palace, was immaculate in a matching black polo shirt and trousers, with a smart black belt.

CEO of Kering Francois-Henri Pinault, who was once married to Hollywood bombshell Salma Hayek, also looked smart in black tie as he paired the look with black sunglasses.

Pinault, who is worth $18.5billion, took the reins of his father’s retail conglomerate Pinault-Printemps-Redoute in 2005, with the company owning brands including Yves Saint Laurent, Gucci, Balenciaga and Alexander McQueen.

Tommy Hilfiger left fellow guests worried as he nearly took a tumble during the celebrations on Friday.

The fashion designer, 74, who is worth $450million, tripped while trying to get into a water taxi and narrowly avoided falling into the water in front of the newlyweds and all of their other A-list wedding guests. 

In the video, he is seen walking ahead of quarterback Tom Brady and chatting with those around him before stumbling and nearly falling face first into the canal.

An assistant helped steady the designer who then laughs off the misstep and continues on his way. He appeared to have lost his footing more than once but shrugged it off and threw up a peace sign to onlookers.

Ex-editor of British Vogue Edward Enninful, who is worth $9million, was also seen laughing and joking with other celebrities as they enjoyed the long weekend.

It comes after a heady week for the title – who today shared the insider interview with new bride Lauren Sanchez. On Thursday, Anna Wintour announced she was stepping down from one of her roles at Vogue after 37 years.

The statesmen 

And among some of the wealthiest in the world, some of the biggest names in global politics.

Barack Obama was on the guest list, despite having last year been at loggerheads with the groom over how his plans for space travel will affect the Earth’s future.

The former President, who is worth a reported $70million, chastised Silicon Valley’s huge rocket projects, saying ‘I would rather us invest in taking care of this planet here.’

He was joined in Venice by members of the Trump family, including the First Daughter Ivanka, who threatened to steal the show with a bridal dress that retails for $9,990.

Donning the Oscar de la Renta outfit for the rehearsal dinner, she ignited security concerns after she posted a photo of her hotel room number alongside several pictures of herself and husband Jared Kushner in their formal attire.

Ivanka is with $50million, while Jared’s wealth tops $900million.

Jared’s younger brother, businessman and investor Josh  Kushner who is worth $3.8billion, was also in attendance.

Meanwhile, the Crown Prince of Jordan, Hussein bin Abdullah also made a rare appearance to go to the Bezos wedding with their baby daughter.

Worth an estimated $750million, the future King of Jordan looked stylish in a relaxed fit as he left the airport while little Iman looked adorable in a special white summer dress.

This article was originally published on 28 June 2025 by Daily Mirror as The 461-billion dollar wedding: How riches of the Lauren Sanchez and Jeff Bezos’ guest list tot up to more than the GDP of South Africa, Bangladesh or Denmark.

Abducted Zamfara judge escapes from kidnappers

A Sharia Court judge attached to the Higher Sharia Court in Birnin Tudu, Gummi Local Government Area of Zamfara State, Alkali Usman has escaped from captivity after being abducted by unknown gunmen.

Zagazola Makama learnt from reliable sources that Usman, who was reportedly kidnapped on June 26, returned home safely on Friday morning, June 27, about 10:00 a.m., according to local sources.

Upon his return, the judge was immediately taken to a nearby hospital, where he received medical attention and was subsequently discharged.

He was later debriefed by security operatives and reunited with his family.

Authorities have not disclosed the circumstances surrounding his escape.

Zagazola Makama

Senator Umeh, the lying general and a fallen house

By Chuks Iloegbunam

Chief Victor Umeh, the Senator representing Anambra Central at the National Assembly, has instituted a lodestar that must henceforward be emulated by all legislators from the South East geopolitical zone, whether serving in their states of origin or Abuja. Last week, Senator Umeh called General Yakubu Gowon, Head of State of Nigeria from August 1966 to July 1975 to order.

He told Gowon that he owed Ndigbo an unreserved apology, the absence of which is at the root of the nation’s enduring instability.

What had Gowon done wrong? For the third time since October, when he turned 90, the man has, in three public statements on the Nigerian condition, demonstrated that appropriating the truth was beyond his competence. Had he heard of and listened to Emmanuel Kant (1724-1804), Gowon would have remembered the German philosopher’s warning that, “By a lie a man throws away and as it were annihilates his dignity as a man.” Just by the one lie, warned Kant. Of Gowon, however, the dreadful reality is his preponderance of concocting a legion of barefaced lies, a chronic incapability to face the truth, even for one millisecond.

General Gowon granted an interview to the Daily Trust on October 19, 2024. He spoke again on June 7, 2025, when he was honoured for, believe it or not, “Integrity and Achievement” by a Christian body of the Abuja Anglican Diocese. Finally, on June 18, he granted Arise TV an 80-minute interview. It raises eyebrows that a man central to Nigeria’s contemporary history, who had remained taciturn since his ejection from power half a century ago, has suddenly become enamoured of mass media profusion. It is astonishing that in all three of the cited interventions, he reiterated his proclivity to distort the truth to the imperatives of his sectional political agenda.

Among the living, the questions Gowon is best suited to answer are only a handful. What happened during the coup d’état of January 1966? What happened during the countercoup d’état of July 1966? How did he, as Nigeria’s commander-in-chief, prosecute the Biafran war? What is his scorecard as the country’s leader for nine years? What is the state of the country he bequeathed to posterity? Unfortunately, his answers to these inerasable questions fly in the face of logic and veracity.

Arise TV’s Charles Aniagolu asked Gowon about the current state of Nigeria. The General replied that the entity was surviving! His interviewer’s polite reminder that there was a distinction between surviving and thriving sounded to him like a rifle shot aimed at the moon. There are, however, more sensible opinions on the subject. In 1995, Jerome Udoji, a career public servant, published his memoirs titled Under Three Masters. (Spectrum Books Limited, Ibadan). Chief Udoji (CFR) became a household name when, in 1972, the Gowon regime appointed him the Chairman of the Public Service Review Commission, which recommended, among other things, hikes in civil service salaries that became known as the Udoji Awards.

With his boundless experience, Chief Udoji commented on the state of Nigeria on page 154 of his book: “It is a matter of regret that I have to conclude this account of my forty-five-year career with a feeling of disappointment and concern. Disappointment because Nigeria in 1992 and 1993 is not the Nigeria of my dreams when, in 1948, I decided to join the administrative service of Nigeria, nor is it the Nigeria I knew when we got our independence in 1960. Then everyone both in Nigeria and outside hoped that she would be the show case of democracy and stability in Africa. That expectation was borne out of her vast reservoir of human and natural resources. What does one find today? A country without national consciousness, loyalty or identity; a country torn by the cleavages of tribe and ethnicity; a country that was ravaged by a Civil War barely five years after independence; a country which during its thirty-three years of independence, has seen five military coups, four attempted ones, six military leaders and only nine years without soldiers in power; a country with frequent religious riots, election malpractices and widespread corruption; above all, a country where the governed have lost confidence and hope in government.”

Thirty years after the publication of Udoji’s memoirs, the evils he lamented have become compounded by out-of-gear corruption, the cowardly capitulation of two of the three main arms of governance – the Judiciary and the Legislature, a steep, upward spiral in violent crimes, including wide-ranging incidents of kidnapping, piracy, insurgency, and terrorism, as well as the decapitation of sense from the essence of elections. Yet Gowon claimed that Nigeria was thriving.

Incongruously, Gowon professed to Arise TV an undying love for Ndigbo. But he pointed to nothing in support of his fatuous claim. His aggression against Biafra in the name of keeping Nigeria one had not caused the large, excruciating movements of the Igbo population, he stated. Ndigbo, who fled advancing Federal forces, should have stayed put because his soldiers were firing, not at humans, but palm trees.

What about the heavy artillery concentration that presaged every Nigerian attack? Were those aimed at iroko trees? Gowon blamed Ojukwu for hunger-induced deaths, not his junta, which proclaimed to the world that starvation was a legitimate instrument of warfare. After the war, said Gowon, his junta implemented the policy of Three Rs: Rehabilitation, Reconstruction, and Reconciliation. Yet, there isn’t a single post-Biafra primary or secondary school that was rebuilt under his watch. He promulgated the Indigenisation Decree with undue haste, knowing that the people he so loved lacked the funds to buy shares.

Yakubu Cinwa Gowon, the Igbo lover, was the one who instituted the Abandoned Properties infamy.
Of course, his greatest affection for the Igbo is in his fictionalised versions of concrete historical occurrences. He claimed to have quelled the January 1966 coup. He most definitely hadn’t because he had no command at the time. He appropriated the credit that belonged to General Aguiyi-Ironsi and Lieutenant Colonel Hilary Njoku, who put down the action.

He persists with his fairy tale long after the Cameroonian Colonel Hans Anagho had come forward to state that, as a Captain in the Nigerian Army, he had led the troops that chased out the rebellious forces. If Gowon had credited Ironsi and Njoku for their feat, it would have mitigated the charge that January 1966 was an Igbo coup. Gowon spread the fiction that January 1966 had cost no Igbo life.

He allowed Professor Jonah Isawa Elaigwu, his biographer, to lie that Lieutenant Colonel Arthur Chinyelu Unegbe, the Quartermaster of the Nigerian Army and a victim of the January 1966 coup, was from the Mid West. Yet he was the best man at Chinyelu’s wedding and knew that the fallen officer had hailed from Ozubulu in today’s Anambra State.

Still, Gowon’s unsurpassed affection for Ndigbo is in the political upheavals of 1966 and how he twisted them to suit his imagination. A near countrywide pogrom against Ndigbo lasted for months. Contrary to Gowon’s claims that he acted decisively to check the massacres, General Ibrahim Babangida said this: “Unfortunately, Gowon’s commitments to the Igbos that their lives were safe in northern Nigeria were unfulfilled. Almost simultaneously with the deliberations of the Leaders of Thought taking place in Lagos, perhaps the most horrific killings of Igbos occurred in different parts of northern Nigeria on September 29, 1966. The killings were frightening. A deluge of refugees swamped eastern Nigeria from practically all parts of Nigeria.” See page 63 of Babangida’s autobiography, A Journey In Service (Bookcraft, Ibadan, 2025).

Gowon reneged on the agreements he freely entered into with Ojukwu in Ghana, which was termed the Aburi Accord. Among other things, they had agreed on the creation of Area Commands for the Armed Forces, the decentralisation of the Police Force, and a new revenue formula. For failing to announce the Aburi Accord, he claimed to have been carpeted by a fever. When he eventually did, what came out was a document unrelated to what he had appended his signature to. The authentic text of the Aburi Accord is in existence. Its recorded version is available. Yet, Gowon continues with the fallacy that Ojukwu had released other than what they had agreed.

What about the coup that toppled Ironsi and took the General’s life? Like Nero fiddling while a conflagration reduced Rome to ashes, Gowon claimed to have slept through that night of bloody orgy! Victoria, the wife of General Ironsi, got wind of the coup the moment it commenced. Rose, the wife of Colonel Njoku, learnt about the coup as soon as it started. None of them could reach Gowon on the phone.

Not even Ironsi and Colonel Francis Fajuyi, who were trapped inside the Ibadan Government House, and Lieutenant Colonel Gabriel Okonweze, who was at the Ikeja Cantonment. But Gowon, who claimed to have been in a stupor, was able to hold a telephone conversation with Major T. Y. Danjuma, who received from him the command to do Ironsi in. No amount of lies will obliterate the fact that Gowon was the spearhead of the July 1966 countercoup, which is by far the bloodiest in African history.

Contextualised, the Gowon fabrications were grounds for Senator Umeh’s aggravation. His very words are apposite: “(Gowon) should be apologising to Ndigbo for the role he played in that coup instead of coming here to be insulting our sensibilities that the war was not against the Igbo. Who were the victims of the war? The countercoup was a cleansing of the Igbo officers in the Nigerian Army. He couldn’t say the people killed in the countercoup that were his own people. So, it was a reprisal coup against the Igbo, and the Igbo were not only killed as military officers, their businesses were destroyed across Nigeria.”

Nigeria lies comatose today because it refuses to confront its realities. Only the truth will reverse its ultimate collapse. That is why everyone with a conscience, not just South East legislators, must readily challenge falsehoods and self-serving narratives that harm rather than help the country.

As for General Gowon, it may well be that his media effluvia are a prelude to his much-anticipated but never-seen autobiography.

He must bear one thing in mind. The verdict on his time and actions will be passed by the inexorable and inevitable letters of history. Not by his deodorised and fanciful utterances. History invariably consigns political apostasy to the cesspit of infamy.

The views expressed by contributors are strictly personal and not of Law & Society Magazine.

When Love Turns To a Battlefield: The untold agony of men in marriage, By Wole Arisekola

Photo by Ketut Subiyanto

When the future is uncertain, the one who owns it may wander in confusion—unsure of where to begin or why the path ahead seems so dark.

In all my years of living, the one aspect of life that continues to baffle me—despite my experiences, wisdom, and emotional resilience—is the complexity of the relationship between a man and a woman, more commonly known as marriage. It is a union that promises heaven but often delivers a daily taste of hell. The more you invest in it—emotionally, financially, physically—the higher your chances of losing everything you’ve poured into it.

Marriage has become a battlefield where dreams die quietly and tears flow unseen. Frustration, anger, distress, disappointment, and the harrowing feeling of being used—these have become the daily companions of many men who simply wanted to love and build a home. The ones who dare to stay in it must be prepared—armored not just with love, but with the grit to endure storm after storm. They must expect betrayal disguised as affection and see suffering as part of the package of being “together.”

But here lies the brutal truth—someone must be used, someone must labour in vain, and someone must be prepared to be the fall guy. In most cases, that fall guy is the man. The provider. The protector. The one whose absence from home is not born out of neglect, but from the burning need to ensure the family eats, sleeps, and lives well.

Yet, society doesn’t tell that part of the story.

What is more heartbreaking is how some women—either out of bitterness, selfishness, or sheer manipulation—begin to poison the minds of their children against their father. They twist the story. They make the man, who is out there sacrificing everything, look like a stranger in his own home. They call him “irresponsible” because he missed a school play—yet forget that he was out working three jobs just so the child could wear shoes to that play.

These children grow up emotionally distant, confused, and with an unjustified hatred for the man who bled to keep them alive. They see their father as a ghost, not knowing he was forced into absence by responsibility—not abandonment.

Is this what love has become? A silent war where the soldier is shot from behind by those he protects?

Every day, countless men smile through their pain, hide their tears in traffic, and return home to a family that does not appreciate them. They sit quietly at dinner tables, heartbroken by the coldness of the very family they built. And when they try to speak up, they’re told to “man up”—as if manhood means silent suffering.

Marriage, once a sacred bond, is now a risky investment where love is the currency and betrayal is the inflation. The emotional wounds it leaves behind are often deeper than physical scars. And in this cruel game, it’s always the silent ones who suffer the most.

Let us begin to tell the whole truth—especially to the next generation. Not all men who are absent are irresponsible. Many are silent heroes, fighting battles no one sees, carrying the world on their shoulders, and bleeding quietly in the name of love.

In all, we must live a fulfilling life and never stop doing what makes us happy.
We come into this world alone, and we will return alone—leaving all we have behind.

Good night to all the unforgettable heroes—the shock absorbers of the entire family.
The generals who are always leading from the frontlines of every war.

Mogaji Wole Arisekola writes from Ibadan.

TIPS