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Doctor, I have a wife and girlfriends; but it is harlotry for a married woman to have other men

By Adesida Adewumi, MD

With the kind permission of Mrs Omotola, I share her so that you can learn about the damage the society has done to marriage.

I was the doctor on duty that night. It was around 12 midnight when I heard a woman screaming from outside my consulting room “Doctor save my life o! Doctorrrr please save me”.

I rushed out from inside my consulting room to see what was happening. I saw a woman bleeding from her head and face and she was wearing her night gown. I was confused.

“Madam what is the problem? Were you attacked by armed robbers? Are they chasing you? Madam talk to me.”

“It is my husband doctor, he beat me”, she managed to answer as she rushed inside my consulting room.

“So where is your husband, Madam?

Before I could blink I saw the hefty looking ferociously angry, in tow. I greeted him. He didn’t answer me.

“Where is the harlot? Idiot, I will kill you and bury you with my bare hands. Harlot!”

All these were very confusing to me.

Eventually I was able to calm the man down while the wife was hiding inside my office. I appealed to the man to allow me save the life of the wife first because she was bleeding, which he did but as I was sowing the wound in the head and face of the woman, the man would occasionally throw insults at her and call her harlot! Idiot!

In my head I couldn’t wait to know the story of this couple that led to this situation. After I stopped the bleeding and the woman was stable. I kept her on a drip while I asked the husband to tell me all that happened.

The man started again in fury and started raining all manner of insults on the woman but two most prominent insults were those of harlot and idiot. I had to beg him to stop and tell me everything calmly.

Then he began: “Doctor, can you believe my wife was sending her naked pictures to a small boy in Lagos. A married woman!!!

“A mother of one!!!” He screamed further.

“Doctor, I saw it on her phone when she slept off on the chair in the sitting room while chatting with her boyfriend.”

I would not lie to you, after hearing this I was shocked.

The man continued, “Doctor, do you know I read it in their chat that my wife was even planing to travel to Lagos and meet the small boy so that they can have a date? I never knew I married an harlot”. My heart sank further hearing this. Really? I muttered to myself.

Well before I asked the woman to tell me her own side of the story, I asked for the man’s name because all the uproar did not even allow me to ask since. He said his name was Mr Kehinde… and I asked the wife what her name was she said Mrs Omotola (not the real name) .

“Sorry, madam. I don’t know if you are strong enough to tell me your own side of the story.”

The woman sat up and began: “Doctor, it is three years now I married this man (pointing at him). Since I married him, he has had an affair with at least seven women in the past. Even now as I speak he has nothing less than five girlfriends.”
I was aghast, and my mouth fell open.

“How are sure of all these Madam?” I asked in utter shock.

“Dr., I saw it on his phone. He sent his naked pictures to different women. In fact, doctor let me tell you some of the messages I saw on his phone. One lady was asking him if the last time they had sexual intimacy if he didn’t remove the condom? My husband replied no. Another lady asked him that he should send money for the abortion on time or else she would keep the baby. Another woman was telling him that her husband would be travelling by Saturday they could meet in their regular hotel. Doctor, the one that shocked me most was one lady in the choir in our church that my husband told me he was helping financially because the lady was fatherless and she gained admission to university, the message I read from that one was if he got her pregnant again, this time around she would keep the baby because he didn’t listen to simple instruction that he should use protection always. Then the lady went ahead to ask for #50,000. My husband promised her for her birthday. Doctor, do you know my husband sent her the money and this man you are seeing here has never given me #10,000 before for my birthday since we married him three years ago. In fact he forgot my last birthday. I can continue…..”

I said “it is okay, madam.”

But there was no stopping her,. She was in tears. “Doctor, do you know that my husband has slept with my best friend that was my chief bridesmaid in our wedding?.”
Now I had to find a seat.

“Doctor, my husband doesn’t come home until midnight or after since we got married. He spends all his time and money in clubs with small small girls despite being an elder in the church (church’s name withheld). Since I got married three years ago I could count the number of times my husband has touched me. Anytime I complained he would threaten me that he would divorce me if I disturbed him too much. I confronted him with all the things I saw on his phone, and guess what, doctor? He told me to leave the marriage if I was not okay with them. His grouse was that I touched his phone. That I didn’t have any right to touch his phone or read his messages as his wife.”

“Doctor, after I had done all I could to beg him to stop this reckless life before he would come home and infect me with HIV, and he didn’t listen, I reported him to his best friend but I later saw a message from his best friend advising him to change his password and be more careful with his phone with me. When his best friend wasn’t helping I told his family and also reported him to our pastor in church. Doctor, can you believe the advice his family and the pastor gave me? I should stop touching his phone.”

“Did you say his pastor in the church advised you to avoid his phone and let him continue? A pastor said that?” I queried unbelievably.

She continued “Doctor, I accept everything he accused me of. Doctor I was so lonely. It was in the process of my utter loneliness that the small boy he was referring to chatted me up on my Instagram handle and we became friends. I shared my frustrations and loneliness in my marriage with him from time to time and he usually consoled me.”

As she was saying this, Mr Kehinde cut in and dropped the bombshell: “DOCTOR, I AM A MAN. IT IS UNDERSTANDABLE IF A MAN HAS A WIFE AND GIRLFRIENDS BUT ANY WOMAN THAT HAS A HUSBAND AND STILL HAS A BOYFRIEND IS AN HARLOT “

“Did you hear what this shameless woman is saying? pointing to the wife, I am through with this marriage.”

I looked at this man and asked in shock, “Is this your response to all her accusations against you? I thought you would deny them and tell me they were not true.

“The accusations are true and that is my response. As a matter of fact, let her not try to come back to my house o because I will kill her. This one I beat her will be nothing compared to the beating I will give her.” He stormed out of my consulting room.

“He is not bluffing o, doctor. He will kill me o because he almost did if not for the neighbours that came to my rescue”.

So I asked her who we could call that she could temporarily stay with. She said their pastor. We called her pastor. He came to the hospital with his wife who testified to all the things Mrs Omotola said to be true. He confirmed that they had tried their best over the couple’s issue. They took her to their house and that was the last I heard about the case. This story you just read happened five years ago.

Fast Forward:

Two weeks ago, guess who I met in another state where I travelled to attend a wedding. It was Mrs. Omotola. I noticed one woman was calling me in the crowd I didn’t recognise her immediately until she came very close. Lo and behold, it was Mrs. Omotola looking young,fresh and much more beautiful than five years ago when I saw her last. She greeted me with a broad smile and introduced her new husband to me and introduced me to the new husband as the doctor that God used to rescue her from her ex-husband that wanted to kill her that night. The new husband thanked me profusely. Guess he had been briefed about the ex-husband saga. Then I asked for an update of what happened after that night.

According to her, the summary was that her former husband divorced her. She never went back to his house again. The pastor and his wife helped her to pack her things out of the house. From pastor’ s house back to her parents’ house. She was granted custody of her only son after the divorce. The son now stays with her mother. She met her new husband two years ago and they have been living happily to date. She has another child already for the new husband.

Then I asked her this question before saying good bye to her at the wedding. “Madam, you told me that night that your ex-husband was having all these girlfriends since you got married to him…. Okay, what about when you were dating and in courtship, was he having affairs with many girls then or he just suddenly changed after your wedding to him?

“Doctor he had many girlfriends then o but I was already 30 years old with so much pressure on me from my parents and friends to get married, I overlooked all those danger signs just to get married, by force by fire, because of pressure. Besides, he also promised me that he would change after our wedding but, doctor, I have learnt my lessons in a bitter way that people don’t change. If they can’t change when you are dating and in courtship with them, they will even be worse when they finally marry you. I just thank God for giving me a second chance in life.”

As I said my parting goodbye to her that day at the wedding, seven lessons were running through my mind. Below are the lessons:

Lesson Number 1:
This is to all young ladies reading this story. That a man says he is a Christian does not make him a Christian. Christianity is what you do, not just what you say

Lesson number 2:
Don’t ever ignore danger signs in a relationship and courtship. If a man who claims to be a Christian is womanising and beating you, that man is not a Christian. You know a Christian by his fruits

Lesson number 3:
Don’t allow desperation to get married, because you already attained the 30 years age limit society set for you push you into a lifetime of regret. It may even cost you your life.

Lesson number 4:
Society, please stop setting this useless double standard that a man is free to commit adultery in marriage, but it is a taboo for a woman to do the same. Only an irresponsible society encourages this.

Lesson number 5:
Women, take note of the kind of friends the man you want to settle down with has. Most likely that is who your husband is. Show me your friend ….

Lesson number 6:
Women, this is for you: be careful of social media in resolving your marriage problems. Be careful who you talk to on social media. Being in an abusive and adulterous marriage does not permit you to get involved in immorality with another man. If you can’t cope, get separated and uphold your honour.

Lesson number 7:
In as much as I will not support divorce in marriage, I will advise any woman who is going through the same thing in this story to separate from such irresponsible man and marriage because if he doesn’t kill you with sexually transmitted diseases, he will kill you through domestic violence!

(Credit:Everyday)

▪︎ Dr. Adewumi is a Family Medicine Specialist, based in Kano. Follow him on Facebook at “FROM INSIDE MY CONSULTING ROOM “; his health page on YOUTUBE and INSTAGRAM @doctorhealtheducation; on Twitter @doctorhealthed1; and on WhatsApp at: +2348068649694. He gives daily education on health plus free daily consultation.

Modeling success and empowering ingenuity in Enugu, By Osmund Agbo

Dr. Osmund Agbo

is with immense joy and a great sense of honour and gratitude, that we welcome everyone here to the first ever Enugu Technology and Innovation Fair. Truth be told, with the myriad of socio-economic and political challenges facing Nigeria today, the idea of hosting a technology and innovation fair of this nature is in and of itself a revolutionary act.

We wish to thank God almighty for his supreme guidance. We congratulate our hardworking and dedicated team at the E-tech Centre and many of you, too numerous to mention here who played a pivotal role in putting this together.

We are especially appreciative of the effort of our partners, especially the Enugu State government, led by his Excellency, the Rt. Hon. Ifeanyi Ugwuanyi and the Enugu-based start-up incubator, Hardware Garage for making this day possible.

Most importantly, we wish to extend our profound gratitude to the young, sharp and innovative minds here today. How can we forget the great sacrifices each one of you have made individually to come this far. Your inquisitive, ingenious and avant-guarde spirits represent the future of Nigeria. Thank you.

Of course, we cannot fail to acknowledge all of you here present. We are deeply honored by your presence and please be rest assured that we do not take your support for granted.

It’s through the collaborative effort and total commitment of all of you that made this day even possible. It takes a village and we thank you all immensely.

With that said, let me quickly remind us why we are here and why today is so special. It is the day that we as a people, have elected to leapfrog the effort in transforming this nation from a beggarly produce-based monolithic economy, heavily reliant on crude oil revenue to a technology-driven, knowledge-based one with limitless potential. If we as a people will thrive in a restructured Nigeria, there is a need for new sets of revenue streams that do not depend on the monthly allocation from the federation account. If Nigeria will survive in the 21st century, it has to be weaned off of overdependence on crude oil which is fast being replaced by more environmentally-friendly energy alternatives. This leap, ladies and gentlemen, is very crucial to our survival.

In January last year, yours truly wrote a widely circulated open letter to the South-East Governors. In the letter, we bemoaned the fact that Ndigbo with all our famed ingenuity and spirit of enterprise, are punching way below our weight. We reiterated the fact that as a people, based on our current socio-economic realities, we are not just ill-prepared but poorly positioned to function in the present or take on the future.

In addition to widespread insecurity, poor and decrepit infrastructure, the lack of access roads between our sister states continues to hamper what should be a seamless movement of goods and services across state lines. Our region has consistently lagged behind others in terms of being a favoured destination for new investment capital. We argued that to survive in a post-oil Nigerian economy, our people need to massively invest in areas of science and technology so as to transform our nation in general and the South-East in particular, to an innovation hub that will spur wide ranging economic activities. Ladies and gentlemen, part of the fulfillment of that dream is why we are here today.


Our method is simple. Harness the innovative spirit that propelled many inventions during the dark days of the Nigerian civil war to grow our faltering economy. The inventive mind that pushed us to make big things out of nothing is still alive and well. All we need at this time is for both our political and business leaders to buy into this redemptive idea.

In line with our vision, there are few steps we believe should be taken to make progress in that direction:

Create a conducive environment for innovative minds to develop and thrive. We do not need to be importing toothpick from China when we have young brains here that build drones (Unmanned Aerial Vehicle) in our backyards.
We recently completed a 150million naira Enugu Tech and Innovative Centre along Enugu-Abakaliki Expressway. It’s a 4000sqm of built space where innovators or would be innovators could have a space to practise their art. We have approached local colleges and also reached out to the federal universities of technology throughout the country in order to identify brilliant scientific minds and get them to partner and train in our centre. This is not a matter of doing the talk, we are actually walking the talk. But we can do a lot more with your support.

Seed Capital
Identify local technology startups with great economic potential and provide them with seed capital. In that regard, we are happy to partner with a reliable startup incubator called Hardware Garage. This company domiciled in Enugu and run by hardworking young Nigerians have successfully midwifed few local technology companies all the way from product development to commercial success. We need more of those.

Annual Enugu Technology and Innovation Fair
A yearly event like what we have today that brings together innovators and business people in one place, in a symbiotic relationship is critical to our effort. The innovators will help develop the parts and equipment needed to service local industries while business people will help the startups by investing in product research and development. Such an event will also position Ala-Igbo in particular and Nigeria in general as a technology hub within the West African sub-region.

Those are our goals and we are open to collaboration with anyone, willing and able to complement our effort.

Not too long ago, the National Bureau of Statistics (NBS) listed two out of five South-East states among those with poverty rate higher than the national average. My people, not only do I feel highly embarrassed walking around with such an unflattering label on a place I call home, but I am seriously troubled by it. I am sure we all feel the same way. What that means is that with all the song and dance we make about the Igbo spirit of enterprise, many of our people still manage to find themselves, living like the poorest of the poor. Of course, this is not just from the action or inaction of one administration, past or present. It’s a culmination of decades lost to the locust. Things are not looking good my people.

As Ndigbo, our history need not be that way. We are still the same people with an indomitable can-do spirit that defiles all odds. We are still the same people that rose from the ashes of war to build the strongest middle class in sub-Saharan Africa. And yes, we still have what it takes, today and even tomorrow. All that is required is to do away with the toxic mindset of self-defeatist crass individualism that elevates primitive accumulation of wealth to the detriment of all.

Ladies and gentlemen, Dr. M.I. Okpara, the man in whose memory this hallowed ground is named after, committed his life fully to the service of our people. It is therefore not surprising that many decades after his demise, his name continues to ring a bell and inspire awe in all of us. I can assure that M.I was not the richest man of his generation. The task before us today is therefore very simple. Be the change that you want in our society and hope to be remembered like Okpara.

We thank every one of you for coming. May God bless!

•Osmund Agbo, MD, FCCP
CEO, Enugu Tech & Innovation Center delivered this speech given during the maiden Enugu Technology and Innovation Fair held on Thursday, August 21 at Michael Okpara Square, Enugu.

Yesterday Was Better Than Today By Lasisi Olagunju

By Lasisi Olagunju Ph.D

Somehow, we’ve all, individually, managed to get by and get better but the country gets progressively worse every new day. I thought of how much I paid to get university education – my first degree. The first year, I paid N20 caution fee; I also paid N90 for accommodation. The second year, there was no hostel accommodation so I didn’t pay anything. The third year, there was no accommodation but the university authorities introduced an examination fee of N30. There were protests: “we no go gree…” The school was closed for weeks. We came back and still had to pay. Final year came; I paid N90 for accommodation and N30 examination fee. That was all. So, how much did I pay for my four years university education in Great Ife? I don’t need a calculator to arrive at the total – It was N260 (two hundred and sixty naira only). That was thirty-something years ago. A colleague who attended Ogun State University during same period told me her “fees in the university for four years was less than N1,500.” She paid so much because her school was a tuition-charging state university. Mine was federal; it was tuition free.

Was life really easy during our time? It was tough. We were told that the yesterday that preceded us was better. We were told students needed just N1.50k per day to feed very well on five-star meals. We were told government gave university students money they called bursary. There was subsidized feeding on campus. Tea was free; there were free fruits which the poor without meal tickets feasted on. We didn’t meet that. What we met was the receding aroma of good life. We met cracked hearthstones and cold cafeterias; we met dour dining chairs and sullen tables – all converted to reading items of furniture. We were very unlucky to enter the university shortly after the military came, sacked workers, cancelled bursary payments and annulled feeding in the universities. It was tough. It was during our time that 0-1-0 (one meal a day) or 0-1-1 (lunch and supper, no breakfast) as self-imposed meal-ration formula gained traction. Only children of the really rich could afford 1-1-1 (three square meals) per day. There was an influential Kaduna-based newspaper called New Nigerian. It died years ago because everything Nigeria touches withers. On Friday, June 14, 1985, it published a news piece on hunger in the universities. The introductory paragraph was: “Three square meals have become a luxury in the nation’s institutions of higher learning. This followed the withdrawal of food subsidies by the Federal Government…” So, you see, I am not making up these things. They may sound very far and distant in time, but they are true; they happened. What then was the experience like after we left? I would not know. I was not there.

I travelled back to that past because of an old sheet of paper which trended online last week. It is somebody’s 1984 list of how he or she spent N100 for housekeeping. The author of the paper listed 18 assorted food items that a hundred naira was used to buy. The person bought N14 yam, N6.50 meat, N2.10 beans, N3.60 rice etc. The sheet of paper was an instant Internet hit. It became a celebrity of some sorts and flew from one WhatsApp group to another. Then I remembered Jason Marcus’s song: ‘Yesterday Was Better Than Today.’ It is always better. Right at the top of the sheet was: “See the purchasing power of 100 naira in 1984. Small change still remain sef.” It is a commenter’s snide remarks. Other comments followed – a mixture of anger and self-mockery at what today offers. I took time to read as many as I could. I shook my head.

I forwarded the paper to a professor in America. He did not find it funny. He replied immediately: “Recall that 1984 was a very tough year.” He told me and I agreed with him – we queued to buy rice and sugar and milk and everything – the kind of spectacle you see in Venezuela. Lucky persons (like the author of that N100 sheet of paper) got stuffs to buy. Unlucky sellers and buyers routinely got thoroughly flogged by soldiers – the kind of sight you may see soon in Afghanistan. My professor-friend wrote back again that he hoped “future generations don’t look back at this horrible year, 2021 and sentimentalize how much N100,000 could buy.” I told him that I hoped so too. Then he added: “1984 was the first time in my life that I knew what hunger meant. Buhari’s boneheaded policy of changing currency brought enormous hardship. My dad lost all his money.” True. Many highflying beings during this period got grounded. It was tough for everybody who had to live through the affliction, the scourge. It was definitely tough for that person who took a whole N100 to the market and came back with a change of N5.30.

A decade before 1984. We were told that life was better. It was Nigeria’s oil boom era when money flowed freely for the elite and the other side salivated and died of envy. That was when the head of our government announced to the world that money was not the problem of Nigeria. He said the problem was how to spend it. There must be a way to do something about the careless positive entries on our balance sheet. So, in 1972, the Head of State, General Yakubu Gowon, set up a commission to review civil service standards and compensation in the country. The commission, headed by Chief Jerome Udoji, came up with a list of recommendations, the most popular of them was an increase in the salaries of public servants. The increase came with arrears because the decision was backdated. Then government workers got the Udoji awards and became rich. A colleague said after his dad “collected his Udoji largesse in 1974, he took N500 to the market and bought a brand new television set, a new refrigerator, a brand new fan, a new Karaoke music system and a brand new motorcycle.” Several white-collar homes experienced that transformation while others outside government offices carried the trash can. Even then, what was the exchange rate that time?

Nigeria introduced the naira on 1 January, 1973 as replacement for the Nigerian pound. At inception, the naira exchanged for $0.66; the following year, 1974, it appreciated to $0.63; ten years after, 1984, the naira exchanged for $0.77. By 1986, it collapsed under the weight of our husband’s insistence that the naira was overvalued. That year, for the first time, the naira bowed to the American dollar – it exchanged for N1.75/$. By 1988, it went down to N4.54 to a dollar; ten years after, in 1998, it moved further down to N21.89 per US dollar. Galileo’s Law of Falling bodies took over in 2015. That year, N192.44 equalled one dollar. In 2016, it fell to N253.49 per dollar; in 2017, it fell to N305.79 per dollar. In 2018, it fell further. It slumped in 2019; in 2020 it was N373 per dollar. In 2021, it is aiming at the sea bed. What was the value of the naira yesterday? A dollar exchanged for N530; one Pound Sterling was N722. Remember it was N2 per Pound at the inception of the naira in January 1973. What will happen when a dollar and a million naira become equals? Nothing. Nothing will happen. Nigerians and their country will just trudge on while their leaders hold feasts of wealth.

We feel daily that we may have failed permanently to halt the drift; that we have lost the ocean to the sharks and the whales – the big fishes who fat on small fishes. We, truly, are in precarious times etched in depressing headlines every day. We do not have the optimism that keeps other nations going in difficult times. Outside here, things get better. Outside here, people do what Max Roser, an economist at the Institute for New Economic Thinking at Oxford University, asks his people to do in moments of dire straits. He asks them to breathe in and breathe out and confirm that good things may be happening around them. Oxford is in the United Kingdom, so Roser could bask in sunny optimism. The economist tells his audience: “To really understand how the world is changing, you have to look at the big picture. You have to zoom out from the current events to understand in which direction the world is changing. We live in a much more peaceful and inclusive world than our ancestors of the past.” Of course, if you live in Nigeria as I do, you would have no problem disagreeing with the last sentence; what that economist said on peace and security. It was our ancestors’ world, not ours, that was a “much more peaceful and inclusive world.” They passed it to us, we lost that world – without tears.

Unless we collectively do something drastic about our situation, the cascading doom will consume us. Very soon, a dollar will exchange for one thousand naira and nothing will happen. On May 12, 2014 – seven years ago, I wrote here, in this column, that Nigerians don’t cry for long over anything, let alone grieve over spilt milk. Nothing has changed. We sustain nothing positive. Nothing shocks anyone in Nigeria for more than one second. It is a nation of solid shock absorbers. Nigerians’ journey through rough life rarely evokes the kind of grin you see on the faces of bumpy riders. Their ride, no matter how stress-filled, knows neither compression nor rebound. The damper in their system is beyond human comprehension. It confounds as it riles. Even amid tears, their eyes see and make excuses for failure. They don’t get blinded by events that pluck other people’s eyes. So, will today be better than what yesterday was? What does your religion tell you about how to get better? My own faith tells me that “Indeed, God will not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves.”

The North and the effect of Janus, By Hassan Gimba

I wrote the following on March 1, 2021. With what is happening, I find it still relevant, hence repeating it today.
I had intended to continue with the topic, ‘Nigeria and Presidential Democracy: Any Better Alternative? (3)’ but I had to suspend it; it is more of a proposal for the future. I had to look at what was immediate. Boko Haram (translated to mean Western education is a sin) advocates are threatening to overwhelm the North and impose their creed on a docile, perhaps Janus-faced, like people.

Since kidnapping for ransom became a fad on the Abuja-Kaduna road and in the bushes of the northwestern and central states of Nigeria, I started shouting here that it is a financial drive by Boko Haram. The kidnappers belong to their economic arm. They are only ignorant foot-soldiers being used as cannon fodder.

On December 24, 2018, I wrote on this page: “In the North West, armed bandits, perhaps Boko Haram with another face, are threatening to take over with Zamfara State almost under their control. It is under their control, well, almost, because they ransack communities at will, kill, maim and take as many as they can with them for ransom. The bandits can come to a marriage gathering and just demand the bride-to-be and she would be handed over to them, with thanks.
“The North Central has become a traveller’s nightmare—from Rijau, Birnin Gwari, Gwanin Gora, Rijana through Kaduna and down to the suburbs of the Plateau. One travels at one’s own risk as even four-star generals are not safe, being killed at will. Herdsmen kill every moving object and sack villages, burning everything to ashes. Kidnappers are also having a field day. Are some of them, especially the herdsmen and kidnappers, another face of Boko Haram, getting them the much-needed cash?
“Our security apparatuses possibly need a total overhaul and help from elsewhere. There has to be synergy among the different actors, and there is the need for modern policing methods and the revival of community policing.”
Yet two weeks later I again wrote: “We have been at war for quite a long time, but it became even more apparent with the return of the Dapchi girls. There was a real ceasefire when the girls were returned, the type we see in areas that are in a state of war, like Syria, Columbia with the FARC rebels and in parts of Congo and Uganda, where the Lord’s Resistance Army operates.
“It is an actual war when a militant organisation can ‘force’ the Nigerian government to sit with it and an agreement brokered by international bodies under the international Law of Armed Conflict.
“The president was quoted as ordering his service chiefs not to allow the abductions of girls again. A citizen, in the first place, would expect the president to tell his service chiefs not to allow the abduction of any citizen, not only schoolgirls. All citizens are citizens and want to feel equal before the law or before the eyes of their president.
“Farmers and voiceless Nigerians are being abducted by those who have declared war on Nigeria, but we have allowed them to play the music while we dance to the tunes.
“And it is this sort of thinking by governments that makes the militants strong. The ordinary citizen sees them as strong and comes to see that his government cannot protect him. It makes the ordinary citizen lose confidence in the country. Little wonder some abducted Nigerians have switched allegiance while others hail the terrorists (as happened in Dapchi) as ‘saviours’ because the people of Dapchi and elsewhere saw the power that should live with their government being exercised by enemies of the state.
“What has happened to our intelligence-gathering ability, especially in front-line states like Borno and Yobe, that Boko Haram fighters would gather, strut confidently, and move in convoys, sacking military bases, villages and towns, at will? Yet our army cannot confront them without support from the air force? The implication is that our soldiers are no match for them.”

It is quite a wonder how scores of marauders riding motorcycles with sawed-off silencers can leave the bushes, come to towns, operate for hours and pick hundreds of students and return to the bushes unchallenged. In the not-so-distant past, our security agencies used to have operatives called “stool pigeons”. They were the backbone of human intelligence (HUMINT) gathering. Our security agencies could deploy them in strategic areas/locations as tailors, shoe shiners, water vendors, etc.

Now, such HUMINT operatives can be scattered across the towns such that the moment insurgents or their economic arm, the bandits, come out, the operational headquarters of our security agencies will be aware. They could be farmers, hunters, villagers and even herders who are all over the place.

The way the innocent child sees their father as a superhero who will give it protection is the way the innocent citizen should consider his country. Unfortunately, we are learning the hard way that in Nigeria, no matter what happens, life goes on. The people’s innocence has been deflowered, but most importantly, their confidence in their country has been shot to pieces. We should fear the day when the citizens will no longer have respect for a government or society that cannot protect its own.
But such is even what is already happening. For instance, it is because the government has not lived up to the expectations of the citizens that concerned individuals like Sheikh Ahmad Gumi are taking the bull by the horns. And on the negative side, we have people like Sunday Igboho taking the law into their hands to “rid their areas of menace”.

The terrorist is by nature a leach; give him an inch and he will take a mile. But the worst aspect of the whole thing is that it is as if the federal government is not aware that it is dealing with ruthless, very intelligent terrorist organisations that see whatever they are doing as mind games.
Because we have failed to protect the weak, governments are not concerned about the plight of abducted individuals; the bandits have now become more emboldened. They go for those that the government must talk about. And it is working for them because in doing so, they are forcing the hand of the government to do what they desire: the abolition of western education.
Our schools are no longer the safe havens they used to be. Students and staff leave in fear of those who will come and take them unchallenged. The worst is that even if they kill one while doing it, nothing happens. Students have been shot to death in the recent kidnappings, yet the kidnappers are being thanked for “releasing” others. Who is to be held accountable for the death of the student? Is there anyone willing or ready to make someone pay for that crime?
So, the government on its own is now closing down schools—exactly what the terrorists want. For how long, not even the government knows. More numbers are now being added to our millions of out-of-school kids we are yet to do anything for or about. What will Boko Haram-orchestrated out-of-school children be doing? Any plans by the government for them or would they be roaming the streets with their minds idle, becoming the devil’s workshop? Does that sound like the death knell of education in Nigeria, specifically the north?
As long as they (Government) will not bring criminals to justice, as long as we continue treating them (criminals) with kids’ gloves, so long shall we continue to play into their hands. They see how others were given “amnesty” and “deradicalised” for taking up arms against the state, wreaking havoc on communities and letting blood flow. They see that the worst that can happen to them is “condemnation”. But condemnations, like rebukes, are meant for those who recognise your authority over them. This class of criminals does not recognise the condemning authorities.

Of course, one can understand the dilemma facing the government. On the one hand, there is the need to assuage public outcry and parents’ concern, hence the negotiations. On the other, the military and various intelligence agencies are finding it hard to end the menace posed by the insurgents and the bandits who are being fed with enough seed money to recruit, train and buy more arms. It is Hobson’s choice for the government.

I want to leave us with a short story written by one Aigg Giwa-Amu: The President was informed. The information got to him at 11 pm on that fateful day. He placed a call to the Deputy Governor of the State and told him tersely “… if by 10 am the next morning, your sons in the Niger Delta do not release the hostages, grass shall not grow in that region for the remaining part of my 4 years Presidency…”
The deputy Governor went into the creeks that night to negotiate the release of the hostages. They were released at 9 am the next day. They were Italians, British and French. That President was Olusegun Obasanjo. That deputy Governor was Goodluck Jonathan.

Modeling success and empowering ingenuity in Enugu, By Osmund Agbo

Dr. Osmund Agbo

It is with immense joy and a great sense of honour and gratitude, that we welcome everyone here to the first ever Enugu Technology and Innovation Fair. Truth be told, with the myriad of socio-economic and political challenges facing Nigeria today, the idea of hosting a technology and innovation fair of this nature is in and of itself a revolutionary act. 

We wish to thank God almighty for his supreme guidance. We congratulate our hardworking and dedicated team at the E-tech Centre and many of you, too numerous to mention here who played a pivotal role in putting this together.

We are especially appreciative of the effort of our partners, especially the Enugu State government, led by his Excellency, the Rt. Hon. Ifeanyi Ugwuanyi and the Enugu-based start-up incubator, Hardware Garage for making this day possible.

Most importantly, we wish to extend our profound gratitude to the young, sharp and innovative minds here today. How can we forget the great sacrifices each one of you have made individually to come this far. Your inquisitive, ingenious and avant-guarde spirits represent the future of Nigeria. Thank you.

Of course, we cannot fail to acknowledge all of you here present. We  are deeply honored by your presence and please be rest assured that we do not take your support for granted.

It’s through the collaborative effort and total commitment of all of you that made this day even possible. It takes a village and we thank you all immensely.

With that said, let me quickly remind us why we are here and why today is so special. It is the day that we as a people, have elected to leapfrog the effort in transforming this nation from a beggarly produce-based monolithic economy, heavily reliant on crude oil revenue to a technology-driven, knowledge-based one with limitless potential. If we as a people will thrive in a restructured Nigeria, there is a need for new sets of revenue streams that do not depend on the monthly allocation from the federation account. If Nigeria will survive in the 21st century, it has to be weaned off of overdependence on crude oil which is fast being replaced by more environmentally-friendly energy alternatives. This leap, ladies and gentlemen, is very crucial to our survival.

In January last year, yours truly wrote a widely circulated open letter to the South-East Governors. In the letter, we bemoaned the fact that Ndigbo with all our famed ingenuity and spirit of enterprise, are punching way below our weight. We reiterated the fact that as a people, based on our current socio-economic realities, we are not just ill-prepared but poorly positioned to function in the present or take on the future.

In addition to widespread insecurity, poor and decrepit infrastructure, the lack of access roads between our sister states continues to hamper what should be a seamless movement of goods and services across state lines. Our region has consistently lagged behind others in terms of being a favoured destination for new investment capital. We argued that to survive in a post-oil Nigerian economy, our people need to massively invest in areas of science and technology so as to transform our nation in general and the South-East in particular, to an innovation hub that will spur wide ranging economic activities. Ladies and gentlemen, part of the fulfillment of that dream is why we are here today.

Our method is simple. Harness the innovative spirit that propelled many inventions during the dark days of the Nigerian civil war to grow our faltering economy. The inventive mind that pushed us to make big things out of nothing is still alive and well. All we need at this time is for both our political and business leaders to buy into this redemptive idea.

In line with our vision, there are few steps we believe should be taken to make progress in that direction:

  1. Create a conducive environment for innovative minds to develop and thrive. We do not need to be importing toothpick from China when we have young brains here that build drones (Unmanned Aerial Vehicle) in our backyards.

We recently completed a 150million naira Enugu Tech and Innovative Centre along Enugu-Abakaliki Expressway. It’s a 4000sqm of built space where innovators or would be innovators could have a space to practise their art. We have approached local colleges and also reached out to the federal universities of technology throughout the country in order to identify brilliant scientific minds and get them to partner and train in our centre. This is not a matter of doing the talk, we are actually walking the talk. But we can do a lot more with your support.

  1. Seed Capital

Identify local technology startups with great economic potential and provide them with seed capital. In that regard, we are happy to partner with a reliable startup incubator called Hardware Garage. This company domiciled in Enugu and run by hardworking young Nigerians have successfully midwifed few local technology companies all the way from product development to commercial success. We need more of those.

  1. Annual Enugu Technology and Innovation Fair

A yearly event like what we have today that brings together innovators and business people in one place, in a symbiotic relationship is critical to our effort. The innovators will help develop the parts and equipment needed to service local industries while business people will help the startups by investing in product research and development. Such an event will also position Ala-Igbo in particular and Nigeria in general as a technology hub within the West African sub-region.

Those are our goals and we are open to collaboration with anyone, willing and able to complement our effort.

Not too long ago, the National Bureau of Statistics (NBS) listed two out of five South-East states among those with poverty rate higher than the national average. My people, not only do I feel highly embarrassed walking around with such an unflattering label on a place I call home, but I am seriously troubled by it. I am sure we all feel the same way. What that means is that with all the song and dance we make about the Igbo spirit of enterprise, many of our people still manage to find themselves, living like the poorest of the poor. Of course, this is not just from the action or inaction of one administration, past or present. It’s a culmination of decades lost to the locust. Things are not looking good my people.

As Ndigbo, our history need not be that way. We are still the same people with an indomitable can-do spirit that defiles all odds. We are still the same people that rose from the ashes of war to build the strongest middle class in sub-Saharan Africa. And yes, we still have what it takes, today and even tomorrow. All that is required is to do away with the toxic mindset of self-defeatist crass individualism that elevates primitive accumulation of wealth to the detriment of all.

Ladies and gentlemen, Dr. M.I. Okpara, the man in whose memory this hallowed ground is named after, committed his life fully to the service of our people. It is therefore not surprising that many decades after his demise, his name continues to ring a bell and inspire awe in all of us. I can assure that M.I was not the richest man of his generation. The task before us today is therefore very simple. Be the change that you want in our society and hope to be remembered like Okpara.

We thank every one of you for coming. May God bless!

Osmund Agbo, MD, FCCP
CEO, Enugu Tech & Innovation Center delivered this speech given during the maiden Enugu Technology and Innovation Fair held on Thursday, August 21 at Michael Okpara Square, Enugu.

EFCC And The Law Enforcement Imperative

By Abdulrasheed Bawa

A law or regulation is only as good as its enforcement. A society where enforcement is jaundiced or non-existent is inevitably sucked faster into the black hole of failure. We are plagued by a situation where the auto-response to any demand for accountability is to raise doubts about the ‘real’ intentions underlying such a demand, adamant from the outset that it must be anything but altruistic!

There are so many matters we all agree on in Nigeria. However, there is perhaps none more so than the fact that Nigeria is a country of laws. We also coalesce a hundred per cent around the fact that our bane is the lack of the enforcement of these laws.

However, this realisation has not served to point us in the direction of more rigorous enforcement as the best vehicle, at least for now, to convey us to our El Dorado. Rather, we, again, almost unanimously, hanker after more laws, which we say would be better laws to address the same age-old circumstances and emergent variants of ancient problems.

In our realm of law enforcement, nothing illustrates this, I think, better than the statement I made some months back, that the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC) would start requesting from bankers evidence of their compliance with the Bank Employees Declaration of Asset Act, 1986.

No sooner had I made this declaration, setting June 1 as the date we would start requesting the bankers’ confirmation of their statuses with respect to the provisions of the Act, than all hell was let loose.

The interventions on that matter made by many otherwise distinguished ‘public affairs analysts’ did nothing to take away from the fact that the mentioned law has been in existence for almost four decades; they did nothing to take anything away from the fact that even way back then, thirty-five years ago, the Nigeria we dreamt of building was one in which the guardians of our private wealth and the public till, those from whom the highest possible level of professional integrity and moral rectitude was expected, did not become vehicles of money laundering themselves.

Furthermore, the avalanche of interventions did not deny the fact that the law has been comatose until now. Rather, many of the individuals and sponsored groups who felt pained enough to weigh in, sought to divert attention and spin a narrative that the EFCC was overreaching its legal mandate, a position that’s essentially a rebuke of the EFCC’s raison d’etre.

The work my colleagues and I have been lucky to be called to do at the EFCC, is essentially to enforce the law, without let or hindrance, and that is what we will continue do without minding whose ox is gored. However, another plank of our twin mandate, which Nigerians do not hear a lot about or do not seem to appreciate, is that of prevention.

As such, we are charged under the EFCC (Establishment) Act, 2004, to engage appropriate mechanisms to prevent the commission of economic and financial crimes. This includes engaging with different stakeholders, and carrying out enlightenment and sensitisation campaigns, with a view to nipping economic and financial crimes in the bud.

However, I have always maintained that there is no better prevention tool than a vigorous enforcement regime, one that is applied across the board in strict adherence and compliance with extant laws, rules and regulations.

It is only in the environment of rigorous, unbiased enforcement under the strict dictates of the law that, I believe, we can move this nation forward.

Let us face it, those countries we tend to run to, to borrow the yardsticks for measuring or situating our own collective progress (or lack of it), are not doing anything extraordinary; in very plain terms, they enforce their laws and regulations, no matter who it is that has committed an infraction.

I take it that they have achieved that enforcement nirvana that makes each and every person to accept that the first and indeed the only rule for holding public office is to act for the public good and that when you act contrary to set laws or regulations, you will be held to account.

The question is, do we need more laws or regulations? I certainly think we need better, more responsive laws as veritable guardrails of our march to nationhood. But, whilst we are hard at work formulating those, the real question begging for answer is, how much of the functionality of available laws have we, as Nigerians, tested to hold both public officers and the public system they run accountable?

In those climes, enforcement is a given, it is a normal course of action attracted by infraction and not (as we tend to conceive it here) as some grand witch hunt.

Let us be clear that while focusing on enforcement, principally from the law enforcement perspective, this is really an issue that cuts across all facets of our lives as Nigerians. Like white elephant projects never designed to work, the regard we have for our laws is that of decorative monuments on our national landscape.

A law or regulation is only as good as its enforcement. A society where enforcement is jaundiced or non-existent is inevitably sucked faster into the black hole of failure. We are plagued by a situation where the auto-response to any demand for accountability is to raise doubts about the ‘real’ intentions underlying such a demand, adamant from the outset that it must be anything but altruistic!

For a nation whose nationals are almost always on the lookout for targets to blame for everything considered unfortunate (notwithstanding that it may be the proper and justified outcome of a chain of events), the aggregation of society into combative ‘we’ versus ‘them’ columns is very easy.

Thus, the person against whom the law is being legitimately enforced, sees all enforcement activity and even the person enforcing the law as extensions of his/her so-called oppressors.

The tragedy we have confronting us as a nation is that at every turn, we see our very best in every facet of life either lying waste or dormant and, as we are wont to say, we prefer instead to travel all the way to Sokoto in unending quixotic searches for that which is right here with us in our sokoto!

The question is, do we need more laws or regulations? I certainly think we need better, more responsive laws as veritable guardrails of our march to nationhood. But, whilst we are hard at work formulating those, the real question begging for answer is, how much of the functionality of available laws have we, as Nigerians, tested to hold both public officers and the public system they run accountable? The simple answer from our experience, when we asked bankers to comply with extant provisions of that very old law, is sadly not very much.

This is why it so gratifying for those of us at the EFCC to note that as a Commission, we have deliberately chosen to show leadership in asking public office holders to account for our commonwealth that they hold in trust.

In this regard, we make bold to say that no agency of government in Nigeria has done more to advance the development of the law in the last 18 years than the EFCC. This is because every day, across the length and breadth of this country, we are using the instrumentality of extant laws to hold public officials accountable.

Apposite examples of the baked-in resistance to law enforcement are replete on the EFCC’s Facebook page. Recently, as part of the strategy to use different media to inform and warn against (and thereby prevent) economic and financial crime, we put up a cartoon depicting an enforcement activity: The artist’s illustration is that of a group of internet fraudsters trying to escape with the EFCC in hot pursuit, discarding in the process their instruments of ‘trade’, including the tell-tale laptop. The reaction of one Ajayi Abiodun Adeyemi was this:

Please EFCC show us top functionaries in government that looted our national treasury…not an unemployed youth who unintentionally engage in internet fraud because he could barely put food on the table.

He goes further to conclude that, the “EFCC is a classified reprobate full of intellectual hypocrites.”

Another sampler from one Clinton Ofili says:

EFCC are just groups of legalised looters, bandits, hoodlums, herdsmen, boko haram, fraudsters, miscellaneous miscreants, robbers, hired killers, kidnappers, kidney harvesters, organ harvesters, serial killers, known gunmen….

…there is a lot to expect from all of us and it is our individual failings to follow through on enforcement processes that ultimately feed the wrong mass notion that demanding transparency is a misnomer and that the person demanding it is the person who has committed a crime.

All these for simply doing our job! We can understand the wide-held, but wrong supposition that the Commission seems to place unnecessary premium on the investigation and prosecution of internet fraudsters to the detriment of the big fraud cases. But this is not so.

The message that a number of visitors to our social media pages leave for us to go after those who steal billions of naira with a single stroke of the pen, is well taken and we have been doing so since 2003, with numerous trophies and scars of battle to show for our efforts.

We have, since our inception, been seeking accountability from politicians of all hues and businessmen of all shades; we have gone after bankers and public servants. And across the country, from the High Courts all the way to the Supreme Court, the dockets of courts are filled with EFCC cases. The laws against cybercrime, which are markedly different from those criminalising other acts of economic and financial crime, are only a tiny slate of the laws that the Commission enforces.

However, because we see a trend where some big entertainment and social media stars are either into or they glorify internet fraud, the youth section of the society, who are the greatest consumers of entertainment and the predominant users of the Internet, tends to view enforcement activities negatively.

Let me quickly note, however, that they only borrow a leaf from the older economic and financial criminals who have established themselves in critical sectors of our public life and big business.

For those ones, the EFCC is always the agent or lapdog of the other party; the spiked cudgel of the government in power; the anti-progress arrowhead and so forth. Rather than give straightforward answers to the accountability questions we ask them, they and their hirelings automatically respond in any of these variety of ways: ‘It is because I am from X region or hold X religious belief’ or very ridiculously: ‘Why me, why has EFCC not gone after the other (corrupt person)? At a more dangerous level is the insistence by the feisty aso ebi-clad kinsmen of an alleged corrupt former public functionary, that that alleged thief is their own (beloved thief)!

At court appearances, they come with drummers and singing troupes to gyrate round court environments and threaten EFCC operatives and prosecutors. In one instance in 2007, thugs bussed from hundreds of kilometres away actually pulled down the fence of the Federal High Court in Kaduna.

Progress will continue to be a mirage for any nation with such a toxic perception of enforcement activities – be they in respect of social or business relations or arising from citizens’ engagements with corporate national or sub-national entities.

Indeed, there is a lot to expect from all of us and it is our individual failings to follow through on enforcement processes that ultimately feed the wrong mass notion that demanding transparency is a misnomer and that the person demanding it is the person who has committed a crime.

That narrative has to change and it behoves on all of us, in all our small areas of influence, to make change happen by insisting on enforcing all rules, all regulations, all laws.

There is also a special role for the media to call out any individual or agency of government that is not keen on enforcement or that has a warped sense of it.

It is my conviction that when we all join hands together in this way, we would have taken a very significant step towards achieving the Nigeria of our dreams.

Abdulrasheed Bawa is the Chairman of the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC).

This is the text of the remarks made at the PTCIJ Accountability Roundtable on September 2, in Abuja.

Protect Child’s Identity When Making DNA Results Public, Actress Georgina Onuoha Pleads

Nollywood actress, Georgina Onuoha, has pleaded with parents caught up in public marital battles to desist from posting DNA test results on social media platforms with children’s name on it.

The actress made this appeal on her Instagram page, hours after popular radio presenter Chinedu Ani, a.k.a, Nedu, of Wazobia FM, alleged that the first son birthed by his ex-wife, Uzoamaka Ohiri, during their marriage was not his biological child.

To corroborate his claim, Nedu had posted the DNA test result, complete with the child’s name, on his Instagram page.

Reminding all that ‘the internet never forgets,’ the actress appealed to parents and bloggers to exercise caution in posting such sensitive documents, warning that it might lead to emotional distress for the concerned child later in life.

“This is a passionate appeal to parents caught up in DNA issues and bloggers writing about it; please, for the love of God, when posting DNA evidence, please and please at least black out the innocent children’s names to save them from more trauma. It is bad enough to find out the truth about your identity, and have your name plastered all over the internet. Remember, the internet never forgets,” she wrote.

She further begged “all adults and parents to do everything possible to protect the identity of these innocent children.”

Following several conflicts between Nigerian celebrity couples in recent times, Onuoha also stated that it is society’s collective duty to pray for marriages going through rocky stages.

“Marriage is not easy; whoever tells you otherwise is a liar from the pit of hell. Many give their all and survive, others like me couldn’t make it, while many paid the ultimate price and are six feet beneath the earth.

“That being said, it should be our collective duty to pray and be kind towards them. People are going through hard times, and the pandemic has added another layer of depression, pain, and anxiety for many,” she said

The Nollywood industry has seen several celebrity marriages facing distress in the past weeks. In August, Anita Okoye, wife of Paul Okoye of the now-defunct P-Square brand, sent a divorce petition to an Abuja High Court, requesting that the court end their marriage.

Similarly, popular Nigerian actress, Annie Idibia, took to her Instagram page on Friday to accuse her husband, megastar Tuface Idibia, of infidelity.

She further scrubbed his surname out of her Instagram bio, kindling rumours of a divorce before replacing it later in the day. (Thenigerialawyer)

What Does The DSS Really Really Do?, By Abimbola Adelakun

Last Thursday, the Department of State Services issued a press statement to deny they dispersed doctors attending a recruitment for Nigerian doctors intending to migrate to Saudi Arabia. The denial was typical of the inelegant press releases the DSS churns out -a rambling word salad, full of feigned indignation, and signifying the characteristic ruse of reducing every issue to a matter of “national security.” This particular statement even read like a chatterbot cranked it up. Notably, it did not deny that the DSS was present at the venue of the recruitment. Given how much that recruitment embarrassed the Nigerian government, it is not hard to believe that the DSS would disrupt the event.

Whether they scattered the event or not, it is not out of place to link them with that kind of errand. Nobody in Nigeria today associates the DSS with intelligence-gathering, stealthy and efficient operations, and the promotion of national security. They are only famous for pursuing the civilians who overreach themselves by protesting Nigeria’s woes. Nigeria has never been more threatened by insecurity than now, and you cannot but wonder what these so-called intelligence cum security agencies really do that justifies their existence. Until the Defence Intelligence Agency invited Navy Commodore Kunle Olawumi (retd.), over the interview he granted Channels TV, who knew they existed? These organisations seem to have only one job, and it is to protect the Major General Muhammadu Buhari (retd.) regime from the shame of its many failings. If they were not a bureaucracy, we would call them political thugs.

Out of the many heartbreaking stories of the breakdown of security in Nigeria, let me share this one. The same last week that the DSS railed over a media report, Abubakar Hassan, the Head Teacher of Salihu Tanko Islamiya School in Tegina, Niger State, where 136 schoolchildren were kidnapped about three months ago, reported that he had spoken to their abductors. They told him that five of the children were already dead, many were seriously ill, and because their clothes have virtually become rags, their parents should send change of clothes. The part that broke me completely was that some of those children are as young as four years. What kind of country watches babies languish in their abductors’ den? Unfortunately, these stories have become trite in today’s Nigeria.

Meanwhile, Hassan also noted that he had spoken to the abductors twice in three days. They had demanded N200m, but the parents could only raise N20m even after the families had solicited funds from the public. The abductors did not budge their demands. An elderly man sent to deliver that ransom in July was reportedly also seized. In all of these back-and-forth negotiations with kidnappers and even public fund-raising for ransom, notice that there is mention of the involvement of the organisations like the DSS or even the DFI?

How do the abductors call the teacher on the phone several times, and there was no reported official effort to track their location? Where do these kidnappers stash away the humongous sums they receive as ransom? In a country that supposedly registers everyone’s SIM card, why have the security agencies not availed themselves of the many surveillance tools of digital technology to find those children? They can find you if you abuse a politician on WhatsApp, but kidnappers that use cell phones somehow elude them? Elsewhere, security agencies train personnel to negotiate with hostage-takers, but these poor families have had to transact with their victimisers all by themselves. Imagine the many layers of trauma they must suffer. In all these, the efforts of security agencies that supposedly gather intelligence for national security purposes are glaringly missing.

What role do these agencies play in these frequent abductions plaguing Nigerians? And no, their silence on these issues does not mean they have been entirely passive. Here are some of the headlines of the reports of their activities: “DSS violates court order on Igboho’s aides”; “DSS finally complies with court order; “DSS denies detaining and torturing Buhari’s late driver”; “DSS cautions against violence and hate speech”; “DSS reiterates call against violence in Nigeria”; “DSS pledges to support protection of NNPC assets”; “DSS warns public against recruitment fraudsters”; “DSS denies arresting, detaining INEC staff”; “DSS says Mailafia’s allegations aimed at creating tension”; “DSS says there’re plans to incite religious violence across the country”; “DSS says some prominent persons plotting to destabilise the country”; “DSS uncovers plot to destabilise Nigeria”; “Why DSS invited Onumah for wearing Biafra T-shirt”.

The kind of inanity that engages the DSS while Nigerians are imperilled by insecurity adds a new cadence to the cliché of political authority fiddling while the country burns. Having wired their entire administrative impulses towards protecting the Buhari regime from dissidents, they frequently sacrifice administrative dignity to bark at every rat. Their lack of administrative focus has grown so acute they even usurp the role of the police -as it happened in the case of The Dunamis Five. These agencies are never linked to heroic retrieval of abducted victims or to effective management of the security threats that diminish Nigerian lives. You will never catch them protecting the lives and dignity of regular Nigerians. All they do is hound those who make their paymasters uncomfortable. The time is still coming when the DSS officials will take it upon themselves to regulate the price of fish in the market.

On the whole issue of the recruitment itself, you could tell how tremendously shameful it has been for the Nigerian political class from the way their minions have been guilt-tripping doctors for wanting to abscond. They bemoan the subsidisation of medical training in public universities, allowing these doctors to get highly trained enough for their services to be prized elsewhere. But first, precisely what is unique about this arrangement? Which country in the world does not subsidise public education? Anyway, since some of the most prominent of these caterwaulers are Buhari’s flunkies, maybe they should also tell us how Buhari has paid the country in any way since Nigeria has subsidised his entire adult life?

After he was ousted in 1985, Buhari never took a job or even contributed as much as a policy idea to Nigeria’s development. All he has done is to take and take and take! For instance, when his aides needed to reconcile the incongruity of his frequent medical tours to the UK with the kind of ethically-driven leader he promised to be, they claimed he had to go abroad for consistency because he has been with the same doctor for about 40 years. But given that he has never held a job in those 30 years, it only means Nigeria has been subsidising his health for that long. In what way has he paid us back?

He got a second chance and returned as a civilian president, but it only broadened his means of taking and taking. His children went to school abroad at the same time he shrugged off the plight of other Nigerians who needed foreign currency for the same purpose. Three of them got lavish wedding ceremonies, fully subsidised by the state. Nigeria has given them lush lives, but what have they given back? Elsewhere, children of the political elite at least try to be seen as giving back to society by working for public service, volunteering with charity organisations, or even joining the military. What do their Nigerian counterparts do for the country? Their parents will not even let them go through the rigours of the National Youth Service Corps, let alone join the military as a gesture of their faith in the country they rule.

Has it not been the case that they smuggle their children into top jobs in the public institutions and multinationals through backdoor recruitments, and unconscientiously displacing those who need those opportunities for upward mobility? If people like Buhari have not repaid society for all the years of paying for their privileges, why accost those who defied the Nigerian odds to become medical professionals for wanting to go elsewhere and expand their chances of thriving?

Credit: Abimbola Adelakun, Punch

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Why do people in power change radically? – Pat Utomi©️

I was one of seven professors who facilitated a leadership training in my university here in Georgia for local government chairmen from a major Nigerian southwestern state. In the course of the training, I adverted to a January 13, 2018 column I wrote about how power literally damages the brains of people who wield it and causes them to be dissociated from reality.

A few of the chairmen at the training initially said they “rejected” what I said “in Jesus’ name.”But the more I expounded the research on the psychology of power, the less resistant they became. In the light of the interest it excited among these local power wielders, I thought I’d share a revised version of the column for the benefit of other people in power.

Almost everyone I know wonders why people in power change radically; why they become so utterly disconnected from reality that they suddenly become completely unrecognisable to people who knew them before they got to power; why they get puffed-up, susceptible to flattery, and intolerant of even the mildest, best-intentioned censure; why they appear possessed by inexplicably malignant forces; and why they are notoriously insensitive and self-absorbed.

Everyone who has ever had a friend in a position of power, especially political power, can attest to the accuracy of the age-old truism that a friend in power is a lost friend. Of course, there are exceptions, but it is precisely the fact of the existence of exceptions that makes this reality poignant. As the saying goes, “the exception proves the rule.”

Abraham Lincoln once said, “Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man’s character, give him power.” Look at all the power brokers in Nigeria—from the president to your ward councilor—and you’ll discover that there is a vast disconnect between who they were before they got to power and who they are now.

Also look at previously arrogant, narcissistic, power-drunk prigs who have been kicked out of the orbit of power for any number of reasons. You’ll discover that they are suddenly normal again. They share our pains, make pious noises, condemn abuse of power, and identify with popular causes. The legendary amnesia of Nigerians causes the past misdeeds of these previous monsters of power to be explained away, lessened, forgiven, and ultimately forgotten. But when they get back to power again, they become the same insensitive beasts of power that they once were.

So what is it about power that makes people such obtuse, self-centred snobs? It turns out that psychologists have been grappling with this puzzle for years and have a clue. Dacher Keltner, a psychology professor at the University of California Berkeley, extensively studied the brains of people in power and found that people under the influence of power are neurologically similar to people who suffer traumatic brain injury!

According to the July/August 2017 issue of the Atlantic magazine, people who are victims of traumatic brain injury are “more impulsive, less risk-aware, and, crucially, less adept at seeing things from other people’s point of view.” In other words, like victims of traumatic brain injury, power causes people to lose their capacity for empathy. This is a surprising scientific corroboration of American historian Henry Adams’ popular wisecrack about how power is “a sort of tumour that ends by killing the victim’s sympathies.”

The findings of Sukhvinder Obhi, a professor of neuroscience at McMaster University, in Ontario, Canada, are even more revealing. Obhi also studies the workings of the human brain. “And when he put the heads of the powerful and the not-so-powerful under a transcranial-magnetic-stimulation machine, he found that power, in fact, impairs a specific neural process, ‘mirroring,’ that may be a cornerstone of empathy,” the Atlantic reports. “Which gives a neurological basis to what Keltner has termed the ‘ power paradox’: Once we have power, we lose some of the capacities we needed to gain it in the first place.”

Take Buhari, for example. Before 2015, he was – or at least he appeared to be – empathetic. He supported subsidies for the poor, railed against waste, thought Nigerians deserved to buy petrol at a low price because Nigerian oil was “developed with Nigerian capital,” and so on. He even said foreign medical treatment for elected government officials was immoral and indefensible, and wondered why a Nigerian president would need a fleet of aircraft when even the British Prime Minister didn’t have any.

Nothing but power-induced brain damage, which activates narcissism and loss of empathy, can explain Buhari’s dramatic volte-face now that he’s in power. This fact, psychological researchers say, is worsened by the fact that subordinates tend to flatter people in power, mimic their ways in order to ingratiate themselves with them, and shield them from realities that might cause them psychic discomfort.

“But more important, Keltner says, is the fact that the powerful stop mimicking others,” the Atlantic reports. “Laughing when others laugh or tensing when others tense does more than ingratiate. It helps trigger the same feelings those others are experiencing and provides a window into where they are coming from. Powerful people ‘stop simulating the experience of others,’ Keltner says, which leads to what he calls an ‘empathy deficit.’

Researchers also found out that excessive praise from subordinates, sycophantic drooling from people seeking favours, control over vast resources they once didn’t have, and all of the staid rituals and performances of power conspire to cause “functional” changes to the brains of people in power. On a social level, it also creates what Lord David Owen, a British neurologist-turned-politician, called the “hubris syndrome” in his 2008 book titled In Sickness and in Power.

Some features of hubris syndrome, Owen points out, are, “manifest contempt for others, loss of contact with reality, restless or reckless actions, and displays of incompetence.” Sounds familiar? You can’t observe Buhari’s governance – or, more correctly, ungovernance – in the last four years and fail to see these features in him.

But it’s not all gloom and doom. Powerful people can, and indeed do, extricate themselves from the psychological snares of power if they so desire. Professor Keltner said one of the most effective psychological strategies for people in power to reconnect with reality and reverse the brain damage of power is to periodically remember moments of powerlessness in their lives – such as when they were victims of natural disasters, accidents, poverty, etc.

They should also have what American journalist Louis McHenry Howe once called a “toe holder,” that is, someone who doesn’t fear them, expects no favours from them, and can tell them uncomfortable truths without fear of consequences.

Winston Churchill’s toe holder was his wife, who once wrote a letter to him that read, in part, “I must confess that I have noticed a deterioration in your manner; and you are not as kind as you used to be.” Was Aisha Buhari performing the role of a toe holder when she publicly upbraided her husband in the past? I doubt it.

Her disagreements with her husband are often opportunistic and self-serving. They are triggered only when her husband’s puppeteers in Aso Rock limit her powers to nominate her cronies for political positions and to dispense favours to friends and family.

Another potent way to reverse power-induced brain damage is to periodically get out of the protected silos of power and solitarily observe the quotidian interactions of everyday folks – their humour, laughter, fights, etc. – without the familiar add-ons of power, such as aides, cameras, security, etc. This helps to stimulate the experiences of others and restore empathy.

This is particularly important in Nigeria because power, at all levels, is almost absolute and unaccountable.

Please read and prayerfully ask God to reveal your “ toe holder” to you.

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Acquisition Of Land On A Faulty Agreement- A Loophole For Fraud

By S.O. Giwa Esq

It is no news that the preparation of land sale agreements for parties to the land sale transaction is not an exclusive act to legal practitioners in Nigeria. Without mincing words, many Nigerians prefer the preparation of their land sale agreements by lawyers to non-lawyers for reason best known to them.

Research shows that copy-cat approach under the disguise of using precedent for a draft of new agreement for sale of land is the ubiquitous practice of many lawyers including non-lawyers in preparing the land sale agreements for the execution by the parties.

One keeps wondering if the facts in the sale of land in Nigeria are one and the same for the use of a precedent on a land sale agreement prepared by another lawyer for many years or months to be resorted to hook line and sinker.

Further reading through some executed agreements by some parties on the sale of some pieces of land evinced that the preparation of those agreements are faulty for want of detailed facts which agreements for the land sale are to contain and state clearly for the agreement to speak for itself on the detailed information required.

It is against the foregoing that this piece is written with a view to discussing five (5) fundamental parts of the land sale agreement which required detailed information in an agreement and stating their importance in an agreement to assist young lawyers and any interested senior lawyers who are desirous of broadening their horizons and adding to their repertoire.

What then is a land purchase agreement?

A Land Purchase agreement is a formal contract by which a vendor agrees to sell, and the purchaser agrees to buy a piece of land under specific terms and conditions spelled out in writing in the agreement signed by both parties. It is the preliminary document that must be prepared and signed by parties when a vendor wishes to sell a piece of land to the purchaser.

Flowing from the definition that a land sale agreement is the reduction of terms and conditions agreed thereto by the parties into writing and consequently executed by the parties is the fact that for an agreement to evidence a sale of any piece of land by any person who claims to be the owner of the sold land, the executed document which termed to be a land sale agreement must spell out in details the required elements of agreement to avert any loophole for fraud.

It is important to say here that many documents which many buyers of land hold on to as land sale agreements are either bereft of detailed description of the vendors vis-à-vis the detailed vendors’ residential addresses to which the vendors could be traced to in the event of a challenge to their titles to land that were transferred to the buyers or brief details about the land and how the vendors’ titles to the land were derived. What then are the five (5) fundamental parts of land sale agreement?

The five (5) fundamental parts of agreement are:

PARTIES CLAUSE

A land purchase agreement is created when two parties deal with each other and these parties are VENDOR and PURCHASER. Under this clause, the land sale agreement must contain the full details of the vendor and the purchaser, such as names and addresses. It is noteworthy that there is no rule or law restricting the description of parties to an agreement to the vendor and the purchaser. The description of parties depends on agreement to be prepared. Where the agreement is a Deed of Transfer, parties are described as transferor and transferee respectively. Also, where the document is for assignment, parties are described as Assignor and Assignee. All that is needed to be borne in mind in describing the parties under this clause is that the description of parties vis-à-vis names and addresses must be in details. For example, the description of vendor hereunder is fundamentally defective and gives chance for fraud.

‘ThIS AGREEMENT is made this … Day of …………, 20…. BETWEEN Mr. Olaiya a.k.a. Ogbonpo’ of Ashi Bodija, Ibadan Oyo State hereinafter referred to as the ‘VENDOR’

From the description of the vendor in the above, it is an indisputable fact that the vendor’s name given as Mr. Olaiya a.k.a Ogbonpo and his address ‘Ashi Bodija, Ibadan, Oyo State is not detailed enough to trace the vendor if need be and such description is not only faulty but also creates loophole for fraud which must be guided against in an agreement for a sale of land.

Besides the parties clause discussed above is the RECITAL CLAUSE which is the most fundamental clause in an agreement for the sale of land. The recital clause in the land sale agreement states the brief details about the land and how the vendor derived his claimed title to the land. It is under the recital clause in an agreement that the explanation of how the vendor became the owner of the land which he is disposing of is given.

Research has also shown that many agreements for the sale of land are found wanting under this recital clause. Fortifying the writer’s submission are the below paragraphs curled out under the recital clause of an agreement that has been fully executed for many years back in respect of a piece of land.

‘WHEREAS

THE Vendor became seised of a piece or parcel of land measuring one acre, situate, Iying and being at ……………………. Village, Moniya, Akinyele local Government Area, Ibadan, Oyo State of Nigeria by purchase from XXY.
The purchase recited above is free from any encumbrances.
The vendor has agreed to sell and did sell and the Purchasers have agreed to buy and did buy 1 plot of land out of the said one acre, situate and being at …………………….. Village, Moniya, Akinyele Local Government Area, Ibadan, Oyo State of Nigeria for a consideration to be hereinafter stated.’
It is not in doubt that some readers may want to argue that the brief details of the land in question and how vendor became the owner of the land were given in the above paragraphs. The questions to pose to quench the thirst of arguments are:

Was there detailed address of the XXY from whom the vendor bought the land given?
Was the year which XXY bought the land provided?
Was any reference to any land sale agreement for the purchase of the land by XXY made in any of the paragraphs?
Are paragraphs 2 and 3 reproduced above the expected details required under the recital clause?
It is the writer’s stand that the answers to all the above questions are in negative as the quoted paragraphs under recital clause of that agreement run contrary to the required details of how the vendor’s title to the land was derived that are expected to be stated under the recital clause.

It is also noteworthy that the purpose of the required detailed explanation of how the vendor became the owner of the land which he/she is disposing of under the recital clause is that a recital clause provides the reader with a general idea about the purpose of the contract, the parties involved, and why the parties signed the agreement. Also, the recital clause in an agreement not only plays a valuable role in helping third parties entering into, or reviewing, the agreement later in time to understand the source of vendor’s title to the land in question but also serves as first point of reference in preparing pleading in a litigation in respect of the land. Hence, the recitals are the preamble to the land sale agreement.

It is also noteworthy that there is no prescribed format for drafting recitals, but they typically contain concise statements of fact, describing key circumstances and details relevant to the establishment of the contract of sale of land. Expressions of intent and references to any related contracts may also be included under recital clause.

Next to the Recital Clause is the PURCHASE PRICE/CONSIDERATION CLAUSE

which is also an essential element of the land purchase agreement. Under this

clause, the method of payment of the purchase price must be equally mentioned

as stating that under that clause would avert any denial of the receipt of money

for the sale of the land. The below specimen may be of help.

‘That pursuant to the foregoing having been reached between the VENDOR and the PURCHASER and in consideration of the purchase price of TWO MILLION, TWO HUNDRED AND FIFTY THOUSAND (N2, 250,000.00) NAIRA ONLY paid by the PURCHASER to the VENDOR through ……………….(insert the name) via electronic transfer in thre instalments into his account number ……………… with Guaranty Trust Bank (GTB) on 11th day of March, 2021, 29th day of March, 2021 and 13th day of March, 2021 respectively for the purchase of five acres of land described in this document as the PURCHASED LAND’. The VENDOR hereby acknowledges the receipt of same and a receipt number …….dated …….. was issued to ……………….(insert the name) for the sale of ‘Purchased land’.

Besides the aforementioned clauses discussed above is COVENANTS/ INDEMNITY CLAUSE wherein the vendor and the purchaser must undertake specific responsibilities under the land purchase agreement. It is pertinent to note that not only the vendor that must agree to indemnify the purchaser against all claims, demands, disturbance, or interruption, which may arise from any defect in the vendor’s rights or title to the land, the buyer must also undertake to make the full payment for the land if the purchase price is to be paid on instalments. The buyer must also undertake to abide by all other covenants stipulated in the agreement. The below specimen may be of help

‘‘The VENDOR shall indemnify the PURCHASER against any defect arising out of title to the said land which may militate against peaceful and undisturbed occupation of the ‘Purchased land’ and the PURCHASER shall be entitled to a refund of the purchase price and all other damages arising from defect which deprive the PURCHASER’S peaceful and undisturbed enjoyment of the aforesaid land.

The VENDOR with the object and intention of offering to the PURCHASER a full and sufficient indemnity hereby covenants that the ‘Purchased land’ hereby sold, transferred and assigned will be quietly enjoyed by the PURCHASER and his/her successor-in-title without any hindrance or interruption by the VENDOR or any person(s) claiming through the ownership thereof and that the VENDOR if called upon to do so will at the request of the PURCHASER or any person(s) deriving title under his/her authority do all such lawful assurances and things particularly with regard to seeking and obtaining of the consent and approval of the local government or any other approving authority for further and more perfectly assuring the property hereby sold to the PURCHASER as shall be reasonably required.

The VENDOR further covenants with the PURCHASER to keep perform and observe all the covenants, terms and conditions herein before appearing and to execute further or other documents as may be necessary and required in order to complete the conveyance of the said land in favour of the PURCHASER.’’

Lastly, a termination clause must also be expressly stated the mode of termination of the agreement where one of the parties defaults under any terms agreed upon in the agreement.

It is important to conclude this piece by saying that there is no cast in stone that the preparation of a land sale agreement must be done by the vendor’s lawyer.

It is hereby advised that much as facts of two cases cannot be the same, so also agreements of sale of two different land by different vendors cannot be the same.

Finally, it is the writer’s stand that a land sale agreement which fails to have detailed information stated in any of the five fundamental parts of it gives room for being defrauded by Fraudsters.

The writer finally urges the young lawyers to feel free to interact with other colleagues or seniors for any grey area in their practice of law and lawyers should always remember that no one knows it all.

Written By S.O. Giwa Esq. a.k.a pentalk (Ibadan based Legal Practitioner) [email protected], 08035224192

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