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After collecting ₦12million ransom, bandits kill Abuja-based businessman and daughter

Bandits have killed an Abuja-based businessman, Muhammad Shuaibu, and his 19-year-old daughter, Fatima Muhammad, despite collecting a total ransom of N12million from their family.

Fatima, before her death, was a student of the University of Abuja, while her father traded at the Dei-Dei Modern Market in Bwari Area Council of the Federal Capital Territory.

Daily Trust reports that the victims were abducted on October 3, 2025, when heavily armed men stormed their residence in the Zhidu community in the Tafa Local Government Area of Niger State.

According to a family member who spoke on condition of anonymity due to security concerns, the kidnappers invaded the house at night, rounded up members of the household, and subsequently whisked Shuaibu and his two daughters away into the bush. 

The source disclosed that the kidnappers later contacted the family and demanded ransom in installments.

The family member said that the kidnappers first demanded money and they paid N6 million. 

Later they asked for another N4million which they also struggled to raise. Finally, they demanded N2million, bringing the total ransom paid to N12million.

Despite the ongoing negotiations and payments, the kidnappers reportedly killed Fatima about three months ago, accusing her of being “stubborn.”

The family member further revealed that after the final payment of N2million was delivered, the kidnappers instructed the person who brought the ransom to leave the area, claiming that Shuaibu had died in captivity after falling seriously ill.

According to the source, the family sold most of the businessman’s assets in a desperate attempt to secure the release of the victims.

The family member disclosed that they sold his shop at Dei-Dei Modern Market, his private car, and even his sachet water production machine just to raise the ransom.

“The bandits even asked us to sell his house, but there was no buyer,” the source said.

However, efforts to get a reaction from the Niger State Police Command were unsuccessful. Calls and messages sent to the command’s spokesperson, SP Wasiu Abiodun, were not responded to as of the time this report was filed.

5-year-old boy murdered by brother aged 11 as he took a nap, shellshocked family speak out

Elias Reliford was killed while taking a nap inside his family's home in Centennial, Colorado

An adorable five-year-old boy was murdered in his sleep by his older brother, in what their family has described as ‘the most horrendous act’.

Elias Reliford was killed while taking a nap inside his family’s home in Centennial, Colorado, on March 10, his family said. 

Reliford’s brother, who is 11, has since been arrested and is facing a charge of first-degree murder over the death. 

A family member has since revealed that Reliford had returned home from kindergarten that day and took a nap, while his brother was asked to do chores. 

‘Then that’s when everything happened, during the time that he was asleep’, the youngster’s great-aunt Dawn Myles said. It is unclear how Reliford was killed. 

Speaking on behalf of the boy’s devastated parents, she told WTSP: ‘[Elias] was very outgoing. Just loved being outside. Outside was his thing.’

According to Myles, the two siblings were inseparable, adding: ‘If you saw one brother, you saw the other one.’

Not wanting to discuss any further details, she described his death as: ‘The most horrendous act that a human could commit on another human, especially a child.’

Myles continued: ‘We would have never imagined the big brother that he would hurt Elias.’

Unable to cope with what happened, the family packed up their house and moved out for the foreseeable future into a hotel until they can find a new home.

She added: ‘The family is not well. There’s anger, there’s questions, there’s two losses here, you know, two brothers.’ 

The 11-year-old is facing the murder charge and another of aggravated juvenile offender sentence enhancer, the 18th Judicial District Attorney’s Office said. 

He is being held inside the Marvin W. Foote Youth Services Center, the Arapahoe County Sheriff’s Office said. 

The sheriff’s office has declined to offer any further details relating to the death of the youngster. They have said that the death is a ‘very complex investigation’. 

Reliford was a kindergartener at Timberline Elementary, Principal Mary Bowens confirmed in an email to parents. 

She said: ‘It is with great sadness that I want to share with you that one of our kindergarten students has died unexpectedly.’ 

Reliford was a kindergartener at Timberline Elementary, Principal Mary Bowens confirmed in an email to parents

Reliford was a kindergartener at Timberline Elementary, Principal Mary Bowens confirmed in an email to parents

‘There is currently an active police investigation and law enforcement asked the district not to release the student’s name. We ask the community to honor the family’s privacy at this time.’

Under state law in Colorado, children as young as 10 can be criminally prosecuted, with those under 12 unable to be charged as adults. 

Sheriff Taylor Brown said: ‘Cases involving the homicide of children are among the most difficult our deputies and investigators face. 

‘Our team is fully committed to a thorough investigation, and we will continue working tirelessly to determine exactly what happened. 

‘We know tragedies like this impact not only the family, but also classmates, teachers, and neighbors throughout the community. 

‘We appreciate the support and patience of the public as our investigators work to gather the facts and pursue justice in this case.’

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Legal titans demand return to fearless advocacy at Sir Clement Akpamgbo memorial lecture

By VC Ononye

It was a gathering of high profile wigs in the legal profession at Nnamdi Azikiwe University Awka on Saturday as they honoured one of their own and former Attorney General of the Federation of Nigeria,Sir Clement Emeka Akpamgbo with a memorial Lecture in honour of his memory.

The theme of the lecture was,”Role of advocacy in promoting justice in Nigeria”.

The maiden lecture convened by a distinguished lawyer,Chief Emeka Ngige SAN,focused on the legacy of late Sir Clement Akpamgbo who mentored numerous legal practitioners and contributed eloquently towards the growth of the profession.

But while eulogizing the late Sir Akpamgbo on his monumental legal strides in the annals of Nigerian jurisprudence and practice of Law,one of his closest associates,a 90 year old lawyer,Mr J H C Okolo SAN,deplored the many negative challenges faced by the legal profession in the country.

He blamed the political class for interfering and compromising standards of the judiciary adding that those like him who practiced with early British lawyers and judicial officers are at a loss what has become the ugly fate of Nigerian judiciary today.”All kinds of people join politics today and call themselves Honourables and there is no single honour in them.They are the ones compromising standards and bastardizing the judiciary”,he lamented.

While delivering his lecture,another close associate of late Sir Clement Akpamgbo,Chief Chris Uche,described him(Akpamgbo) as one of the most formidable appellate advocates of his generation and a “Field Marshall “of the Law.

According to Chief Uche,”Sir Clem was not merely an accomplished lawyer ; he was a school of advocacy in himself and a courtroom strategist who has raised a generation of distinguished lawyers many of who are judges and senior advocates.

While suggesting the way forward for the present generation of legal practitioners inorder to sustain the legacy of Sir Clement Akpamgbo,Chief Uche among other things,called for a revival of fearless advocacy by lawyers.

According to him,”We live at a time when political pressure,social noise and institutional anxieties can tempt lawyers into compromising standards”.Access to justice he maintained,will not emerge from statutes or slogans alone,it will come from strong institutions that work,courts that command confidence and advocates who combine skills,courage and integrity in the service of justice.

Chief Uche also called for a renewal of mentorship adding that every enduring legal culture is transmitted from one generation to the next since younger lawyers must not be left to improvise their professional values in a vacuum.

Earlier in his opening remarks,the chairman and convener of the memorial Lecture, Chief Emeka Ngige SAN, said it was fitting to convene such a lecture to immortalize Sir Akpamgbo who he said was not only a mentor but a legal luminary who has built men and women of repute who thought it wise to collaborate with Nnamdi Azikiwe University faculty of Law to organize the lecture 20 years after Sir Clem Akpamgbo’s death.

Welcome addresses were presented by the Vice Chancellor of Nnamdi Azikiwe University Professor Ugochukwu Anyaehie and Dean of Faculty of Law,Professor Felicia Anyogu.

The traditional ruler of Asaba Kingdom HRH, Professor Epiphany Azinge, SAN, Senator Ndi Obi, JHC Okolo SAN, Chief Emeka Etiaba, SAN, Rev fr Barr Ikenga Oraegbunam, Iyom Bernadette Nwachukwu, Past President of Association of National Accountants (ANAN) Chief Anthony Nzom, Professor Frank Okoh, and many other distinguished personalities spoke volumes in acknowledgement of the positive contributions of Sir Clem Akpamgbo towards the growth of the legal profession in Nigeria.

Closing democracy: INEC, the courts, and the shrinking space for opposition

By John Onyeukwu

No tanks on the streets. No suspension of the constitution. No sweeping bans on political activity. Yet something fundamental begins to shift.

There are moments in the life of a democracy when everything appears normal. Courts sit. Electoral bodies issue statements. Political parties hold press conferences. On the surface, the system looks stable. Beneath that surface, however, the space for genuine political competition begins to contract.

The unfolding interaction between the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) and the African Democratic Congress (ADC) represents precisely this kind of moment. It is not simply a dispute over party leadership or internal governance. It is a revealing case study of how democracies can close quietly, not through overt repression, but through the steady accumulation of procedural decisions.

INEC’s April 1, 2026 statement reflects institutional caution. Faced with competing claims arising from ongoing litigation, including Appeal No. CA/ABJ/145/2026 and a parallel case before the Federal High Court, the Commission has opted to maintain what it describes as the status quo ante bellum – essentially preserving the situation as it existed before the dispute. It has declined to recognise any faction within the ADC, removed previously listed party officials from its portal, and suspended engagement with all parties until the courts provide clarity. In effect, it has chosen not to act.

In legal terms, this approach is defensible. The Court of Appeal issued preservatory orders designed to prevent actions that might prejudice the outcome of the case. INEC, wary of being accused of bias or taking steps that could later be invalidated, has taken what it considers the safest path. It is saying, in effect, that it will do nothing that could be interpreted as altering the subject of litigation. But doing nothing is not always neutral. In political systems, inaction is rarely passive; it redistributes advantage.

The doctrine of status quo ante bellum is meant to preserve disputes, not to suspend political life. It is intended to ensure that no party gains an unfair advantage while a case is pending. It does not ordinarily imply that a political party should cease functioning altogether. Political organisations are expected to continue their internal processes, holding meetings, organising leadership structures, and preparing for elections, even as disputes make their way through the courts.

By interpreting judicial caution as a reason to disengage entirely, INEC has effectively transformed a legal safeguard into an administrative freeze with political consequences. The ADC now finds itself in a peculiar position: a registered political party that cannot function with institutional certainty. Its leadership is not recognised. Its activities are not monitored. Its engagement with the electoral body has been suspended. All of this occurs without a formal ban. This is how democracies begin to close quietly.

The ADC has responded by challenging INEC’s interpretation of the law. It argues that no court has expressly prohibited it from conducting congresses or internal conventions, and that internal party processes, when conducted in accordance with its constitution and the Electoral Act, should not be treated as violations of judicial orders. The party insists that “democratic continuity within a political organisation is presumed unless expressly restrained by a competent court.”

That argument is not without merit. Political parties are not meant to exist in a state of suspension. They are expected to resolve disputes while continuing to operate.

Yet the ADC’s position cannot be separated from the weaknesses that produced the crisis in the first place. Internal party democracy in Nigeria is often fragile. Leadership disputes are common. Succession processes are frequently contested. Institutional mechanisms for resolving conflicts are either weak or ineffective. As a result, disagreements that might otherwise be resolved internally quickly escalate into legal battles.

INEC, in turn, is forced to respond within a constrained legal framework. It must enforce compliance with electoral laws while remaining neutral in matters of internal party politics. The challenge lies in how that neutrality is interpreted. At what point does caution become overreach? At what point does regulatory restraint begin to shape political outcomes?

These questions become more urgent when viewed against Nigeria’s broader electoral experience. In APC v. Marafa, the Supreme Court invalidated an entire party’s electoral victories in Zamfara State due to procedural violations in candidate selection. That case demonstrated how strictly courts and electoral bodies can interpret compliance, and how devastating the consequences can be. For INEC, the lesson is clear: procedural errors can carry far-reaching implications, and caution is preferable to reversal. But caution, when extended too far, begins to reshape the system it is meant to protect.

The intervention of the All Progressives Congress (APC) adds another layer to the discussion. The ruling party has endorsed INEC’s position and criticised the ADC for internal disorganisation, arguing that a party unable to manage its own affairs lacks the credibility to present itself as a viable alternative. While this reflects a political perspective, it also highlights how institutional decisions are interpreted through the lens of power. When a regulatory body’s actions align with the interests of a dominant political force, questions about neutrality inevitably arise. This alignment, whether coincidental or structural, illustrates how procedural decisions can acquire distributive political effects.

This is where warnings from voices such as Femi Falana resonate. Falana has cautioned that “through the manipulation of Nigerian courts and senior lawyers, you may have only one candidate contesting the presidential election in this country.” The statement is deliberately stark, but it reflects a broader concern: that the accumulation of legal and procedural hurdles may eventually reduce the field of political competition to a narrow few. Similarly, several analysts have warned of a gradual drift toward a one-party system, suggesting that legal mechanisms are increasingly being used to shape political outcomes in subtle but consequential ways.

These concerns are not without empirical grounding. Nigeria’s party system has undergone significant consolidation over the past decade. From a proliferation of parties, the system has gradually narrowed, through both legal deregistration and electoral outcomes. At the same time, pre-election litigation has increased substantially, with hundreds of cases filed in each election cycle. What emerges is a system in which legal compliance is no longer just a requirement, but a decisive factor in political viability.

This does not necessarily signal democratic collapse. It does, however, point to a shift in how democracy operates. Political competition is increasingly mediated by legal processes, institutional interpretations, and procedural compliance. Parties that can navigate these complexities thrive. Those that cannot risk exclusion, not through prohibition, but through procedural failure.

The ADC–INEC dispute illustrates this dynamic with unusual clarity. The issue is not whether opposition is formally allowed. It is whether opposition can function effectively within the constraints of the system. When regulatory caution leads to the suspension of engagement with a political party, and when judicial interpretation is extended to the point of institutional paralysis, the result is a narrowing of political space.

INEC would argue that it is simply following the law. That is, in a narrow sense, correct. But democracy is not sustained by legal correctness alone. It depends on the ability of institutions to balance caution with participation, and enforcement with openness. The challenge for regulators is not only to avoid illegality, but to avoid inadvertently constraining political competition through excessive procedural caution.

The ADC, for its part, must confront its internal weaknesses. A political party that cannot resolve leadership disputes internally cannot reasonably expect to function effectively within a competitive electoral system. Internal democracy is not optional; it is essential. Without it, parties become vulnerable to external intervention, legal challenges, and regulatory constraints. Leadership ambiguity creates openings for factional contestation, and those divisions often migrate into the courts. Once disputes are judicialised, the party loses a measure of control over its own future.

Yet even as these realities are acknowledged, the broader implication must remain in focus. The issue is not simply the fate of one political party. It is the trajectory of the system itself.

Democracies do not always collapse in dramatic fashion. More often, they evolve slowly, shaped by a series of incremental decisions that, taken together, alter the nature of political competition. Each decision, viewed in isolation, may appear justified, even necessary. But cumulatively, they can produce a system that is less open, less competitive, and less representatives of the electorate’s preferences.

Nigeria is not witnessing the abolition of democracy. It is witnessing the gradual tightening of its contours. The number of actors’ remains, but the conditions under which they operate are becoming more restrictive. The rules are still in place, but their application is becoming more consequential. The system continues to function, but the space within which it functions is narrowing.

Political participation remains formally protected, yet the practical ability to compete is increasingly conditioned on navigating a dense web of legal and procedural requirements. This is how democracies close: quietly, incrementally, and often legally.

The views expressed by contributors are strictly personal and not of Law & Society Magazine.

Explosive Showdown: Dismissed soldier Soja Boi drops receipts, challenges army to reveal payroll

A dismissed Nigerian soldier, Rotimi Olamilekan, popularly known as Soja Boi, has dared the Nigerian Army to release its payroll after displaying bank transaction alerts he said proved that soldiers earn modest wages and are compelled to buy their own protective gear.

Olamilekan, a former lance corporal with service number 18NA/77/1009, made the fresh claims in a video posted on Tuesday, hours after the Army described his earlier allegations as false and misleading.

He was quick to clarify his intentions.

“I am not trying to spoil the Nigerian Army’s image or make people look at them as if they are not good. But I am just speaking the facts and I will be backing them with evidence,” he said.

In the video, he showed three bank transaction alerts he said were evidence of payments he received while in service.

The first, dated February 2, 2026, showed a credit of N112,061.59 with a narration referencing “NIC-ARMY AC.”

Screenshot of the payment receipt of N112,061.59. Photo: Soja Boy Giran President

The second, dated February 4, 2026, showed a N20,000 credit with a narration reading “RTGS INFLOW FROM CBNi B/ORFL CENTRAL B.”

Screenshot of the payment receipt of N20,000. Photo: Soja Boy Giran President

The third, dated November 4, 2025, showed a N45,000 credit with a narration referencing “SKYSTONE FINANCE COMPANY LTD.”

Screenshot of the payment receipt of N45,000. Photo: Soja Boy Giran President

He identified the N112,061.59 as his salary, the N20,000 as grumbling allowance and the N45,000 as an operational allowance paid only to soldiers deployed to active theatres such as Maiduguri.

He said a security allowance of N6,000 also existed.

He stressed that the operational allowance was not a standing entitlement.

“If you are not in operation, they don’t pay you that one. If you go on operation, they will pay you,” he said.

On the N20,000 allowance, he noted that its value may have changed but said he could not confirm this.

“People say they have increased it. I am not sure,” he said.

He added that soldiers on barracks duty received only a fraction of the total payments.

“If you are doing barracks duty, you are only entitled to your salary and that N20,000,” he said.

Olamilekan also maintained his earlier claim that soldiers purchase their own helmets, fragmentation jackets and other protective equipment.

“Helmet, you go buy. Fragmentation jacket, you go buy them,” he said.

He appealed to Nigerians with relatives in the military to verify his claims independently.

“I know so many people who would want to say these things but don’t know how to. Call your brother, call your sister, and ask them if I am lying,” he said.

He challenged the Army to make its payroll public.

“If they say I am lying, they should bring out their payroll. How much are they paying soldiers?” he said.

PUNCH could not independently verify the receipts.

While the narration on the first receipt contains a reference to “NIC-ARMY AC,” the narrations on the second and third receipts do not explicitly identify the Nigerian Army or any government institution as the paying body.

The documents are also bank transaction alerts and do not carry any official Army payroll reference or letterhead.

The Army had on Tuesday, in a statement by its Acting Director of Army Public Relations, Appolonia Anaele, dismissed Olamilekan’s claims as baseless.

It insisted that uniforms, kits, arms and protective gear were provided to all personnel through established logistics systems and that no soldier was deployed to an operational theatre without adequate protection.

The Army acknowledged that some personnel might choose to supplement issued kits but described such decisions as voluntary.

On remuneration, the Army said personnel received consolidated monthly salaries in addition to uniform allowances, operational allowances and other mission-specific entitlements paid directly into their accounts.

Olamilekan first drew national attention in February 2026 when a video in which he called on governors, senators and ministers to send their children to serve in the Army went viral.

He was subsequently arrested, spent his birthday in detention and was later dismissed.

The Army said his dismissal followed persistent acts of indiscipline, including violations of the Armed Forces Social Media Policy and unauthorised media appearances, and was unrelated to the content of his videos.

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Bloody Easter! By Olufunke Baruwa

Plateau, Benue and Kaduna States are places in Nigeria where the earth no longer remembers what it means to be still. The soil has become an archive of grief layered with the blood and memories of lives cut short, families shattered, and communities erased in the dark of night. Again, the killings have returned, the country mourns, nothing feels new and our leaders will offer their usual refrain: sorrows, sorrows, prayers.

In recent days, the cycle of violence has tightened its grip. In Zike community, Bassa LGA, armed militia reportedly killed at least 54 people, many of them children and elderly residents who could neither flee nor fight. Homes were razed, bodies left in the open, and survivors plunged into a grief too deep for words. This was not an isolated incident. It was part of a pattern.

On Palm Sunday, a day meant to symbolise peace, sacrifice, and redemption, gunmen descended on Angwan Rukuba in Jos North. They came in the night, shooting indiscriminately. At least 30 people were killed, with many others injured and displaced.

On Easter Sunday, Kaduna and Benue were also not spared. This is the tragedy: the killings are no longer shocking; like clockwork, they are expected. Then the retaliations follow because those responsible for the carnage feed the fire of an existing inter ethnic/religious conflict and the cycle continues.

A Land Caught Between Memory and Violence

Plateau State has long been described as Nigeria’s “Home of Peace and Tourism.” But that identity now rings hollow. What persists instead is a fragile coexistence constantly ruptured by violence rooted in a complex web of land disputes, ethnic tensions, religious identity, and state failure.

Experts often point to the farmer-herder conflict as a central driver. As climate change pushes pastoralists southward in search of grazing land, competition with farming communities intensifies. But to reduce the violence to environmental stress alone is to miss the deeper crisis: the normalisation of impunity.

In Zike, as in countless communities before it, the victims were not collateral damage in a distant war. They were targeted in their homes, in their sleep, in their vulnerability. Reports from previous attacks in the same area indicate that victims often include children and elderly people, those least able to escape when violence comes. This is not conflict. It is slaughter!

There is something particularly jarring about violence that desecrates sacred time. Palm Sunday is meant to be a moment of reflection, a reminder of humility, sacrifice, and hope. But in Angwan Rukuba, it became a day of bloodshed. Residents recount how armed men stormed the community, some reportedly dressed in uniforms resembling those of security forces, before opening fire on defenceless civilians.

The aftermath tells its own story. Curfews imposed. Protests erupting. Examinations suspended at the University of Jos. Life interrupted, once again, by violence that arrives without warning and leaves without consequence. For the people of Plateau, mourning has become routine. Burial has become a weekly ritual. And fear has become a permanent resident.

The bloodshed did not end in Plateau. On Easter Sunday, attacks in Kaduna and Benue again shattered a sacred moment. In Benue, gunmen killed at least 17 people in Gwer West, destroying homes and displacing families. In Kachia LGA, Kaduna, worshippers were attacked during church services, with several killed and others abducted. These assaults targeting people at prayer and in their homes underscore a grim reality: in parts of Nigeria, no place is safe and no day is sacred, as violence continues to spread unchecked.

Beyond Narratives of “Clashes” and The Failure of Protection

Every massacre raises the same questions: Where were the security forces? Why do these attacks continue unabated? Who is held accountable? The answers are as troubling as the questions.

Despite repeated deployments of security personnel, the killings persist. Communities speak of delayed responses, of warnings ignored, of attackers who arrive and leave with chilling ease. In some cases, the use of military-style uniforms and vehicles by assailants has further complicated the already fragile relationship between citizens and the state. This is more than a security lapse. It is a systemic failure.

When a state cannot protect its citizens, when entire communities can be wiped out overnight without consequence, it erodes the very foundation of governance. People begin to retreat into self-help, into suspicion, into cycles of retaliation that only deepen the crisis. And so, the violence continues, not just because of those who perpetrate it, but because of the vacuum that allows it to thrive.

One of the most dangerous aspects of the crisis is the language used to describe it. Too often, these killings are framed as “clashes”, as though they are spontaneous eruptions of mutual aggression between equal parties. They are not. What happened over Easter was not a clash. These were coordinated attacks on vulnerable communities with the motive of annihilation. Language matters because it shapes response. When violence is mischaracterised, it is misunderstood. And when it is misunderstood, it is poorly addressed.

There is also a tendency to reduce the crisis to religious binaries: Muslim versus Christian, herder versus farmer. While identity plays a significant role, such simplifications obscure the deeper structural issues: governance failures, competition over resources, the proliferation of small arms, terrorism and the absence of justice. Until these root causes are confronted, the killings will not stop.

The Cost of Silence and Breaking the Cycle

Perhaps the most haunting aspect of the killings is not just the violence itself, but the silence that follows. There are statements of condemnation, promises of investigation and visits by government officials expressing sympathy. But beyond the immediate aftermath, the urgency fades.

The headlines move on. The country forgets, but the people do not forget. They remember the names, the faces and the nights when sleep was shattered by gunfire and the mornings that revealed the scale of loss. Silence, in this context, is not neutrality. It is complicity.

To speak of solutions in the face of such recurring tragedy can feel almost naive. But it is necessary. First, there must be accountability. Not just arrests, but prosecutions. Not just statements, but justice. Without consequences, violence becomes a viable option.

Second, there must be intelligence-led security. The pattern of attacks suggests planning and coordination. This is not random violence; it is organised. Preventing it requires more than reactive deployments; it requires proactive disruption. General Christopher Musa’s appointment in December 2025 had raised significant public expectations to decisively curb insecurity; unfortunately, that hope remains painfully unfulfilled.

Third, there must be a genuine effort to address the underlying drivers of conflict. Land use policies, climate adaptation strategies, religious and ethnic intolerance and community-based peacebuilding initiatives are not optional; they are essential.

Finally, there must be political will. Not the performative kind that surfaces after each tragedy, but the sustained commitment required to confront a crisis that has festered for too long.

This is not just a regional crisis; it is a national warning. It speaks to a Nigeria where insecurity is no longer an exception but a condition where communities live on the edge of fear.

If the killings continue unchecked, they will not remain confined to states. Violence, like fire, spreads. The question, then, is not whether Nigeria can afford to act. It is whether it can afford not to. It is also a test of Nigeria’s conscience, leadership and capacity for justice.

The views expressed by contributors are strictly personal and not of Law & Society Magazine.

That Ojaaba Ibadan court of dirty linen, By Funke Egbemode

Every Saturday, I reach for the Saturday Tribune to read the latest tales of dirty underwear from Ibadan’s courts of broken marriages. There are always stories—divorce petitions and intimate scandals—from the Chief Customary Court sitting at Ojaaba in Ibadan.

I once asked the editor of the paper whether there were no Catholics in Ibadan and whether that court ever went on holiday. He laughed and told me that even in Rome, the home of Catholic marriage, people file for divorce and wash their dirty, stinking linen in public every week.

He pointed me to the Rome News Tribune, which, on April 4, 2026, published on its website the names of people who “filed for divorce through the Floyd County Superior Court Clerk’s Office for the week of March 23, 2026″. That Roman newspaper went on to name names. I avoid doing that here.

What struck me, however, is that there is no hallowed ground anywhere when it comes to the sanctity of marriage.

People exit marriages for all sorts of reasons and faults. Sometimes, the cause may be as trivial as a spouse not knowing how to neatly press a toothpaste tube; at other times, it may be as grave as outright betrayal.

In some cases, partners simply drift apart without formal divorce proceedings.

But it can be deeply painful—or downright foolish—for a partner not to realise when the market is over. Market. Yes, marriage is a market: it is about buying and selling, offer and acceptance. That is why it is a contract.

In 2013, I wrote a piece titled “Ladies, this is how to know your man is through with you.”

Since that piece was written 13 years ago, much water has passed under the bridge of both great and not-so-great marriages.

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Because if lice will not stop living in the hem of a dress, the fingers will not be free of blood. I reproduce that 2013 piece here verbatim:

So, how do you know if you are being dumped or if you are already the ‘dumpee’ even this minute? First, let us agree that not all relationships end in ‘I do’. Many end in ‘I don’t’. If a man no longer wants to ‘do’, you would do well, my sister, to learn to let him go.

When a man is done with a relationship, he is done. He may not look like he is even lacing up his boots, yet he may have left you weeks ago. A woman needs to learn how to read the signs—and what to do. Unlike women, who are often sentimental about ending relationships, men tend to be more logical.

If they want out, they head for the door. Some try to be nice about it—though I doubt there is a nice way to dump a woman—but a man who is through is through. Trying to stop him is, most times, a waste of time and energy. When a man finds himself in a tight corner, the first person he looks out for is himself. He may not intend to hurt, but hurt is what follows. The dumper may even be more hurt than the dumpee—if you get my meaning. Perhaps that is why the stench from dump sites is always so terrible. Dumping is simply bad business.

So, how do you know you are being dumped—or already dumped? Again, let us agree that not all relationships end in ‘I do’. Many end in ‘I don’t’. If a man no longer wants to ‘do’, it is wiser to let him go. Not that you can stop him if he is already eyeing the door, but it is easier on the dumpee if she holds a meeting between her heart and her head—and they agree not to cause a scene.

Here is one sign: he stops asking detailed questions about your movements. If he once checked on you three times between leaving the office and getting home but now only asks, “How was your day?”—and quickly changes the subject when you begin to explain—let the green light in your head turn amber. If you mention a dinner and all he says is “okay” without asking who is hosting, where it is, or what you will wear, you are losing your grip. As far as he is concerned, you can go jump in an acid lake.

He will also stop explaining his own movements. If you see another woman in his car and stop him, a “nice” dumper will greet you, say he is in a hurry, and move on. Note: he does not introduce her, nor explain who you are. Count yourself lucky he even stopped—and keep that amber light on. You are no longer as important as you used to be. Or did you believe the “I’m in a hurry” line?

If you have met members of his family, be alert to a sudden chill. Watch for smiles that do not reach the eyes, pitying looks, and barely concealed relief when you say you are leaving. They may like you—but he has likely introduced someone else and told them he is done with you.

When a man begins to make himself unavailable and unapproachable, he is signalling that the deal is off. If weekends once spent together are now always “busy”, do not ignore the alarm bells. If you visit unannounced, you may well find your replacement.

If the man who once could not keep his hands and eyes off you now sees you in lingerie, adjusts his glasses, and returns to his laptop or iPad, you are likely headed for the dumpsite. If he walks past you in the shower without a second glance, there is cause for serious concern.

If your ten calls a day have dwindled to one—or none—you are a dumpee awaiting formal confirmation.

That man has moved on. I suggest you do the same.

Yes—this is my verdict in my capacity as Chairman, National Assembly Joint Committee on Intimate Affairs.

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Echoes of Trauma: The cost of looking away, By Lillian Okenwa

Even the rich know it. The quiet, unsettling fear that defines present-day Nigeria.

Their children study abroad. Their lives are built elsewhere. Many of those entrusted with fixing our schools, our roads, our economy, our laws have secured comfort beyond our borders. Their families live in systems that work, in societies shaped by accountability, structure, and foresight. Yet here at home, the same sense of urgency is absent.

And so, Nigerians continue to grapple, day after day, with insecurity, economic hardship, and the struggle for basic existence, wondering why those who benefit from functioning systems elsewhere cannot replicate even fragments of that reality here.

Across the country, people are no longer just citizens. They are becoming commodities. Taken from their homes, from roads that have long been abandoned to decay, from communities left exposed. If the roads do not claim them, then armed men will. Kidnappers who demand ransoms that families cannot afford, or worse, who reduce human life to something expendable.

Villages are emptied. Towns are scarred. Lives once rooted in dignity are displaced into uncertainty. The proud homeowner now stands in line, waiting for aid in overcrowded camps, dependent on gestures that should never replace governance.

And yet, we say there is a government.

Where are the leaders?

Their families may be safe, far removed from this daily reality, but distance does not erase consequence. It only delays it.

When the President visited Jos, he remained at the airport. It was described as strategy. Logistics. Security. But pain does not exist at a distance. Devastation cannot be understood from behind guarded walls. Jos, like Benue, Kaduna, Kwara, and so many other places, continues to bleed in ways that words struggle to capture.

For how long will this continue?

Do we lack the capacity to fix what is broken, or have we simply grown accustomed to looking away? What will it take to stop this slow unravelling of a nation? And somewhere beneath all of this, a quieter question lingers. Is there still hope?

The truth is, what we are witnessing today did not begin today. It is the result of years of neglect, of issues ignored, dismissed, or postponed. Now they stand before us, undeniable and consuming. Those who believe they are insulated, who think distance or privilege offers protection, may need to pause and reconsider.

Because nothing festers in isolation forever.

A society that fails its children is already writing its future. A child who is guided becomes a citizen who builds. But a child who is abandoned, unheard, and unseen may grow into the very instability we now fear.

What we ignore today does not disappear. It returns, louder, closer, and far more difficult to confront.

Until we learn to face what we have long avoided, the echoes will not fade.

A lawyer and equity advocate, Lillian can be reached at [email protected]

“They ordered her on the bed so I decided to strike” – Cameroonian man shot while defending his wife during armed robbery at home

A realtor, Nguni Urbain has narrated how he was shot while defending his wife during a violent robbery at his home in Bunduma, Buea, Cameroon.

According to Urbain, two armed men invaded his house, making away with cash, valuables, and money from his mobile account.

The situation escalated when one of the attackers attempted to r@pe his wife, prompting him to resist.

He hit the assailants and managed to open the door, raising an alarm. 

He was shot in the chest during the struggle but the bullet missed vital organs. The assailants fled shortly after.

The victim is currently receiving treatment in a hospital in Buea.

“Hello valued customers and followers. 2 armed men invaded my house, collected money, withdrew from momo accounts, tied me hands and legs at the back,” he wrote in a Facebook post on Monday, April 6, 2026.

“I finally pleaded until they freed my hand and legs after which they tied my mouth and took me to the room, ordered my wife on the bed so I decided to strike. 

“After hitting them I succeeded in opening the door and stepped out still struggling and shouting. He shot me on the chest.

“The bullet passed directly and bust my back. They tune while I undergo treatment and we thank God for my life

They ordered her on the bed so I decided to strike - Cameroonian man shot while defending his wife during armed robbery at home
They ordered her on the bed so I decided to strike - Cameroonian man shot while defending his wife during armed robbery at home
They ordered her on the bed so I decided to strike - Cameroonian man shot while defending his wife during armed robbery at home
They ordered her on the bed so I decided to strike - Cameroonian man shot while defending his wife during armed robbery at home
They ordered her on the bed so I decided to strike - Cameroonian man shot while defending his wife during armed robbery at home

23-year-old man to face trial in Ondo over rape of teenager

The Ondo State Police Command says it will arraign a 23-year-old man, Emmanuel Usman, over the alleged rape of a 14-year-old girl in the Ijebu Owo area of the state.

PUNCH Metro learnt on Monday from a statement by the Ondo State Police Public Relations Officer, Abayomi Jimoh, that the arrest followed a report by the victim.

Jimoh noted that the victim alleged that the suspect dragged her into an office where he had carnal knowledge of her without her consent.

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He stated, “The Ondo State Police Command under the leadership of CP Adebowale Lawal wishes to inform the general public of a reported case of defilement which is currently under thorough investigation by the Command’s Gender-Based Violence Unit.”

“The case was reported on the 29th of March, 2026, by a 14-year-old female (name withheld for confidentiality), a resident of Ijebu Owo.

“According to the report, the victim alleged that on the same date, one Emmanuel Usman ‘M’, aged 23 years, forcefully dragged her into his employer’s office located along Ijebu Owo, where he had unlawful carnal knowledge of her without her consent.”

The PPRO added that the victim also alleged that the suspect threatened her with dire consequences should she disclose the incident to anyone.

He added that the victim, however, defied the threat and reported to the police.

He continued, “Upon receipt of the report, operatives swiftly moved into action, leading to the arrest of the suspect. He is currently in police custody and has made useful statements that are aiding the investigation.

“He will be charged in court accordingly upon conclusion of the investigation. However, the victim has been taken to the General Hospital, Owo, where she received necessary medical care.”

Jimoh stated that necessary medical and psychological support has been offered to the victim, adding that the Commissioner of Police has directed that the case be handled with diligence, sensitivity, and urgency to ensure justice is served.

“The Command strongly condemns acts of defilement and all forms of abuse against minors and assures the public that such offenders will be brought to justice in accordance with the law.

“Parents, guardians, and members of the public are advised to remain vigilant, educate their wards on personal safety, and promptly report any suspicious or criminal activities to the nearest police station,” he concluded.

PUNCH Metro reported on March 22 that the command arrested a 21-year-old man, Alabi Anthony, for allegedly raping and killing a woman, Olaseni Veronica, in the Iboropa community in the Akoko North-East Local Government Area.

Jimoh had stated that the suspect reportedly strangled the victim to death after the alleged sexual assault last week.

Detectives were said to have acted on credible intelligence by tracking the deceased’s missing phone, which led to Anthony’s arrest.

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