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Hope has worn thin in our dear nation —Bishop Kukah

The Catholic Bishop of Sokoto Diocese, Bishop Hassan Matthew Kukah, has asked President Bola Tinubu to establish the payment of compensation to victims of insecurity across the country as a way of getting the State take responsibility for securing its citizens while pointing out that hope has worn thin in Nigeria.

“A culture of compensation to victims must be institutionalised and states must take full responsibility while criminals or those who hide them are fished out. We cannot go on this way,” Bishop Kukah said in his 2023 Christmas message.

Again, Kukah told the President that: “You have promised us a Renewed Hope Agenda, but know that hope has worn thin in our dear nation. Nigerians have almost lost hope in the fact that a government can really and truly care for them.”

The fiery priest also urged the president to purge Nigeria of corrupt public servants if “you are to succeed in any of your dreams of delivering much-needed services to our people.”

“You must rid the public service of criminals who have turned the opportunity to serve into an ignoble enterprise. We concede that there are millions of decent men and women who genuinely wish to serve but are crushed by the deadweight of corrupt ogas at the top who use corruption as their oxygen!”

In the message which he titled Time to reclaim Nigeria’s greatness, Kukah also condemned the war in Gaza noting that some of President Tinubu’s policies had brought suffering to Nigerians.

Read the full message below.

Time to reclaim Nigeria’s greatness

Christmas Message By Bishop Matthew Hassan KUKAH,

Catholic Diocese of Sokoto

1. Muted Joys of Silent Night in Bethlehem:

On the very first Christmas night in Bethlehem, an angel of the Lord announced to the poor and lowly shepherds keeping watch over their flock in the fields that a Saviour had been born. Joined by a multitude of the Hosts of Heaven, the angel blasted the first Christmas carol, “Glory to God in the highest heaven, and on earth peace to men and women of goodwill” (Lk. 2:8-14). In Bethlehem, the City of David the Great King, the birthplace of Jesus Christ, the Prince of Peace, there is no celebration of Christmas this year 2023. The “good news of great joy for all the people” (Lk 2:10) which the angel brought to the shepherds is not going to be heard this year by the men, women, and children who are the brothers and sisters of Jesus in Gaza and the whole of Palestine. This is because of a senseless act of violence that has left more than 20,000 people dead, with children and women as the main casualties. Early February this year, Pope Francis reminded us, while visiting the Democratic Republic of Congo, that “Violence against women and mothers is violence against God himself, who from a woman, from a mother, took on our human condition.”

2: Bethlehem: The Manger is in Ruins:

The Christmas crib as we know is embedded in the spirit of Christmas. It usually has the baby Jesus, surrounded by Joseph and Mary along with the goats and the sheep in the manger. Today, however, the crib that lies in the Nativity Church has the baby Jesus buried in rubble, as a metaphor to the destruction that is the reality of today’s holy land. The Parish Priest said the idea is to call attention to the mind-boggling, barbaric, cruel, frightening savagery that has shaken the foundation of Gaza. In other words, if the Magi came looking for Jesus today, the priest noted, they would have to dig through the rubble! Christmas night will be a silent night in Bethlehem. No carols. No lights. No celebrations. The place is a graveyard with the signatures of death, sickness, hunger looming. Yet, we Christians believe that there will be a resurrection. All we need to do is to stay awake in faith.

3. Let Us Look to the East:

Faced with the horrifying shadow of the Cross which has fallen over Palestine, we must pause, bow our heads in sorrow, and pray. For every victim of the ongoing carnage in the Holy Land, we must bend our knees to the Lord in prayer on this Christmas Day, imploring him, “Spare your people, Lord. Do not make your inheritance an object of scorn, a byword among the nations. Why should they say among the peoples, ‘Where is their God?’” (Joel 2:17). May “the Sun of Justice arise with healing in his wings” (Mal. 4:2). May “the Prince of Peace” (Is. 9:6) bring peace to the Land of His birth. May “Christ the power of God and the wisdom of God” (1 Cor. 1:24) grant wisdom to all working for a peaceful resolution of the conflict in the Holy Land and in all theatres of violence in our world. “May justice roll down like waters, and righteousness like an ever-flowing stream” (Amos 5:24).

4: The Shepherds and God’s Revelation:

For us Christians, the complex mystery of our salvation as manifested in the coming of Jesus can never be fully comprehended by human imagination nor can it be explained by history or philosophy. Christianity itself is a religion of serious ironies that are often seen as scandals in the human imagination. Yet, it is the very things that non-Christians see as scandals that are the bedrock of our faith. A few examples: How, many non-Christians ask, could God become a human being? (Jn. 1:1-14). How can we say that Jesus is the son of God? (Jn 5:19-20). How is it possible for a dead man to rise from the dead? (Jn 2:19, 21-22). If Jesus is God and came from Heaven and is prince of the world, how could he have been born amidst such misery? (Jn 1:11). This irony is further explained in the fact that the birth of Jesus was not announced in the temple to holy Priests at prayer but to poor Shepherds who were out in the misery of a cold winter night. Yet, amidst their vulnerability, God chose them as the first hearers of the good news of the birth of Jesus, the Saviour of the World and the Prince of Peace. In truth, God’s thoughts are not our thoughts, his ways are not our ways (Is. 55:11).

5: The Powerlessness of Power:

Every Christmas seeks to enact this seemingly incomprehensible history of ironies. Yet, rather than diminish, millions of persons around the world continue to give their lives to Jesus daily. Indeed “to all who receive Him He has given the power to become children of God” (Jn 1:12). Despite being sought after, murdered, imprisoned, thrown to wild animals, tortured in bonfires, ridiculed, with no earthly power or resources at their disposal, his almost illiterate followers, firing no human weapon, finally converted the Roman Empire. Their moral authority derived from the gift of the Holy Spirit that Jesus had promised them (Acts 1:8). Today, the irony of His life, his seeming powerlessness by human standards, his rejection of earthly power have offered the world a compass with which to navigate the hills and valleys of life’s uncertainties. For as He declares, “I am the Way, the Truth, and the Life” (Jn 14:6). “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest” (Mt. 11:28). “Come and see” (Jn 1:39). “Taste and see that the Lord is good” (Ps 34:8). Christianity has continued to spread despite oppression and persecution even among us in Nigeria. The blood of martyrs has continued to nurture the growth of our faith. To God be glory and power for ever and ever. Amen.

6: The Message of Christmas is Joy not Happiness:

When the angel appeared to the Shepherds to announce the news of the birth of Jesus, he said: Do not be afraid, I bring you good news of great joy for all people (Lk. 2:10). As human beings, we often use Joy with Happiness interchangeably. The two mean different things. For example, Happiness is spontaneous, fleeting, momentary, ephemeral, short-lived and passing, often marked by open gesticulation. Joy on the other hand is very deep, reflective, solemn, awe-inspiring, sacrificial, meditative and often impossible to put into words. Money can buy happiness as we see when a rich man purchases an expensive car, builds a new house or buys a private jet. Yet, none of these can give joy. Money cannot buy sleep or give contentment because the human mind will always want more toys. Happiness is external while joy is internal. Joy guarantees contentment and peace. Joy enables you to swim the tide of tragedy with calmness, knowing that the rainbow of joy banishes the dark clouds of fear, doubt and uncertainty. In his first encyclical, Pope Francis, titled, The Joy of the Gospel, the holy father warned Christians not to allow themselves to be robbed of the joy of the Gospel.

7: Nigeria: A Nation Still in Search of Healing:

The 2023 elections have come and gone, well some might say, not quite. Despite the controversies, most of the processes have been concluded. In the course of the elections and their aftermath of violence, Nigeria did look like a crime scene. We cannot gloss over any of these deep wounds and scars. We must find healing. This is not an easy job for any nation and there are no shortcuts to nation building. However, the last few years did test our collective resolve to stay united. Now, the government must devise strategies for achieving reconciliation which has eluded us. Our injuries are not invisible. Very many national conferences have been held to chart a way forward. The trove of grievances and hopes are there and all the govern needs to do is to dust them up. No need to re-invent the wheel or attempt some new diagnosis.

8: Now, all Eyes on President Bola Ahmed Tinubu:

Mr. President, Sir, congratulations and a happy Christmas. Now, you have what you prayed for, what you dreamt of, what you longed for. For the better part of over twenty years, you have plotted to be our President. For years, you campaigned for a new Nigeria through restructuring or overhauling the defective machinery of the Nigerian state. For years, you fought the military and other forms of dictatorships. For years, you fought for the victims of a deep state. For years, you sought to create an egalitarian society. For years, you sought a just society. For years you have built networks with individuals, communities and institutions. Now is harvest time.

You are on the driving seat now. Under your watch, Nigeria must turn the corner. Under your watch, we must end the ugly instrumentalization of religious, ethnic or regional identities. You have had enough time to think of the answers to many questions that are crying for answers. Your future and that of our country is in your hands. M. President, you have no excuses before God or the people of Nigeria. Neither God nor history will not forgive you if you fail. This is our moment, our date with history. Now, all eyes and ears are on you. Our prayers for a united country are with you.

We have seen the first faltering steps of policy decisions which have elicited a mixture of controversy, anxiety and praise. This is to be expected. You have promised us a Renewed Hope Agenda, but know that hope has worn thin in our dear nation. Nigerians have almost lost hope in the fact that a government can really and truly care for them. Nigerians have lost hope in the fact that our politicians will put our interests first and find a way to deal with the cancer of corruption. We had lost hope in being united again given the seeds of division that had been sown. Ignite our hope again, Sir.

We now have seen some renewed hope in your effort to run an inclusive government. We want an end to partisanship. The problems of Nigeria are deep-seated and they are based on a culture of corruption that has become the foundation stone of governance. This evil structure has to be dismantled. Nigeria’s problems will not be resolved by palliatives. The problems deep and are structural. Please do not be afraid to reset the template of power no matter the cultural or historical myths. We are tired of promises and stories. We want evidence we can see and touch.

Mr. President the killings of Nigerians by whatever name must end and end now. These senseless killings, abductions, extortions and kidnappings have to end and the sacredness and sanctity of human life restored. Blasphemy laws have no place in a democracy. We are not in a theocracy. Those who take life by whatever means must be fished out and punished. A culture of compensation to victims must be institutionalised and states must take full responsibility while criminals or those who hide them are fished out. We cannot go on this way. The seeds of hatred that have sprouted in Gaza show us the consequences of allowing a culture of distorted narratives to grow among us.

You must rid the public service of criminals who have turned the opportunity to serve into an ignoble enterprise. We concede that there are millions of decent men and women who genuinely wish to serve but are crushed by the deadweight of corrupt ogas at the top who use corruption as their oxygen! This surgery must happen if you are to succeed in any of your dreams of delivering much needed services to our people.

To be able to have credibility, your Renewed Hope agenda must be based on a solid foundation of faith and hope for the restoration of glory for our country. Scripture says that Faith is based on things hoped for, evidence of things unseen (Heb.11: 6). So far, a few of your key policies have unleashed a raft of suffering on the masses of our people. There must be a deliberate effort to restore hope on the faces of the poor and vulnerable in our society. We have heard the familiar stories of empty treasuries, and the efforts at investigations. We wait to see if anything will be different. Lay the foundation for ending the unnecessary sufferings of our people.

9: To all Nigerians:

I appeal to you all, let us stay the course in hope. God will do great things for our nation, but we each must renew our commitment towards self-examination and repentance. Good politics and good politicians can bring about change, but all of these require the commitment and honesty of citizens to be honest at all levels. I therefore call on Christians in particular in this season to become real models of our faith. Heed the words of Jesus to be, salt of the earth and light of the world (Mt. 5:13). The call to be a Christian is not a call to join an Association or a Club. The fourteenth century English poet Alexander Pope who said, “Christ may be born a thousand times in Bethlehem, but if he is not born in your heart, his birth has no meaning for you.”

It is Christmas! Sing with Bobby McFerrin, Don’t worry, be happy. Eat rice, have picnics, dance and drink mildly. But beyond that, let us find Joy. Roll up your sleeves and let us start the building of a nation of unfinished greatness called Nigeria. We can, we should and we must.

I know that our hope in our nation has been severely put to the test, but we must renew our faith in God. When the cylinder of the oxygen of hope seems drained, listen to Prophet Isaiah who said: Have you not heard, do you not know? The Lord gives power to the faint and to him who has no might, he increases his strength. Even the youth faint and are weary, and young men fall exhausted. But they who wait on the Lord shall renew their strength, they shall mount up with wings like eagles, they shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint (Is. 40: 28-31).

10: Our Lady Queen of Nigeria, Pray for Us

At the heart of this celebration is the Virgin Mother of Jesus, a symbol of the purity of womanhood, a symbol of obedience and a reminder of the sacred womb that bore Jesus whom we celebrate today. May she intercede for our dear country. May our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ let the glory of God shine in us and our country. Peace to the world, peace to Gaza and a blessed Christmas to you all.

We need purposeful leadership to chart the course for rebuilding our nation —Maikyau, SAN

Dear Colleagues,

 Christmas is the season when we commemorate and celebrate the birth of our Lord Jesus Christ – a fulfilment of the prophesies of about 750 years prior, for the specific cause stated therein; to redeem mankind from the sinful nature and its consequences, occasioned by the fall through Adam which led to spiritual death – separation from God (Adam was separated from God). By this, all men took on the nature of sin and suffered spiritual death. But God, through Jesus Christ, in His death, burial and resurrection accomplished the redemptive, reconciliatory work and by that, gave to all mankind the gift of eternal life. This gift, when accepted establishes the reconciliation between divinity and humanity; transforms and translates one from the dominion of darkness to the kingdom of God’s Dear Son, Jesus Christ. This gift of eternal life is primarily given for the purpose of bringing all men to Christ and to the knowledge of the truth. We must therefore graduate from our traditional celebration of Christmas, where we focus on the festivities, merriments, and celebrations, to making the season a time of stock-taking; assessing the use to which we have put the gift of eternal life that we have in-Christ. Our nation, no doubt, is passing through difficult times. The peace of the nation is greatly challenged, the economy is struggling despite huge human and natural resources at our disposal as a nation. We need purposeful leadership to chart the course for rebuilding our nation. We must, without abdicating our civic responsibilities and the need to apply ourselves fully from the human standpoint to the business of recovering, reforming, and repositioning our nation, pay very close attention to the command in the scripture, that we pray for our leaders without any qualification. The combination of our honest, purposeful, and sincere work as a people, with the discharge of our divine obligation to pray for our leaders for wisdom, courage, boldness, and discernment, will no doubt lead us to the productive nation that we all desire to build. As we go into the New Year, 2024, let us do so with a renewed vigour, energy, focus and hope for a better nation. We must continue to civilly engage and demand for the discharge of all constitutional responsibilities entrusted on our leaders for the benefit of the people of this nation. Nigeria must succeed, Nigeria cannot fail under our watch, and I call on all Nigerians to brace up for the challenges ahead. Let us make the necessary sacrifices for the future of our nation. On their own part, our leaders must from their actions, convince Nigerians that the sacrifices and sufferings of today are to bring about a better future for us and the generation to come.   To all my colleagues, let us commit to our primary call of giving direction to the people and advancing the cause of Nigeria, as our default mode to Nigeria’s nation building. I wish you all a Merry Christmas and a glorious 2024 and beyond. Long Live the Nigerian Bar Association!Long Live the Federal Republic of Nigeria!!May God Bless the Good and Hardworking People of Nigeria!!! 

 Yakubu Chonoko Maikyau, OON, SANPRESIDENT

Caught stealing phone, 18-year-old kills retired teacher

18-year old, Mubarak Akadiri, has been arrested and charged in Ondo State for allegedly killing a 62-year old retired head teacher, Mrs. Sidikat Adamolekun, who caught him stealing her phone worth N66,000. 

P.M. Express reports that Mubarak who is the son of the victim’s housemaid said he used a wooden stool to repeatedly hit the elderly woman on the head when she caught him stealing her phone.

“As usual, I went to the house to work and I later came back to steal her Samsung phone. Unfortunately, the deceased caught me after I have stolen the phone. So, she held me and in an attempt to escape, I used a wooden stool to hit her head. But the old woman kept shouting for help. Thereafter, I hit her repeatedly on her head until she fell and died.”

After his escape on killing the woman, the matter was reported to the Police who trailed, eventually arrested and detained him.

After rounds of interrogation,  the Police found him culpable for wilfully killing the deseased and consequently charged him before the Akure Magistrate Court for murder.

However,  the Court did not take his plea when he was arraigned. The Presiding Magistrate, Damilola Sekoni, ordered the remand of Mubarak at the Olokuta Correctional Centre pending the outcome of the Director of Public Prosecutions (DPP) advice.

The matter was adjourned till 15th March, 2024, for mention for the report of DPP’s advice on the matter to be available, which will determine if the matter will be transferred to the High Court or not over jurisdiction.

Woman baths husband with hot water for not taking her along to a wedding

The Police Command in Lagos State has confirmed the arrest of a woman, Mrs Dorcas Oluwabukola, for allegedly bathing her husband with hot water because he didn’t take her to a wedding party.

The Command’s spokesperson, SP Benjamin Hundeyin, confirmed the arrest to the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) on Monday following the reports of the woman bathing her husband with hot water.

Hundeyin said that the incident happened on Dec. 18, while the suspect was arrested same day after the Meiran Police Division got information about the woman pouring her husband with hot water.

He said investigation into the case had begun, stressing that the man was responding to treatment at an undisclosed hospital.

Sources had earlier told NAN that the woman got angry with the husband, who attended his childhood friend’s wedding without taking her along leading to her bathing him with hot water.

NAN gathered that there was an argument between the couple on alleged infidelity, which led to an altercation between them and the wife later boiled hot water, with which she allegedly poured on the man.

NAN learnt that husband  and wife were supposed to go to the wedding party together, but the husband later chose to go alone.

NAN

I make over N150,000 monthly from shoemaking – Ex-convict

Zakariya Mohammed, an ex-convict, says he earns over N150,000 monthly from the shoemaking trade he started in the past five months.

He learnt bag and shoemaking skills while serving a term at the Medium Security Custodial Centre, Billiri, Gombe State.

Mohammed told the News Agency of Nigeria in Gombe on Friday that his life is now meaningful as an ex-convict.

The skill, he said, empowers him to fend for his needs and that of his family as he rakes in between N5,000 and N7,000 daily, depending on patronage.

According to him, the price of a pair of his handmade shoes ranges between N1,000 and N3,000, while the bags go for between N700 and N2,500, depending on its size and quality.

Mohammed said he also made money from amending and redesigning shoes, adding that he made good savings from the trade.

Narrating his story, Mohammed, 26, who had no skills prior to his conviction, described his incarceration as a “blessing”.

He said: “When I was sent to the correctional centre, I became so sad because I thought my life was finished.

“For some days upon my arrival, I was always thinking and frustrated on how I will spend years in the correctional facility serving my sentence.

“Until one day that Mr. Christopher Jen, the then Deputy Controller in charge of the facility, approached me and encouraged me to take one of the several skill acquisition programmes of my choice.

“Thank God, I joined and I started learning shoemaking and after completing the training, I moved further to learn how to make bags.

“I spent two years and six months there.

“I was released in June 2023 and opened my shoe making shop and today I am making my own money.”

On how he was able to set up his business, Mohammed said it was with the support of his family members who were happy with the skill he acquired while in the correctional centre.

He said: “After my release, my family learnt that I had acquired skill while in the correctional centre, so they bought sewing and shoemaking machines and other materials for me to set up my shop.”

To ensure smooth running of the trade, Mohammed engaged 11 apprentices who are currently receiving training in bag and shoemaking.

He commended the Federal Government for introducing skill acquisition programmes in correctional centres while appealing for support for ex-inmates who acquired various skills to enable them to set up businesses and become self-reliant.

He added: “This will ensure that they don’t go back to crime or drugs.

“I am now too occupied to think of crime.

“All I think of now is how to satisfy my customers.”

NAN

Intimate Affairs: Before your bull wanders off, by Funke Egbemode

Husbands can and do defect because defection is a two-way street. If wives can defect, so can husbands. If a woman doesn’t get too old for touching and pampering, a man is also entitled to warmth, kiss and cuddle. A bull is always a bull. His charging power may reduce but charge he must. He doesn’t even want to be told or reminded that he’s not charging hard like of old. He may not be as fast and furious as he was 30 years ago but it is still dangerous to leave a bull unattended.

Unfortunately, many busy sisters not only leave their bulls untethered, they also leave the doors of the stalls open and I ask myself, what meaneth thou when you do such a thing, girl? Who takes that kind of risk just because she’s busy? If he’s an old bull, getting his batteries discharged most likely won’t take long, so what’s the point of ignoring him? He is no longer hard work, unlike before when you had to beg him to release you. Just check out his batteries and do the needful regularly. Indeed, sometimes you may not have to do any downloading. Just plug and unplug. However, to think that a month charging doesn’t need discharging is like using a snake’s head to scratch your nose. In other words, your ageing bull still needs tender loving care if you don’t want him to ‘japa’.

Somehow, I am worried today about my sisters in public office: the deputy governors, state and federal lawmakers, directors-general, professors, special advisers and special assistants. They have been on my mind all week. Something tells me that one or some of them have untethered bulls roaming, roaring around, seeking who to devour. Let me share, in part, what happened to a certain female politician who thought she had her husband where she wanted him – a calm bull who no longer needed warmth or care. Of course, he wandered off once, then again and again until he set up a new farm settlement, where he sharpened his old tools again.

By the time our busy female politician realised her bull was neither tired nor retired, it was harvest time. Old bull had harvested a brand new son, which looked exactly like his first son but is the same age as his latest grandson. Did you just say ‘wow’? Exactly! A 64-year-old woman would have reached menopause but a 64-year-old man’s still got enough kick to demolish a 30-year-old pretty young thing. Whoever came up with the term “menopause” was a mean chauvinist.

This my ‘Honourable’ friend is a politician based in Abuja and her businessman husband ran the family business in Lagos. The children are all grown. Oga is in his 60s and my friend thought her marriage was safe, home and dry. I mean, what could possibly threaten a marriage of three decades? What could a grandfather of two still be looking for outside his home? Plenty, I tell you. It turns out that sometimes grandfathers are too randy and needy to hang their boots. They may not be able to compete in 100-metres dash and marathons but many men will always be in the race until they load them off in a coffin.

Anger and exasperation aside, if you leave your vegetables within the reach of a goat, you are not supposed to blame the goat. An old man needs his duvet; old rickety bones need pampering. A man whose wife already considers and treats like a ‘quarter-to-go’ won’t need any big push to fall into the temptation of a pretty 30-year-old thing (PYT) who calls him “baby” and flatters him endlessly. I hate to admit it, but older men when confronted with perky breasts and firm waist simply forget their age and wisdom. While his wife of 30 years teases him about his once-upon-a-time black afro, his PYT (Pretty Young Thing) tells him his gray hair is ‘sooo sexy’. While his grandma wife takes a business class return ticket in her stride, his PYT, after flying business class, wants to ‘come over and give him a treat he will never forget.’ You see?

Anyway, that was how, I think, Chief, the husband of my older friend fell for a PYT. And pretty she was! Pregnant too by the same time Madam found out. Now, the ‘new couple’ has a brand new son. When I saw the little guy, he’s about the same age of Chief’s newest grandson. That’s right, he knocked up a girl old enough to be his daughter and he’s making babies who should be his grandbabies.

My ‘auntie’ who thought her marriage is in a safe harbour is bewildered beyond mercy, especially because as a titled man, Chief cannot have his child living outside like a bastard. You can figure how it ended.

Bottomline: your marriage is not home and dry if your husband can still get it up. Your business must not infringe on your husband’s needs and warmth ever, forever. That’s what my auntie did not realise on time. Now she is too miserable to even concentrate on her political career.

Sometimes it is the omugwo business that forces some husbands to embark on second missionary journeys. It’s a sadly common practice in this part of the world for women to fall out of ‘love’ with their husbands as soon as grandchildren start arriving. Most men are forced to befriend their pillows and television sets when their wives migrate to do omugwo.

Not that there is anything wrong with omugwo in itself. It is the neglect that the grandfathers suffer that I find unpardonable. It is unfair to punish a man because God has blessed him with long life and a bouncing grandbaby. Let me quickly, as a woman, admit that many women use the omugwo season to punish their men for the past years of loneliness and neglect. They stay longer than they are welcomed in their in-laws’ homes just so that their husbands can feel what it is like to be alone and lonely like they had to endure as younger wives and women.

What if omugwo migration is not what forced a man to embark on a second missionary journey? Some women are just too busy for their own good. They work, work, chase money until they ‘generously’ donate their husbands to other women.

Take the case of Lillian, successful Lillian, Madam Government Contractor, highflyer big babe. She made more money than her husband. She bought the house they live in. Her husband’s friends envied him but this old man eventually celebrated his 60th birthday alone. Why? His pretty and ambitious wife was away to Abuja for an ‘unavoidable’ meeting.

Of course, she eventually threw a five-star birthday party for him as compensation. That’s the way Lillian rolls. She just felt her husband was hers forever, until one day she woke up to find out that ‘Prof’ had impregnated this 29-year-old pretty young thing and rented an apartment for her with money Lillian thought could solve all problems. Prof had a different idea.

‘Lillian remains my wife but since she is never around, I decided to find myself a young lady who’d watch TV with me, keep me warm on rainy nights and accompany me to functions. I have only this one life and I do not want to live it alone day in, day out. I do not begrudge Lillian her success. I’m proud of her but I have needs and this young nurse is what an old man needs to feel young again.’ That was Baba’s explanation.

So, darling, highflying senior babes, don’t become overconfident just because you have celebrated your 25th wedding anniversary; keep an eye or both eyes on your bull before he wanders off somewhere.

Funke Egbemode could be reached on [email protected]

Nigerian actor blessed with a child 24 years after…

A veteran actor and producer, Doyin Hassan, popularly known for his roles in the Mount Zion Faith Ministries movies, and his wife have announced the arrival of their child “after 24 years of toils and struggles.”

Hassan in posts shared on his Instagram and Facebook pages said:

“God is Faithful!!!! After 24 years of toils and struggles. He came forth at last!!!! Our beautiful baby girl is a great testimony of God’s faithfulness.”

Recall that the actor lost his first wife, Bolanle Doyin-Hassan, in December 2020.

Still on the Pope and same sex marriage…

By Justice Abang

I don’t know what they are doing. I saw the explanations from the Nigerian Catholic community and wondered why there should be an explanation. If the church doesn’t support same sex marriage, it should categorically say so in four words.

Let me say this: Of all the creatures that are on planet Earth, the humans are the worst and most confused. In the study of law, we taught that a good law is founded on equity, natural justice, and good conscience. I want to ask how natural is sexual relationship between same sex? And what good conscience does it promote? If the Catholics do not permit their priest to marry and pray for them and allow them to continue with their priesthood, they are thinking of praying for sex marriages, this beats my imagination that they are considering same sex marriage while polygamy which is still a natural relationship between man and women is not allowed.

Let me just add that sexual behaviour is learned and developed over time. A child that is a year old won’t know anything about sex, but a child that is less one year appreciates a good/colourful toy. If he/she sees another child with a more colourful toy, he/she will immediately throw his/her own and begin to covert the colourful toy of the other.

If he/she is not given, you will bout of anger, which might include the child hitting his head on the wall, throwing themselves on the ground, etc. Clearly, this indicates that a child is born with covetousness. If you would expand that, it means a child has a tendency to steal, bitter, and ruthless if you stand in his way. Now, all these vices are in a child before sexual behaviour is learned.

Now, we depend on the parents and the society to help wean the children these behaviours which might make them murderers, arm robbers, etc later in life. If the family/society can help wean children from these vices that were innate in them, why can’t they society correct unnatural sexual tendencies that were learned later in life?

Why seek to make laws to legitimise abnormal/abominable sexual behaviours, which is clearly unnatural and doesn’t promote good conscience?

Why wouldn’t society think of legitimising innate tendencies that children were born with, which are covetousness and all the attendant vices that might include murders, stealing, etc?

Abang a public affairs analyst wrote from Abuja.

Mum charged with murder of four-year-old son

Forty-one year old Keziah Macharia has been charged with murdering her four-year-old son. 

Keziah Macharia, Montague Road in Dalston, Hackney, in the United Kingdom appeared in custody at Thames Magistrates’ Court on Friday morning charged with killing her son Kobi Macharia Dooly, four, who was found with fatal knife injuries at a home in London on Wednesday, December 20. 

A further appearance has been scheduled for the Old Bailey on December 28. She entered no plea, and remains in custody ahead of her next appearance.

A special post-mortem is scheduled to take place on the same day, the Metropolitan Police said on Friday morning.

Police launched an investigation after they were called to an address in Montague Road at around 10.50pm on Wednesday. 

Officers say they were called to the address following what they called ‘concerns for the welfare of a child’. 

Detectives say Kobi was found at an address on the street suffering from knife injuries. 

Emergency services rushed him to hospital but he later died of his injuries, despite the best efforts of medics.

Neighbours had described Kobi as a ‘happy’ boy often seen playing on his scooter, and told reporters a woman had been seen being led away in pyjamas by police.

One local told the PA news agency a ‘loving family’ lived at the address, adding that officers had to force entry into a top floor flat on the street. 

The resident, a 36-year-old hairdresser, said: added: ‘We often saw the boy playing on his scooter. He was happy and energetic. ‘

The Metropolitan Police previously said they are not looking for anyone else in connection with the attack after a woman was arrested.

Detective Chief Superintendent James Conway said: ‘We are working with our partners, including Hackney Council and the school community, to ensure support is there for people who need it.’

Linda Ikeji

How doctor punched 82-year-old thrice in the face while performing surgery on her eyes (Video)

A shocking video has shown the moment a Chinese doctor punched his 82-year-old patient in the face three times while performing surgery on her eyes.

According to Mail Online, the incident happened in 2019, but the footage went viral on Chinese social media this week, sparking outrage online.

Authorities at the hospital are now investigating the incident, while the surgeon has been suspended with the CEO of the hospital dismissed.

The hospital group said the surgeon punched the woman in the face because the patient wouldn’t stop moving during surgery.

The hospital’s parent group, Aier China, said the incident took place in its hospital in Guigang, a southwestern Chinese city, 300 miles west of Hong Kong.

It said the patient was an 82-year-old woman who ‘during the surgery, due to local anaesthesia […] had intolerance,’ the BBC reported.


The statement said she moved her head an eyeballs multiple times.

Because the patient only spoke a local dialect and did not appear to respond to the surgeon’s warnings, given in Mandarin, the doctor ‘treated the patient roughly in an emergency situation,’ the statement added.

The woman suffered bruises on her forehead due to the attack, authorities said.

Management at the Guigang hospital apologised for the incident and paid 500 yuan (around £55) in compensation to the patient, according to her son.

The man told local news outlets that his mother is now blind in her left eye, although it was not clear if this was due to the incident or for another reason.

Aier China said hospital staff failed to report the incident to its headquarters.

On Thursday, the parent company said it had dismissed the CEO of the facility and had suspended the surgeon, who is also the hospital dean. This decision was taken due to ‘serious violations of the group’s regulations’, it said.

Prominent Chinese doctor, Ai Fen, shared CCTV footage of the surgery online, causing it to go viral on China’s closely-watched social media platform Weibo.

Dr Ai was among a group of doctors who first alerted the public to the initial outbreak of Covid-19 in the city of Wuhan, according to the BBC.

Watch the video below.

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