Home Blog Page 27

Skit maker Mr Macaroni reveals how he went from billions to bankruptcy, indebtedness, struggles and betrayals

Popular Nigerian comedian, actor, and activist, Adebowale ‘Debo’ Adedayo, widely known as Mr Macaroni, has shared a deeply personal story about his past financial struggles, leading to bankruptcy, indebtedness and suffering betrayal.

In a heartfelt post on his X (formerly Twitter) handle on Thursday, the entertainer revealed how he became a victim of financial scam – a failed investment, and financial recklessness, which left him in crippling debt, amounting to over half a billion Naira.

Mr Macaroni, known for his comic skits and social activism, disclosed that the financial troubles began around 2021/2022 when he fell victim to a scam and simultaneously lost all his savings in a failed investment. Despite the setback, he kept his struggles private.

“If you know me well enough, you would know I do not like to share my problems. I could be going through the worst and at the same time helping others solve their own problems, but I just would never share mine,” he wrote.

The comedian explained that, in an attempt to meet his financial commitments and responsibilities, he resorted to borrowing money. However, his financial decisions only deepened his problems as he found himself paying off interest with the money he earned.

“I make money in millions, so I never thought borrowing money to pay back with interests could ever be a problem. But I got too comfortable, and it took me a long time to realize that I was using the money I was earning to pay back interests,” he admitted.

Mr Macaroni further acknowledged his financial recklessness, describing how he had always prioritised helping others even at his own expense. “I would give out my money for lunch to someone who didn’t have breakfast, forgetting that I would go hungry when it’s time for lunch,” he confessed, urging those with similar tendencies to “share your breakfast and keep your money for lunch.”

Despite his challenges, he said the year 2024 marked a breakthrough in his acting career, with two of his films being screened at international festivals and his performances receiving widespread commendations. However, behind the scenes, he was weighed down by the reality of his mounting debts.

The most painful blow, according to Mr Macaroni, came from someone he considered a close friend and sister, who betrayed his trust. “I hardly trust people, and nothing really surprises me about the actions of humans, but this one, I could never have prepared for,” he lamented.

Nevertheless, the actor remained resolute. “One thing about me is that I’m a warrior! I have never backed down from a fight. When I fall, I bounce back even stronger by God’s grace, and I keep my head up,” he declared.

With the support of family and friends, Mr Macaroni revealed that he has made tough decisions and is now in a better place emotionally and financially. He encouraged others going through difficulties not to give up.

“This letter of love is for my people going through whatever. Please DO NOT GIVE UP! People will betray you, but you must not let that derail you. You are alive for a reason. And every day of your life, you must fight to be a better person than you were yesterday,” he advised.

The comedian concluded his post with a message of hope: “May the love in our hearts be forever greater than the hate, betrayal, and wickedness in the world.”

Leadership

Shock as nursing mother who was already pregnant conceived another baby two weeks later

Texas woman who was already pregnant conceived another baby two weeks later in a one-in-a-billion medical anomaly.

Taylor Henderson, 28, a stay-at-home mom from Texas, experienced superfetation, meaning she had gotten pregnant twice within two weeks.

The first embryo was conceived 14 days before the other one, in an event so rare the Cleveland Clinic says, your chance of being affected by superfetation is ‘close to zero’. There are only about 10 confirmed cases in the world.

The shock came eight weeks into her pregnancy during a scan which revealed that there were in fact two babies, both completely different sizes. 

The nurse technician suddenly noticed a ‘tiny, little black area with a tiny little baby inside,’ which was later referred to as Twin B.

The growing babies had different heart rates which were consistent with their ages. Twin A, she explained, was eight weeks old, while Twin B, was six weeks old. 

Mrs Henderson already had a four-month-old daughter named Sunni and said she and her husband Clayton ‘definitely weren’t trying for another’.

WHAT IS SUPERFETATION? THE RARE CONDITION THAT CAUSES A PREGNANT WOMAN TO CONCEIVE TWICE

Click here to continue reading

State of Emergency in Rivers State: Over 300 CSOs urge Nigerians to recall lawmakers that betrayed mandate

On account of the National Assembly’s nod to President Bola Tinubu’s declaration of a state of emergency in Rivers State, more than 300 Civil Society Organisations have asked Nigerians to speak up and demand accountability from their elected representatives.

The organisations called on citizens to mobilise and contact their lawmakers, insisting that those who voted in favour of the president’s request, which the group deems undemocratic, should be recalled.

Addressing journalists in Abuja on Friday, they described the actions of the President and legislators as not only unconstitutional but a dent in democracy while demanding an immediate reversal of the state of emergency and the restoration of constitutional order in Rivers State.

The full press statement titled: Citizens and civil society organisations condemn the unconstitutional state of emergency in Rivers State reads:

We unequivocally condemn President Bola Ahmed Tinubu’s declaration of a State of Emergency in Rivers State and the subsequent removal of the democratically elected Governor, Deputy Governor, and members of the State House of Assembly for six months, in the first instance, according to him. These actions constitute an executive coup against the people of Rivers State, a flagrant abuse of executive power, a violation of Nigeria’s constitutional order, and an undermining of democracy.

We agree that it is the prerogative of the President of Nigeria to declare a state of emergency and that the President can exercise that legal authority to make such a declaration under specific conditions as outlined in the Constitution. However, this power is not absolute; it is subject to legislative oversight and judicial review to prevent abuse. Contrary to the Constitution, we have witnessed abuse of power, disregard of due process, and the violation of democratic principles with the President’s imposition of a State of Emergency and appointment of an unconstitutional Administrator in Rivers state and the National Assembly’s complicity in ratifying unconstitutionality. This is clearly a travesty on the rule of law and contrary to the Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria.

Comrade Aisha Yesufu speaking truth to power at the press briefing jointly organised by Fix Politics and the Coalition of Civil Society on the anti-constitutional suspension in Rivers State by the President

We have noted that there are several constitutional violations, which include but are not limited to:

  1. Abuse of Presidential Prerogative (Section 305, 1999 Constitution)
    While the President has the legal authority to declare a state of emergency under Section 305 of the 1999 Constitution (as amended), this power is not a blank check for dictatorship.
    The sequence of events, including the pipeline explosions (which are now doubtful) and the impeachment proceedings against the Governor, makes the call for a State of Emergency suspicious.
  2. Unconstitutional & Opaque Actions of the National Assembly
    Section 305(2) requires that any proclamation for a State of Emergency be submitted to the National Assembly for approval within two days (or ten days if the Assembly is not in session), without which the emergency ceases to have effect. The Constitution requires two-thirds of each chamber of the National Assembly to ratify the order. This means 73 out
    of 109 senators and 240 out of 360 members of the House of Representatives.
    Yesterday, the House of Representatives approved the State of Emergency by voice vote. While a member raised a point of order from the floor, he was silenced. In the Senate, they had a closed-door executive session. How can citizens ensure the provisions of the Constitution were followed?
    The Presidency made matters worse by applauding the clear desecration of the Nigerian Constitution.

The Judiciary must immediately strike down this blatant violation of
Nigeria’s constitutional democracy.

The Executive Director Fix politics Mr Ubani making the demands of the over 300 CSOs that owned the petition, as Ms Morayo a constitutional lawyer who also spoke listens
  1. Illegitimate Removal of Elected Officials (Section 188 and
    Federalism Provisions)

The Constitution does not support the unilateral dismissal of Rivers State’s elected leaders, which is an egregious violation of Nigeria’s federal structure. Section 188 sets out the due process for the removal of a governor, which requires due process, legislative inquiry, and judicial oversight. No such process occurred. Chapters VI and VII protect the autonomy of state governments within Nigeria’s federal structure.

The President’s actions set a dangerous precedent. If left unchallenged, they would set the stage for the arbitrary dismissal of any elected state government at the President’s whim, rendering Nigeria’s democracy and people’s mandate meaningless.

The President does not have the power to arbitrarily dismiss elected state officials. His actions are dictatorial and illegal and must be resisted by all Nigerians.

Our Demands

  1. Immediate Reversal
    We demand an immediate reversal of the unconstitutional removal of the Governor, Deputy Governor, and House of Assembly members in Rivers State.
  2. Legislative Oversight
    We call on members of the National Assembly who were not part of yesterday’s charade to speak up against the violation of the Constitution. We also call on Nigerians to make their displeasure known to their representatives.
Dr Boluwaji Onabolu of MUMs emphasizing that an anti-democratic coup had been executed by the President against the electorate in Nigeria and in Rivers State

The National Assembly is the highest law-making body in the country, and they must not be allowed to get away with choosing which of Nigeria’s laws they want to obey.

  1. Judiciary Operating on Merit
    There will be several lawsuits in the coming days, and we require the Judiciary to review each case on its merit and not rely on technicalities to dismiss the cases.
  2. Restoration of Constitutional Order
    We urge all stakeholders — including the judiciary, civil society, and the international community — to closely monitor the situation in Rivers State and ensure that any emergency measures are strictly in line with constitutional and democratic principles.
  3. Citizen’s Vigilance
    We urge Nigerians to leverage available channels to demand a reversal of the State of Emergency in Rivers State and push for a functional democracy. Nigerians must not stay silent. We urge citizens to write to their representatives, mobilize within their communities, and demand action through peaceful protests and other lawful means. History has shown that when unconstitutional acts like this go unchallenged, they become the norm. If Rivers is silenced today, no state is safe tomorrow.
Dr Boluwaji Onabolu and Comrade Aisha Yesufu

Conclusion
We remain committed to upholding the Constitution, defending democratic governance, and ensuring that the rule of law prevails in Nigeria. We call on the Nigerian government to live up to its mandate according to the Nigerian constitution and not be a cog in the wheel that
threatens the democratic rights of the people of Rivers State and all Nigerians.

We stand in solidarity with the people of Rivers state as they demand the restoration of constitutional order within the ambit of the Law. We stand united in defense of our constitutional order and democratic ideals. The removal of elected officials under the guise of emergency powers is unconstitutional and must be rejected in the strongest possible terms.

Signed

FixPolitics

Accountability Lab Nigeria
BudgIT Foundation
BO Foundation for Inclusive Media (BOFIM)
Campaign for a New Nigeria
Centre for Journalism Innovation and Development (CJID)
Digicivic Initiative
DOTakeAction.org
Ebenezer Care Missions
Enough is Enough (EiE) Nigeria
Feminist Womanifesto
FundELG Africa
Global Rights
Human Rights Journalists Network
Initiative for Research, Innovation and Advocacy in Development (IRIAD)
International Press Centre (IPC)
Lawyers Network Against Corruption (LAWNAC)
Lex Initiative for Rights, Advocacy and Development (LIRAD)
Mandate4.org
Media Rights Agenda (MRA)
Mothers United and Mobilized (MUMs)
Policy Alert
Progressive Abia Youths
Sesor Empowerment Foundation
TAF Africa
TEM Foundation
The Electoral Hub
The Rule of Law and Empowerment Initiative (Also known as Partners
West Africa-Nigeria)
Upline Centre for Development (UCD)
WARDC Africa
Women Information Network (WINET)
Yiaga Africa Initiative

Feminist Womanifesto Members
100 Women Lobby Group (100WLG)
9jafeminista
Action Aid Nigeria
ACTS Generation GBV
Ade Grange Child Foundation
ADEM Community Human Development Foundation
Adinya Arise Foundation (AAF)
Advocate for Health and Development Initiative
Affirmative Action Initiative for Women (NCAA)
African Women’s Initiative/ Verity CNET
African Women’s Initiative (AWI)
Ajegunle Community Project
Ajoke Ayisat Afolabi Foundation
Alliances for Africa
Amaclare Connect and Development Initiative
Amazing Grace Inspirations
Aminchi Women Cooperative Society
Amnesty International Nigeria
Amuwo odofin local government
ANWIB
ARDA Development Communication Inc.
Arise Nigerian Woman Foundation.
Association Against Women Exploitation and Degradation (AAWED)
Association of Nigeria Women’s Business Network (ANWBN)
Association of Women in Trade and Agriculture (AWITA)
ASWHAN
ATATA Development and Empowerment Foundation (ADEF)
AWEP
AWFAN
AYO Fadugba KYF Foundation
Baobab for Women’s Human Rights
BLECCA Foundation
Briskila Emefesi Women Foundation (BEWOF)
Cedar Seed Foundation
CEE-HOPE Nigeria
Center for Economic Empowerment and Gender Activities (CEEGA)
Center for Transparency Advocacy
Center for Women’s Health and Information
Centre for Alternative Development and Self-Enhancement (CEADESE
NG)
Centre for Health and Development in Africa (CHEDA)
Centre for Media and Development Communications
Centre for Nonviolence and Gender Advocacy in Nigeria (CENGAIN)
Centre for Peace Education and Community Development
Centre for Women’s Health and Information (CEWHIN)
Change Managers International Network
Charity Women Spring of Salvation
Chedal Multi-Purpose Cooperative Society
Child Care and Adult Protection Initiative(CCAPI)
Choung-Dung Women Association.
Christian Women for Excellence and Empowerment in Nigerian Society
(CWEENS)
Christian Women in Nigerian Politics
Citizens Center for Integrated Development and Social Rights
(CCIDESOR)
Citizenship and Human Development Initiative
Civil Resource Development and Documentation Center (CIRDDOC)
Community and Youth Development
Community Education Advancement of Peace and Development Initiative
(CEAPDI)
Community Initiative for Healthy and Peaceful Society
Community Life Project (CLP)
Community Partners for Development (CPD)
Community Rescue Initiative (CRI)
Community Women Initiatives (CWI)
Country Associates Network
Country Associates Network (CAN)
Courageous People Health and Development Initiative (CPHDL)
Crestville Development Foundation
Champion Women Entrepreneurs Mentoring Association (CWEMA)
Daria Media Foundation (DMF)
Development in Practice Gender and Entrepreneurial Initiative (DIPGEI)
Diaspora Womanifesto
Dinidari Foundation
Dorothy Njemanze Foundation (DNF)
Dr. Oby Ezekwesili
Dream Alive Women and Orphans Support Foundation (DAWOS
Foundation)
Echoes of Women in Africa Initiatives
Edo Women’s Development Initiative
Education As a Vaccine (EVA)
Emerge Women Development Initiative (EWDI)
Empowerment and Action
Enough is Enough (EIE)
Equality Through Education Foundation (ETEF)
Equity Advocates and The Woman Today Newspaper TWT
FACICP Disability Plus
FEBWE
FEDAN
Federation of Women Lwayers (FIDA)
Federation of Informal Workers of Nigeria (FIWON)
Federation of Paralegal Network (FEDPAN)
Fembridge Development Initiative (FEDI)
First Future Leadership
Former Women Action Organization (WAO)
Forum of Women in Politics (FONWIP)
Forward in Action for Education, Poverty and Malnutrition (FACE-PAM)
Foundation for Justice Development and Peace (FJDP)
FRED
Gender Action Awareness Trust
Gender and Community Empowerment Initiative
Gender and Constitution Reform Network (GECORN)
Gender and Development Action (GADA)
Gender and Environmental Risk Reduction Initiative (GERI)
Gender Awareness Trust (GAT)
Gender Development Initiative
Gender Equality Center
Gender Equality, Peace and Development Centre
Gender Strategy Advancement International (GSAI)
Gender Technical Unit (GTU)
Genger Equality, Peace and Development Centre
Girl Child Advocacy and Education Initiatives
Girl Child Africa
Girl Child Education, Care & Rehabilitation
Girl Education Rehabilitation and Care (GERAC)
Girls Power Initiative (GPI)
Global Hope for Women and Children Foundation (GLOHWOC)
Green Spring Development Initiative
Habiba Dangana (Hadis) Foundation
Heal Disability Initiative
Health Education and Human Rights Advocacy Initiative
Health Reform Foundation Of Nigeria(HERFON)
HEIR Women Development
Help Initiative for Social Justice & Humanitarian Development
Help Initiative for Social Justice & Humanitarian Development
Hope for New Life (HNL)
Independent consultant
Initiative for Research, Innovation and Advocacy in Development (IRIAD)
Inter Africa Committee (IAC)
Inter Gender Peace Foundation (IGPF)
International Action Network on Small Arms Women Network (IANSA)
International Federation of Women Lawyers (FIDA)Nigeria
International Hairstylists, Barber and Body Therapists (IHSTOBAN)
International Women Communication Centre (IWCC)
Iyaniwura Children Care Foundation (ICCF)
Jamatul Nasir Islam, Women Wing
Jana Health Foundation (JHF)
Johns Hopkins School of Advanced International Studies
Julie Oyegun
Justice Development and Peace Mission (JDPM)
Kebetkache Women Development And Resources Centre
Kilimanjaro Youth Foundation
Kilimanjaro Youth Foundation (KYF)
KMashi Gamji Women
Koyenum Immalah Foundation
Kudirat Initiative for Democracy (KIND)
Kungiyar Tallafin Mata Development Initiative
Kungiyar Tallafin Mata Development Initiative (KTMDI)
League of Queens International Empowerment
League of Queens International Empowerment (LQIE)
League of Women Voters of Nigeria (NILOWV)
LEDAP
Legislative Advocacy Coalition on Violence Against Women Initiative
(LACVAW)
Lift Initiative
Mary Afansmallscale women farmers organization on Nigeria (SWOFON)
MBULA Women Association
Media & Teens Network
Media Concern Initiative
Media Concern Initiative for Women and Children
MODAC
More Women in Politics
Mothers United and Mobilised (MUMs)
My Voice My Future NGO
Nasrul – Lahi-L- Faith Society (NASFAT)
National Centre for Women Development
National Council of Women Societies (NCWS)
NAWE
NAWORG
NECA’s Network of Entrepreneurial Women
Neighbourhood Care-Well Foundation
Network of Reproductive Health Journalists of Nigeria
Network of Reproductive Health Journalists of Nigeria, NRHJN
NEWA
Next Initiative for Gender Actions (NIGA)
NGAS Women Farmers’ Cooperative Society
Nigeria Association of Women Journalists (NAWOJ)
Nigeria For Women Project
Nigeria Labour Congress, Women Committee

Nigerian Express
Nigerian Women Politics Forum
Nigerian Women Trust Fund (NTWF)
Nkata Ndi Inyom Igbo (NNII)
NNEW
None for now
Ogayem Merciful Care and Support Initiatives (OMCSI)S
Ogun Women Alive
Okwuzi Women Forum
Olive Community Development Initiatives
Onomese Foundation
Open Arms Initiative for Sustainable Development (OPAISD)
Osi Joe Touching Lives Initiative
Ovie Brume Foundation
Partners West Africa Nigeria
Peasant Dragnet
Princess Olufemi-Kayode
Proactive Gender Initiative (PGI)
Project Alert on Violence Against Women
Project Alert on Violence Against Women
Quinnipiac University
Ray of Hope Community Foundation
Relief Development Initiative Kaduna
Research Centre (EARC)
Responsible Citizenship and Human Development Initiative
Safe Space Initiative
Save a Child Lend a Hand Foundation
Sesor Empowerment Foundation
She for she Africa Initiative
She Forum Africa
She Mentors Initiative
Shout Global Health
Small-scale Women Farmers Organization of Nigeria (SWOFON)
South- South Professional Women Association.
Stand to End Rape (STER)
Stephanie Peace Building Development Foundation
Support For Needy Children and Women Initiative (SUNCHI)
Taraba State University
TechHerNG
The Guardian Newspapers, Nigeria
The Inclusion Project (TIP)
The Kilimanjaro
The Priceless Jewels
The Purple Foundation
THR Media
Tonia Bruised But Not Broken Foundation
Tonia Bruised but Not Broken Foundation
Transformation and Development Center (TDC)
Transition Monitoring Group
Tunde & Friends Foundation (TAFF)
UC Women Commission
UN Women
UTO Foundation
Vision Spring Initiatives (VSI)
Voice of Ogun Women (VOW)
WEPDN
West African Network for Peace
WEWE NETWORK AFRIQUE
Widows Development Organization (WIDO)
WISCAR
Woman-Being Concern Nigeria (WBC)
Women &Youth Awareness Empowerment Network (WOYAEN)
Women Advocacy, HIV Prevention and Other Diseases (WAHPOD)
Women Advocates Research and Documentation Center (WARDC)
Women Aid Collective (WACOL)
Women and Youth Empowerment for Advancement and Health Initiative
Women AT Risk International Foundation(WARIF)
Women Consortium of Nigeria (WOCON)
Women Democracy Network Africa – Nigeria
Women education advocacy and development Initiatives (WEADI)
Women Empowerment and Initiative Development
Women Empowerment and Reproductive Health Centre (WERHC)
Women Empowerment Education and Peace Building Initiative (WEPBI)
Women Empowerment Education and peace building lnitiative(WEPBI )
Women Environmental Programme (WEP)
Women Farmers Alliance (WFA)
Women for Peace and Gender Equality Initiative (WOPEGEE)
Women for Women International
Women for Women International (W4WI)
Women Foundation Initiative (WFI)
Women Foundation of Nigeria (WFN)
Women in Action for Positive Development and Gender Enhancement
Center (WAPDAGEC) Women Action Organization (WAO)
Women in Action for Positive Development and Gender Enhancement
Center (WAPGADEC)
Women in Africa Initiative (WIAI)
Women in Agriculture (WIA)
Women in Extractives
Women in Extractives Women in Management Buisness and Public
Service (WIMBIZ)
Women in Mining (WIM)
Women in Mining initiative Nigeria
Women Information Network (WINET)
Women Information Network (WINET)
Women Initiative for Democracy and Empowerment (WIDE)
Women Initiative on Climate change
Women Law and Development Initiative (WOLDI)
Women Law Development Center of Nigeria (WLDCN)
Women Lead Agric (WLA)
Women League for Peace and Freedom (WILPF)
Women of Vision Development Initiative
Women Optimum Development Foundation-WODEF
Women Protection Organization (WOPO)
Women Right to Education Programme (WREP)
Women Wing of The Christian Association of Nigeria (WOWICAN)
Women Youth and Children Upliftment Foundation (WYCUT)
Women, Infants and Children Care Initiative (WICCI)
Women, Youths and Children Advancement Program
Women’s Optimum Development Foundation-WODEF
Women’s Crisis Centre Owerri
Women’s Leadership Group (WLG)
Women’s Rights Advancement and Protection Alternative (WRAPA)
Women’s Rights and Health Project (WRAHP)
Women Preneurs (AWEBO)
Womens Crisis Centre Owerri
Working Moms Africa (WMA)
Yiaga Africa
Yeye Adenike Agnes Shobajo Women’s Group Lagos Chamber of
Commerce & Industry
Youth Future Savers Initiative (YFSI)
Zonta International Club of Lagos 1

Intimate Affairs: Accidental pregnancies, by Funke Egbemode

One of the things I find most wondrous about God is the way He distributes children. Oh yes, I’m a Christian, and I strongly believe that God is the ‘giver’ of children. I do not believe that even IVF can work without God’s say-so.

Ask the gynaecologists, they will tell you. Even they cannot explain why some couples have to try IVF five times while others are successful at the first attempt. Let’s even assume that you are a scientist and you have answers to the IVF question, can you explain why a woman living in the slum can naturally conceive triplets and deliver via the vagina, while the one living in the lap of luxury with all the necessary medical fixtures and fittings can’t successfully deliver a healthy baby even through a Caesarean Section?

A virgin keeps her body chaste, the marriage bed undefiled, and yet, doesn’t get pregnant after 10 years of marriage. But a runs girl who’s had three abortions has a baby within one year of marriage. The doctor gives a woman a clean bill of health and okays her husband’s sperms, yet five years of consistent hard labour in the bedroom, and there’s still no pattern of little feet in their home. Did I hear someone muttering Juju and witchcraft? Should we go there? Because I don’t know how an Australian or American will be able to relate to how witches eat up a foetus in Africa. But our belief is our belief. And it ain’t going away because Oyinbo people don’t share our thoughts and logic on the topic.

However, the questions running around in my head were actually started by a younger friend who just discovered she’s pregnant, shockingly, disturbingly, and needed counsel to even accept it.

Bose had lost out in two marriages by age 39 because she couldn’t conceive. Her two husbands have also moved on, or so we all thought. Now, at 43, she’s pregnant and didn’t know a baby was growing inside her until she went to the hospital to ‘treat this malaria that wouldn’t go’. Do you get my drift? She was married to her first husband for 11 years and never conceived once and now, wait for it, an accidental Okafor’s Law night, and she’s now 16 weeks pregnant.

Bose and Ayo, her first husband, met at an industry event in Abuja and found out they were staying in the same hotel. He invited her to share his early morning tea ritual like they used to. One cup of tea led to many things, and Okafor’s Law took over.

According to Okafor’s Law, once a man has had a woman, he can have her again. It is not a law that I like but it is what it is.

Ayo had Bose. Bose had Ayo. Bose is pregnant. Whatever prevented the two of them from making babies in 11 years, somehow could not stop them that wet morning.

Bose had given up on conceiving naturally. She had started an adoption process. She is a busy, very busy woman. Which explains why she explains her constant persistent feverish feelings away with stress and malaria. Should she have let her heart and body yield to the touch of Ayo’s body and his Okafor finger? How would she have known she was still fertile or even ovulating at that particular period? Maybe this was her only chance of becoming a mother. Maybe she had been ovulating actually regularly, but because she was no longer paying attention, years or months of opportunities had passed her by? Or was it only Ayo’s swimming soldiers that could find her uterus?

Unexpected pregnancies, they leave you at the corridor of you-go-explain-tire. They leave the pregnant woman or couple puzzled, confused, asking themselves questions only God has answers to. For instance, how does Bose convince Ayo’s wife that she did not get pregnant intentionally, to trap Ayo and ruin his marriage? Should she tell Ayo, the accidental father? So she becomes what, a single mother, side chick or second wife?

The only thing an accidental pregnancy like Bose’s has an answer to is yes, she will keep the pregnancy. It’s a much-awaited pregnancy, a miracle even if conceived in questionable circumstances. Bose, we have advised to keep the pregnancy, take good care of herself, and then let tomorrow take care of itself. Easier said than done? Well, beggars can’t be choosers.

A 51-year-old woman misses her period two months after her newly wedded daughter announces she’s pregnant. How complicated is that? About to become a Grandma and pregnant. Her monthly periods were irregular and very irregular. Her husband and incoming Grandpa are still very active in between the sheets, but Mummy and Daddy had their last child 17 years ago, and so they thought they were in the clear. Madam was sure that menstruating three or four times in a year meant that she was an old layer whose egg-laying years were behind her. What did they know? God, the giver of children who does not consult gynaecologists, just showed up with a surprise package, specifically wrapped for them. It is their year of multiple blessings.

Incoming grandma, according to a quick EDD (Expected Delivery Date) calculation, will be due for delivery about the time she is supposed to begin Omugwo.

What to do? She’s at a crossroads, right? If you were offering her a map, what should she do? Go ahead and attend antenatal clinics with her daughter? Or take a long, deep breath and have a face-saving abortion, then ask God for mercy later? What will you do if you find yourself in this corridor?

● [email protected]

When government goes rogue with impunity

By Oseloka H. Obaze

With the recent declaration of State of Emergency in Rivers State, Nigerians find themselves in the most discomfited circumstance. Their democracy is halting as its core tenets and pillars are continually eroded. The state of her democracy is now critical and tending discernibly towards being hopeless. What is true and real of Nigeria, is that the unfolding State failure has been a gradual process.

In her constitutional governance history, no singular event has epitomized the injurious and disquieting state of Nigeria’s democracy than the grossly unconstitutional declaration of a State of Emergency in Rivers State. The intent, premise and process were all wrong – all very unconstitutional. President Bola Tinubu was criminally ill-advised. But his wrong decision was further complicated by the vagaries of Nigeria partisan politics and the willful acquiescence by the National Assembly to an odious and dubious process, which they are statutorily meant to checkmate. That was a double fault.

Nigeria’s extant 1999 Constitution, which ought to be the governance ground norm, remains what it has always been; an expedient document of dubious parentage. It has no ownership: hence it has no defenders. This explains why the Constitution is continuously desecrated, even by the judicial arm of the government that has the statutory remit to interpret, uphold, and defend it. Inevitably, governance in Nigeria, at best, remains wabbly in all ramifications.

The adjunct to the bastardization of the Constitution by those in the Executive and Legislative arms is that fundamental constitutional rights of Nigerians are in parallel being systematically trampled upon, without consequences and recourse. Rule of law, due process and the attendant rights are all being circumvented. Nigeria is a Constitutional Republic that no longer adheres to her laws and founding principles.

The Nigerian Government has visibly gone rogue and has become unwholesome, ineffectual and totally feckless and reckless. Leadership hubris is palpable.  Governance is in disarray. State Capture is routine as is Cancel Culture.  Presently, the Federal Government is treacherously tinkering with the administration of the States; while State Governors are whimsically usurping the rights and autonomy of Local Governments despite extant laws to the contrary.  For most Nigerians, whatever residual hope there is, remains fleeting as suffering and disenfranchisement continue to gain toehold. With poverty now a norm, Nigerians are understandably disconcerted and discontented.

Ironically, those who ought to speak up in Nigeria don’t. Two fearless elder statesmen who dared to consistently speak truth to power, Chief EK Clark and PA Ayo Adebajo recently bowed out due to natural attrition. There is a dearth of successors for them, which in itself, is an alarming reality. Meanwhile, the political opposition is gaunt.

But there is a cadre of Nigerians, who fought hard to keep Nigeria whole. They are not speaking up; at least not collectively. Their taciturnity is exceedingly troubling. By implication, their reticence is a presumptive acceptance of the status quo, if not a tacit approval of the national drift and unscrambling.  Perhaps, they are shortsightedly concerned about losing their accruing perks from the national cake.  One wonders if they can’t discern that Nigeria is methodically being dismantled; in tandem with her ungoverned spaces that continue to expand exponentially.

Incidentally, these are all presumably astute old men and women, who have nothing more to lose; and for whom the indivisibility of Nigeria should be the utmost preoccupation.  Certainly, they can’t join the crass political elite carpet baggers, who justify their noxious relevance with the mantra, “if you can’t beat them, join them.” If they do, then they will figuratively mimic maggots that feed off a carcass, but soon enough confront only dead bones. Then, they too die.

These so-called “owners of Nigeria” – military and civilian cohorts alike- must have an urgent and inevitable conversation for several reasons. Nigeria isn’t at its optimal best. The warped 1999 Constitution is being gutted in ways never imagined, by Executive Fait, especially as regards the Federal Character Principles. Statutory appointment and stipulated retirement age are ignored with impunity. Incidentally, Nigeria remains a pluralistic and multi-ethnic and multi religious country.  And nothing can change that except if Nigeria ceases to exist as a nation.  And that is an option, farfetched as it may seem.

For now, the Nigerian nation is living a convenient lie.  The rulers and the ruled are all estranged, unhappy, nervous and mutually suspicious of each other. As hunger and poverty are statutorily weaponized, the simmering anarchy might seem benign. Yet it is as if everyone is just waiting for the next shoe to drop. Sardonically, if the “owners of Nigeria” don’t speak up now, when the ongoing disassembling is done, the Nigeria mosaic would have evanesced.

Facts are stark. President Muhammadu Buhari’s eight year in office was an era that enthroned nepotism, bigotry and blinkered parochialism without apologies. Nigerians stomached that twaddle and the attendant illiberalism foisted by the “cabal,” perhaps, in the self-deluding pretext that such governance modalities were aberrations -an outlier of sorts that would soon pass. They were resoundingly wrong. Then President Bola Ahmed Tinubu emerged.  If Buhari enthroned and canonized nepotism, Tinubu is presently legitimating and codifying it.   The Legislative and Judicial arms have proven his ever willing accessories. The recent declaration of a State Emergency validated this contention beyond any doubt.

Today, the Legislative and Judicial arms are appendages of the Executive arm and this is a mockery of their statutory classification. Checks and balances in government are all but dead. So too, is the separation of powers. Suddenly governance is profligate – and to some, such aberration seems acceptable. Contemplating the equal but separate classification has become mythic and academic. Clustered together, the 10th National Assembly is as sad governance joke.

In a recent personal note to me, a veteran civil service and governance expert, who once served in the Presidency said:  “Federal institutions have become ethnic enclaves with the North and the West driving the process.” Imponderably, the South-East remains remote by design. This default chasm is not ancillary or germane to progress or true nation building. Neither is national retrogression a desirable or utilitarian building block for development, stability or peace and security.

Nigerians are confronted with dangerous national drift to a unitary government; to a one-party state, if not to absolute authoritarianism. The last time Nigeria brushed Unitarianism, we know what sadly followed. Our history should thus help us interrogate the emerging scenario.  Paradoxically, it seems no one can muster the courage to speak up.  Nigeria’s political opposition is clearly in disarray. If indeed there is any truth to the recent allegations by Nasir El Rufai, then we know the identikit of the puppeteer that manipulates and undemocratically pull the national opposition parties apart.

Nigerians should all be acutely distressed when their government becomes reckless and goes rogue with impunity. For their part, the “owners of Nigeria” can’t mimic Nero.  They can’t afford to. Reticence or traditional conscientious objections are not viable options. And Nigeria’s problems cannot be wished away. This assertion is not conjectural and for anyone to think that it is will be courting delusion. What’s to do?  The “owners of Nigeria” –they know themselves- must now have that seemingly elusive and difficult conversation on Nigeria’s fate and future. That conversation, difficult as it may be, is long past due. The time is now. Chaos is imminent. Delay is dangerous.

——-

Obaze is MD/CEO, Selonnes Consult – a policy, governance and management consulting firm in Awka.

Man and wife accused of shooting father of their son’s teen girlfriend after he said she was ‘too young’ to date

A couple has been arrested in Texas after being accused of shooting the father of their son’s teenage girlfriend.

Luther Madison II, 39, allegedly shot the dad of his son’s girlfriend with a gun facilitated by his wife Angelica Madison, also 39, during an argument as the parents met to discuss their children dating on March 17, Harris County Constable Mark Herman said in a statement shared on Facebook.

Police responded to an aggravated assault call about two men “fighting on the street and shots were fired” in the 24400 block of Osprey Point Drive. They arrived to find a male victim with “a gunshot wound to the chest.”

The victim reported to police that he and his wife had met at the location with the Madisons “to ask them for help in keeping [their] son away from their daughter as she is too young to be dating,” according to Herman’s statement. 

A fight between the men ensued before Angelica allegedly removed a gun from her pocket and handed it to her husband, who then shot the victim. He then “pointed the weapon at the victim’s wife and threatened her.”

The victim was transported by air to the hospital, Herman confirmed in another Facebook post. His condition is unknown at this time. 

Dad shot by parents of teen daughter’s boyfriend
Angelica and her husband Luther were arrested and charged over the incident. Mark Herman, Harris County Constable Precinct 4/Facebook

The couple were arrested and booked into the Harris County jail, according to Herman’s statement. Both were charged with two counts of aggravated assault with a deadly weapon. 

Luther’s bond was set at $100,000 while Angelica’s bond was set at $25,000.

The couple is scheduled back in court on May 20, Law and Crime reported.

PEOPLE has reached out to the Precinct 4 Constable’s Office for comment.

© People.com

There is agreement within the three arms of government to punish Nigerian citizens, By J.S Okutepa

Truth be told, there is hardly a Nigerian whether a politician, lawyer, judge, public servant, civil servant or ordinary citizen that respects the law and Nigerian constitution. Nobody respects the law of Nigeria. Nigerians mostly respect the laws majorly in breach. Only infinitesimal numbers of Nigerians have respect for the law and the constitution and they are doing things right in the interest of the Nigerian state.

The moral fabric of virtually all Nigerians have been woven around accepting that evil pays and is good and can be defended so long as it benefits them. That is why brazen violence is done to the Nigerian constitution, and democratic desecration of values is being celebrated and tolerated even by the highest office in the land. Good people hardly get recognised. The moral values of Nigerians seem to be near zero.

There is no institution that checks the violations of our constitution. All the institutions are manned by virtually people who have propensities to compromise the laws and the constitution for personal gains of themselves, their cronies, and the pecuniary benefits of those who violate or laws. The interests of the people are respected in theory but in practical realities, personal interests determine governance and governmental policies and programmes in most cases.

Public service is thus not for the service of the public interest and public good but for the personal interests of those who are in charge of the public institutions. Those in charge of our institutions claim to be fighting corruption but virtually almost all are engaged in corrupt ways of doing corrupt things for their selfish interests Those in opposition are not better than those in power. The only difference is in the opportunity to loot the treasuries. The worst thing is that those who have the duties to decide rightly have in most cases chosen to decide wrongly for reasons not far from the self-serving partisan interests of their paid masters.

Today, there is hardly any difference between the three arms of government in terms of checks and balances. There is cooperative agreement within the three arms of government to punish Nigerian citizens and approval of lawlessness appears to be official state policy. Law is what those in power and those interpreting it say law is and not really what law is. Lawlessness in adjudications is perceived by reasonable Nigerians, but the perceptions of Nigerians matter not to those who have sworn to defend and uphold the Nigerian constitution without fear or favour affections or ill will. Adjudicatory logic rooted in nationalistic stability appears to have disappeared from policy jurisprudence.

For me, I do not see anything that can be done differently by anyone in Nigeria without the system sabotaging such efforts. All institutions of governance appear to have been compromised, unfortunately. Going to court in sensitive political matters that can shape the destiny of Nigerian democracy and governance for good appears to most Nigerians to be a waste of time in most cases. The jurisprudence that gives sound policy direction to put bad behaviour in check has run out of the adjudicatory lexicon of Nigerian jurisprudence. All one sees are adjudicatory policy summersault that approve of constitutional iniquities.

Nigerians reasonably believe that you may not get justice because most decisions are politically motivated and rendered to perpetuate evil doers in power. Where is our hope? I have no answer. Many people who are in positions today came against the will of the people. There appears to be a conspiracy of those in charge of institutions to keep Nigerians in perpetual subjugation in penury and suffering. We, as Nigerians, are in for troubles, which seem not to bother those who should be bothered. But in all of these, I see the failure of the legal profession as the bane of Nigeria’s stability and democratic growth and development. Let the legal profession enforce boundaries that are codified in the code of conduct of its members and sanity will be restored in Nigeria.

Heavyweight legend, George Foreman’s inspirational final post weeks before death at 76

The tragic news of the death of legendary boxer George Foreman was announced by his family on Saturday morning.

The iconic American heavyweight leaves behind a remarkable legacy, which includes a famous fight against Muhammad Ali, known as the ‘Rumble in the Jungle’.

Foreman’s family confirmed that the two-time champion died peacefully at the age of 76, leading to a flood of tribute. Among them was another boxing legend, Mike Tyson, who hailed him as an inspiration during his career.

In addition to his inspiring legacy, Foreman left behind a final Instagram post that highlights the remarkable achievements of his career.

Publishing a picture with himself, the boxing legend marked the 30-year anniversary of him becoming the oldest man to win the heavyweight crown – a feat that has been remembered as one of the most unexpected comebacks of the sport. 

He wrote: ’30 years ago today!’

‘I started my day believing “All things are possible if we only believe.” The power of a prayer; great or small. ( Now a prayer over my Lunch) “that I only have 1, helping.” George Foreman’ 

Besides the heavyweight crown that was at stake, the fight itself became one of the most memorable and was marked by two giants of completely different ages, backgrounds and styles.

Foreman’s opponent Michael Moorer, was punishing the then 45-year-old veteran for nine confident rounds and was expected to be awarded the win by all judges.

However, a crucial mistake by Moorer, standing too long in front of Foreman without a high block, allowed the future heavyweight king to land a combination that sent his opponent to the ground.

Foreman was declared the winner after referee Cortez’s count reached ten and his rival was still on his knee.  

The stunning victory came just three years after he was given a shot by Evander Holyfield with the heavyweight title on the line but faced a defeat on points.

After the fight, Foreman revealed that his strategy was to allow Moorer to work for several rounds in order to wait for the perfect opportunity to land his famous cross combination.

Now, he also remains famous for his work outside the ring thanks to the George Foreman Grill, which has sold over 100 million units since its launch in 1994.

Foreman’s last match was in 1997, concluding his illustrious career with a professional record of 76 wins and five losses.

He was married four times in the 1970s and 1980s, but in 1985, he married Mary Joan Martelly, with whom he remained for the rest of his life. 

On his social media, Foreman’s family confirmed the tragic news: ‘Our hearts are broken. With profound sorrow, we announced the passing of our beloved George Edward Foreman St., who peacefully departed on March 21, 2025, surrounded by loved ones.

A devout preacher, a devoted husband, a loving father, and a proud grand and great grandfather, he lived a life marked by unwavering faith, humility, and purpose.

‘Humanitarian, an Olympian, and two-time heavyweight champion of the world, he was deeply respected – a force for good, a man of discipline, conviction, and a protector of his legacy, fighting tirelessly to preserve his good name – for his family.

‘We are grateful for the outpouring of love and prayers, and kindly ask for privacy as we honor the extraordinary life of a man we were blessed to call our own.’

© DailyMail

TERRIBLE: On her behalf, I apologize

By Dike Chukwumerije

On her behalf, I apologize. She did not mean to call him a terrible president. What she meant to say is that he is a wonderful president with terrible impact.

A wonderful president with terrible policies that have had terrible consequences on ordinary people.

A wonderful president who has unleashed terrible poverty, and presided over a period of terrible insecurity, worse – much worse – than the blowing up of 2 pipelines for which he was prepared to take a terrible decision to suspend democracy, while ignoring the terrible behavior of his own.

A wonderful president turning a blind eye to the terrible corruption and terrible nepotism within the fabric of his government, but wielding the sledgehammer with terrible viciousness on the heads of his rivals.

A wonderful president with terrible levels of intolerance for dissenting voices, and terrible disregard for the rights of young people to peacefully chose their own representatives.

On her behalf, I apologize. She did not mean to call him a terrible president.

What she meant to say is that he is a wonderful president with terrible, terrible impact.

Dike Chukwumerije

Rhoda Sufian-Kargbo, Chinelo Ofoegbunam, Naomi Crusoe to lead AFBA women’s forum

President of the African Bar Association (AFBA), High Chief Ibrahim Eddy Mark in consultation with the Governing Council has made some key appointments to lead the African Bar Association (AFBA) Women Forum.

Rhoda Sufian-Kargbo, a Sierra-Leone-based lawyer is Chairperson.

Rhoda

Naomi Crusoe from Liberia is the Vice Chairperson

Naomi

While Chinelo Audrey Ofoegbunam from Nigeria is the Secretary.

Chinelo

*MEMBERSHIP LIST*

  1. Annet Kisekka                                    – Uganda
  2. Seya Tshama Nathalie                        – DRC
  3. Nforbi Sirri Ebude                                          – Cameroon
  4. Mrs. Melody Sibusisiwe Musimbe                 – Zimbabwe
  5. Col. Nancy Mulenga                                       – Zambia
  6. Mrs. Bridget Gold                                          – Nigeria
  7. Joyce Nnenna                                                  – Nigeria
  8. Laura Wisani Mbhalati                                   – South Africa
  9. Kaltume Uma Mohammed                             – Nigeria
  10. Gloria Wangui Kimani                                    – Kenya
  11. Mabel Nnoko Nnane                                       – Cameroon
  12. Dr. Ugoji A. Eze                                             – America
  13. Mrs. Uwala Akpeyi                                         – Nigeria
  14. Mama Fatima Singhateh                                 – Gambia
  15. Fiona Linda Serwaa Asafu-Adjaye                – Ghana
  16. Ms. Princess lyomon                                       – Nigeria
  17. Maitre Faisi Amina                                         -Nigeria
  18. Onyekachi Eluwa                                            -Nigeria

The newly appointed AFBA Women Executive Committee calls on more females in the profession to join the association and become members of the committee to accelerate action.