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Over 10,000 Nigerians Killed in 2 Years — Leaders unite across divides to say enough

By Osita Chidoka

On a recent visit to a Middle Belt state, I witnessed firsthand the despondency of communities losing faith in dialogue and peace. It was clear that silence was no longer an option.

I contacted leaders across political, ethnic, and religious divides to begin a dialogue. Together — former ministers, party leaders, civil society advocates, and academics — we resolved to issue this statement, calling for a recalibration of our security system and a renewal of our national ethos.

Though we, the signatories, differ on many fronts, we are united in our Nigerianess, shared humanity, and faith in a common destiny. Drafting this statement was as educative as it was enlightening — it tested our opinions, forced us to confront the complexity of the crisis, and compelled us to rise above prejudice.

This statement is our collective expression of hope: we can still stem the bloodletting and rekindle our national possibilities.

For perspective: while Ukraine lost about 12,000 civilians in two years of war, and Syria averages 3,000–5,000 deaths annually, Nigeria has lost over 10,000 lives to violent killings, while officially “at peace.” From Benue and Plateau to Zamfara, Sokoto, Katsina, Niger, the Northeast, and the Southeast, Nigerians bleed as though at war.

This Joint Statement by Concerned Nigerian Leaders is a call to conscience. Please read it, share it, and let history record that we did not stay silent.

Osita Chidoka
24 August 2025

The Inspired and Inspiring Dr. Mrs. Ifeoma Monye @ 60

Dr. Ify Monye, President, global Lifestyle Medicine association. She introduced Lifestyle Medicine into Nigeria and Africa.

By Tony Eluemunor

Some people stand out because they diligently do the good works they meet in life. But the comely Dr. Ifeoma Monye is way beyond that group. Some others strive to improve on things and situations; that is fine, very fine. But Dr. Ify Monye, a mother of two boys and two girls (just as she wished) and married to the handsome Prof Sylvester Monye,
elongs to another group, rarer, more spectacular, so phenomenal, so extraordinary, so outstanding, so incredible that they dazzle, astonish or impress those they meet along the path of life. She thinks of what does not exist and asks “why not”, then she strives mightily
to bring such non-existent things into being. Yes, Dr. Monye is so singular, so distinctive, so exceptional.

Like in the case of any hero or heroine, it is easy to notice and wisecrack that Dr. Ify Monye came fully prepared by the Almighty with all the ingredients for greatness; fiercely focused energy, prodigious intelligence, marvelous education, and passion not just for Medicine
as a career but for life and the living. There is more; she recognizes no limits, mocks obstacles and appears imbued with the prodigious will-power that can achieve anything she sets her mind to. From sitting in her school-teacher mother’s class, because she was too
young to be enrolled in school, she insisted on taking the promotion exam. Her mum humoured her by allowing her; she had the best result in that class one. The average you and I didn’t start school in that magical way.

Ify the athlete? Please forget her petite frame; she represented her secondary school in basketball, and added table tennis and sprints to it. She has the medals to prove it. And she did all seemingly effortlessly, as though she was riding on the crest of a dream and having some help from the wind. Oh, she acknowledges such help…from the Almighty!

Turning 60 on Saturday, 23 August 2025, Dr. Monye came imbued with the ideal trinity of virtues — heart, brain and courage — that unmistakable combination that produced the wholesome wife, mother, careerist, doctor, and reaches beyond such rare heights to crown her with the halo of a consequential innovator, even in the age-old medical profession. And she does what she does with panache and as a service to humanity and God. And she does that whether as a mentor bringing up younger doctors under her tutelage, or taking youths under her wings to allow Lifestyle Medicine tenets to embrace their souls, or just enhancing the quality of life as people laugh and celebrate life during her “Dancing with the Doctor” sessions.

Her birthday celebration, slated for the iconic and exclusive The Dorchester (hotel) Park Lane, London from 5:PM on Saturday, August 23, would be a gathering of top class actors in global Medicine, academics, politics, all walks of life in deed.

She fully earned the celebration. Everybody knows that to challenge friends or employers in their bristling core beliefs maybe to declare oneself an enemy, to risk ostracism, to call undue attention to oneself. At certain quarters it requires suicidal recklessness to assert that certain “ogas” have probably been a bit wrong in the ways they have been administering, say a reputable institution such as the National Hospital. But such
dangers do not dissuade Ify from a quest that should benefit humanity. Certainly, it sounded unorthodox, sacrilegious and outright profane when Dr. Ify Monye suggested that the National Hospital, Abuja, needed to have a Family Medicine section to serve the people better – over 20 years ago.

The naysayers rallied against her…but she won in the end and changed the face of medical practice there…bringing untold benefits to the Nigerian public even as the hospital’s coffers began to ring louder, also, as more money dropped into the coffers. She fought that battle, making untold sacrifices, for years. And once she had fully set that department up, new challenges beckoned and she said yes to them like an old sailor harkening to the call of the sea.

Some careerists would waste a lifetime testing themselves to see if they have the courage to engage truthfully with peers within their own profession, or at least to question what have been revered traditions or admit doubt that ingrained prejudices should be held beyond question. But with Ify, frontiers of medicine must be expanded and changes must be welcomed. This innovator, recognizes no obstacles and scorns boundaries of limitations. How and why? Please, don’t ask her because she might not know. Anybody who has studied the idea of the hero knows that the hero/heroine just knows what to do, and Ify Monye is a heroine.

It is that simple … or even complicated, but that is the life of a hero/heroine. Thus, just a few years after her return from the U.K, she became convinced that curative medicine alone was a disservice to Nigeria and that a new way had to be found. She began to task her prodigious brain for answers to questions that never occurred to most of her colleagues. In no time she found her think-alike doctors out there…and she teamed up with them to introduce to the world a new branch of medical practice that should benefit her beloved Nigeria, Africa and the globe; LIFESTYLE MEDICINE.

In that fluid milieu, she was the one person chosen from among others in the entire world to give leadership to the practitioners of this innovative medical practice that was being spelt out, being formed, being defined and was being codified. She was elected President to
lead this global body at its embryonic stage. Here, Dr. Ify Monye has come unto her own – on the global stage, a local girl that grew up in Nigeria, studied in Nigeria, went to the United Kingdom for specialization, but returned here to serve her fatherland. She rose
above all the frustrations that have hobbled millions of Nigerians in Nigeria to win world acclaim from…Nigeria!

Here, her courage has paid off as she is showing the medical profession the new way to follow. Courage? Yes, courage suggests a deeper moral or spiritual dimension — the strength of the heart (Coeur in French). I’ll explain further: The late American President, John F. Kennedy, considered courage to be the first, the indispensable virtue; with courage, he said, anything is possible; without it, nothing. Unlike love, which may be an emotion only, courage must manifest itself in action. Unless courage actually does something, and does it well, it is just bragging. It was courage that made Ify to represent her school in almost every sporting event she participated in, and it was courage that made her insist on introducing changes that are, right before her very eyes, making the world a better place.

In the next 1000 years, students may still marvel at Julius Caesar, Shaka the Zulu, Hannibal, the Greek doctor Hippocrates of Kos (of the Hippocratic Oath, c. 460 – c. 370 BC), the Greek physician and philosopher of the classical period who is considered one of the most outstanding figures in the history of medicine. He is traditionally referred to as the “Father of Medicine”. History will surely remember the person who introduced Lifestyle Medicine into Nigeria and Africa and shepherded it in its first few years across the world viz: – Dr. Ify Monye. She coordinated the American and the European Boards of Lifestyle Medicine, rallying them to a common course to work as an entity for the benefit of all of humanity no matter how far apart the oceans have separated them or how diverse their backgrounds. Other Boards have joined them to form the global body. I looked up the
Global Lifestyle Board and found this:

“Certification exam hubs for 2025 – Registrations via the National Lifestyle Medicine Organisations; Sri Lanka – Colombo – Friday, September 19th, Pakistan Islamabad – Sunday, September 28th, UAE – Abu Dhabi – Sunday, October 19th, Thailand – Bangkok – Sunday, October 19th, Brazil – Vitoria – Wednesday, October 22nd, Malaysia – Kuala Lumpur – Thursday, October 30th, India – Ahmadabad – Monday, November 3rd, Chile – Santiago – Friday, November 7th, UK – London – Saturday, November 8th, Australia – Adelaide – Sunday, November 9th, Argentina – Buenos Aires Sunday, November 9th, Saudi Arabia – Bukairyah – Thursday, November 13th, USA/Canada – Prometric testing centers – Saturday November 22nd to Sunday December 7th, Hungary – Budapest – Sunday, November 23rd, Nigeria – Abuja – Thursday, November 27th, Qatar – Doha – Saturday, November 29th, Philippines – Clark Pampanga – Tuesday, December 2nd, Mexico – Mexico City – Saturday, December 6th, South Korea – Seoul – Sunday, December 7th, China – Beijing – Monday, December 8th, Portugal Lisbon – Saturday, December 13th. Nigeria is already on the Lifestyle Medicine world map – thanks to Dr. Ify Monye.

The American College of Lifestyle Medicine (ACLM) defines lifestyle medicine (LM) as “a medical speciality that uses therapeutic lifestyle Interventions as a primary modality to treat chronic conditions including, but not limited to, cardiovascular diseases, type 2
diabetes, and obesity. Lifestyle medicine certified clinicians are trained to apply evidence-based, whole-person, prescriptive lifestyle changes to treat and, when used intensively, often reverse such conditions. Applying the six pillars of lifestyle medicine—a whole-food, plant-predominant eating pattern, physical activity, restorative sleep, stress management, avoidance of risky substances and positive social connections—also provides effective prevention for these conditions”.

Here’s a breakdown of each pillar:

  1. Nutrition: Emphasizes a whole-food, plant-predominant eating pattern, focusing on nutrient-rich, minimally processed foods.
  2. Physical Activity: Encourages regular and consistent engagement in physical activity to improve overall health and well-being. Restorative Sleep: Highlights the importance of quality sleep for physical and mental restoration, aiming for 7-9 hours per night.
  3. Stress Management: Focuses on developing healthy coping mechanisms and strategies to manage and reduce stress levels.
  4. Avoidance of Risky Substances: Encourages the reduction or elimination of harmful
    substances like tobacco, excessive alcohol, and recreational drugs.
  5. Positive Social Connections: Emphasizes the importance of strong relationships and social support networks for overall health and well-being.

All work and no play? No, Dr. Ify Monye exudes what the French call joie de vive; “joy of living” to express a cheerful enjoyment of life, an exultation of spirit, and general happiness. It “can be a joy of conversation, joy of eating, joy of anything one might do…a
comprehensive joy, a philosophy of life, a “Weltanschauung” in German. Robert’s (French) Dictionnaire says “joie” is “sentiment exaltant ressenti par toute la conscience, that is, involves one’s whole being.” Face her for an interview and instead of being tight-lipped as
most people would be, or worried about the right things to say, she would answer your questions playfully, or almost so, saying the most serious of things in a most jovial way. Oh yes, you will notice that she has a sunny smile a minute and a full-throated laughter every five minutes. You will leave her vowing to embrace Lifestyle Medicine attributes – at least to banish stress. She cherishes God, her parents’ memories, her husband, her children, her siblings, her innovative and futuristic Brookfields Centre for Lifestyle Medicine (BCLM). Walk into the reception and a piano is there and your fingers could produce magic on the black and white keyboards – if only you know how.

An interview with Dr. Monye will leave you with a greater appreciation of Abba’s music track, MOVE ON: “A voyager and a settler, they both have a distant goal/ If I explore the heavens, or if I search inside/Well, it really doesn’t matter as long as I can tell myself
I’ve always tried”. Ify has always really tried and won laurels, too. Yes, she has come a long way.

What she will achieve beyond age 60 is in the womb of time but her past serves as the unfailing signpost that her future will be more glorious because she is not alone. God has been her guiding light. She is a prayer warrior and has always acknowledged that there is always a benevolent spirit behind her. May God’s blessings be with her and may her guiding light remain strong.The Inspired and Inspiring Dr. Mrs. Ifeoma Monye @ 60  strong.

Rejoinder to Udemezue’s Treatise on NBA’s Misplaced Priorities: What is this NBA’s newfound obsession with erection at its AGC (Stand Out, Stand Tall)? Is it because Senator Natasha is one of the speakers?

By Dr. Tonye Clinton Jaja.

Dear Sylvester Udemeze,

On a lighter note, (for different reasons), I agree with your recent treatise “Osun State LGA, NBA-AGC 2025 and NBA’s Misplaced Priorities”.

For want of a better metaphor, the Nigerian Bar Association-NBA is like a man who is obsessed with tackling Erectile Dysfunction instead of addressing the root cause of why his penis is not producing sperm in the first place!!!

By some strange coincidence, for this year’s NBA Annual General Conference (AGC), the theme and motto (“Stand out, stand tall”) seems to demonstrate this current NBA President’s obsession with “Erectile Function”!!!

As if to confirm this notion, the NBA has listed Senator Natasha Akpoti-Uduaghan as one of its keynote speakers in its NBA-AGC 2025 programme.

Everyone knows that Senator Natasha is the major proponent of the concept of “election, not erection” slogan!!!

Any right-thinking person or lawyer who peruses through the programme of events of the NBA-AGC 2025, would have the impression that the NBA has placed too much emphasis on issues of “standing out, standing tall and erectile function” while neglecting the more important issues of the rising issues of professional misconduct amongst Nigerian lawyers and the perennial allegations of vote rigging and manipulation during the bi-annual elections for NBA Presidents!!!

The views expressed by contributors are strictly personal and not of Law & Society Magazine.

Why the surrogacy bills are illegal and unconstitutional

By Sonnie Ekwowusi

You may be well aware that two surrogacy bills are currently pending before the House of Representatives in Abuja. The first bill, titled A Bill to Protect the Health and Well-being of Women, Particularly in Relation to Surrogacy, is sponsored by Hon. Uchenna Okonkwo of the Labour Party, representing Idemili/Idemili South Federal Constituency, Anambra State. The second bill, titled The Nigerian Surrogacy Regulatory Commission Bill is sponsored by Hon. Olamijuwonlo Alao-Akala of the All Progressives Congress (APC), representing Ogbomoso North and Oriire Federal Constituency. This bill has already passed a second reading in the House of
Representatives.

These two surrogacy bills are related in the sense that they both aim to establish a regulatory framework for the practice of surrogacy in Nigeria.

I have carefully and meticulously studied the two extant bills alongside the 1999 Constitution and other existing laws in Nigeria, and I would humbly submit that both surrogacy bills are illegal and unconstitutional. Surrogacy is, essentially, the renting of the womb. In case you are unaware, surrogacy has become widely practiced in Nigeria. In Nigeria, one can rent the womb of a girl for a meager fee ranging between ₦250,000 and ₦500,000.

For example, late last year, a middle-aged man and a lady walked into our law firm and briefed us to draw up a surrogacy contract whereby the lady would carry and deliver a baby for a certain wealthy woman in Lagos. I wasted no time in showing them the exit door. Our law firm does not draft such illegal contracts no matter the high professional fee offered to us.

Surrogacy can be classified into traditional surrogacy and gestational surrogacy. Traditional surrogacy involves a woman providing her own egg, which is fertilized by artificial insemination, carried, and delivered on behalf of another person or couple. On the other hand, gestational surrogacy is the process where a person who did not provide the egg used in conception carries a fetus through pregnancy and gives birth to a baby for another person or couple. In this case, the gestational carrier is not genetically related to the child.

As I earlier stated, the two surrogacy bills being sponsored by the two federal legislators are illegal and unconstitutional under the following:

The Child Rights Act (which upholds the child’s dignity and right to identity),

The TIPPEA Act (when involving payment or obtaining benefit for babies),

·The Criminal Code (regarding fraud, unlawful custody, and exploitation),

·The 1999 Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria,

·The African Charter on Human and Peoples’ Rights,

Both commercial and altruistic surrogacy are illegal under Nigerian law,

·Consent to engage in surrogacy does not excuse either party—both are criminally liable,

·Any agreement between two or more persons to commit surrogacy is itself a criminal offence—commonly referred to as conspiracy,

·Two or more persons cannot contract or agree to do something that is against public policy or the law,

Regulation cannot override the existing laws against surrogacy without triggering legal contradictions, public backlash, and constitutional concerns.

While the bill sponsored by Hon. Uchenna Harris Okonkwo distinguishes between commercial surrogacy and altruistic surrogacy—seeking to promote altruistic surrogacy while prohibiting commercial surrogacy—the bill sponsored by Hon. Olamijuwonlo Alao-Akala seeks to establish a surrogacy regulatory commission. However, Section 30(1) of the Child Rights Act 2003 outlaws both commercial and altruistic surrogacy.

The Child Rights Act is a federal law enacted to protect children’s rights across Nigeria. The long title of the Child Rights Act reads that the law is made “… to provide and protect the rights of a Nigerian child; and other related matters.” The use of the adjective Nigerian before the word child implies that the Act is intended to apply to all Nigerian children across the country.

However, the Constitution of Nigeria does not assign issues of child rights to either the Federal Government or Local Governments, leaving such matters under the jurisdiction of the State Governments. This is one reason some states in Nigeria have gone on to enact their own Child Rights Laws, which are largely replicas of the federal Act. Unfortunately, some states in the northern part of Nigeria have failed or refused to enact such laws, even as children are subjected to early marriage and persistent rights violations.

On this note, surrogacy is a criminal offence in the Federal Capital Territory, Abuja, under the Child Rights Act, and also criminal in states that have enacted the Child Rights Laws. Consequently, surrogacy will not be criminal in states that have not enacted the Child Rights Law.

Section 30(1) of the Child Rights Act 2003, which incorporates the rights of the child as enshrined in the United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child (UNCRC) and the African Charter on the Rights and Welfare of the Child, outlaws both altruistic surrogacy and commercial surrogacy.

Section 30(1) reads:

“No person shall buy, sell, hire, let on hire, dispose of or obtain possession of or otherwise deal in a child.”

This provision clearly frowns upon the processes and procedures involved in surrogacy. At this point, it is important to list the elements present in every surrogacy arrangement and compare them with the verbs listed in Section 30 of the Child Rights Act to fully understand the impact of this law on surrogacy in Nigeria.

While the phrase “buy, sell, hire, let on hire” clearly outlaws commercial surrogacy, the phrase “dispose of or obtain possession of or otherwise deal in a child” equally outlaws altruistic surrogacy.

Therefore, surrogacy is a criminal offence under the Child Rights Act, and both commercial and altruistic surrogacy are punishable by imprisonment for ten (10) years.

Even in cases of altruistic surrogacy, where surrogate mothers perform their role without receiving or charging any fee, it remains illegal under Nigerian law. For example, a biological mother of a woman experiencing difficulties with pregnancy may agree to become a surrogate and bear a child for her daughter. Even in such altruistic arrangements—where, arguably, parties do not “buy, sell, hire, or let on hire,” but instead “dispose of or obtain possession of or otherwise deal in a child”—the act remains unlawful and illegal.

In other words, the Child Rights Act and Child Rights Laws in Nigeria criminalize all forms of the exchange of babies—whether commercial surrogacy involving money (buying, selling, or hiring of babies) or altruistic surrogacy (disposing of or obtaining possession of a child without payment).

To this end, surrogacy, whether commercial or altruistic, is unlawful in parts of Nigeria where the Child Rights Act or equivalent State Child Rights Laws are in operation.

Therefore, if parties in a surrogacy arrangement “buy, sell, hire, let on hire, dispose of, or obtain possession of or otherwise deal in a child,” such actions are criminal and punishable under the Child Rights Act and its equivalents in states across Nigeria.

No matter how unpopular a law may be, it remains valid until amended or repealed by the legislature.

Surrogacy Under the TIPPEA Act

Similarly, both commercial and altruistic surrogacy are outlawed under the Trafficking in Persons (Prohibition) Enforcement and Administration Act, 2003 (as amended in 2015).

Section 13 of the TIPPEA Act condemns all forms of human trafficking. It provides:

Section 13(1) – All acts of human trafficking are prohibited in Nigeria.
Section 13(2) – Any person who recruits, transports, transfers, harbours, or receives another person by means of:

· (a) threat or use of force or other forms of coercion;

· (b) abduction, fraud, deception, abuse of power or of a position of vulnerability; or

· (c) giving or receiving payments or benefits to achieve the consent of a person having control over another person

for the purpose of exploitation of that person, commits an offence and is liable on conviction to imprisonment for a term of not less than 2 years and a fine of not less than ₦250,000.

Section 82 of the TIPPEA Act defines trafficking in persons to include:

“…the giving or receiving of payments or benefits to achieve the consent of a person having control over another person or debt bondage for the purpose of placing or holding the person—whether or not in involuntary servitude (domestic, sexual or reproductive)—in forced or bonded labour, or in slavery-like conditions, the removal of organs, or generally for exploitative purposes.”

This definition clearly captures the essence of surrogacy arrangements and implicates all parties involved—including surrogate mothers, commissioning parents, doctors, lawyers, and agents—wherever there is:

“the giving or receiving of payments” (i.e., commercial surrogacy), or
“benefits to achieve the consent of a person having control over another person” (i.e., altruistic surrogacy).
Thus, Section 13 of the TIPPEA Act outlaws both commercial and altruistic surrogacy.

The Act further defines exploitation to include:

“…at a minimum, the exploitation of the prostitution of others or other forms of sexual exploitation, deprivation of the offspring of any person, forced labour or services or practices similar to slavery, servitude or the removal of organs.”

Under this provision, any surrogacy arrangement that takes advantage of a surrogate mother—whether through coercion, voluntary consent, or deception—constitutes human trafficking and is therefore criminal.

This is one of the reasons why surrogacy practices, including the operation of so-called “baby factories” (where girls and women are forced or deceived into becoming pregnant and giving birth for others in exchange for money), are criminalized.

Section 21 of the TIPPEA Act

Section 21 of the TIPPEA Act also criminalizes both commercial and altruistic surrogacy. It provides:

“Any person who buys, sells, hires, lets or otherwise obtains the possession or disposal of any person with intent, knowing it to be likely, or having reasons to know that such a person will be subjected to exploitation, commits an offence and is liable on conviction to imprisonment for a term of not less than five (5) years and a fine of not less than ₦2,000,000.”

This provision specifically condemns and criminalizes all forms of surrogacy, whether commercial or altruistic, and applies to all persons and agents (including medical and legal professionals) involved in such exploitative arrangements.

In sum, all forms of surrogacy that exploit surrogate mothers are criminalized and punishable by:

a minimum of five (5) years imprisonment, or
a fine of not less than ₦2,000,000, or
both.
Unlike the Child Rights Act and the various State Child Rights Laws, the TIPPEA Act is a federal law that is operational in all parts of Nigeria. All states in Nigeria are bound by the provisions of the TIPPEA Act. The TIPPEA Act condemns surrogacy where a surrogate mother or her baby is exploited, and focuses on protecting victims of reproductive exploitation. The conduct of surrogacy can amount to human trafficking, which is a federal offence.

The Surrogacy Bills violate Sections 17(3)(h), 21, 33, 37, and 38 of the 1999 Constitution. Pursuant to Section 17(3)(h), the Nigerian government is obligated to promote the protection of the family. According to the Nigerian Law Reform Commission, the family is the fundamental unit of society and the custodian of the moral and traditional values of the Nigerian people; thus, it requires adequate safeguarding and development. The destruction of the family institution invariably leads to the destruction of Nigerian society.

Surrogacy undermines the family institution—as has occurred in Europe and America. Under surrogacy regimes, authorities facilitate sperm storage and donation, thereby obliterating the concept of parenthood. It will become difficult to determine who the legal father or mother of a child is, whether born in or out of wedlock. This will inevitably lead to social conflict and legal disputes over paternity, contributing to increased divorce rates and undermining inheritance laws.

Furthermore, marriages will be destabilized, as either partner may choose to procreate without the other. Single motherhood will rise, as women may choose to purchase sperm for fertilization. Litigation over paternity and child identity will become more common.

However, Section 21(a) of the 1999 Constitution enjoins the State to protect, preserve, and promote Nigerian culture. Practices such as sperm donation, cloning, in-vitro fertilization (IVF), and surrogacy are not part of our cultural values. Every society has its own values and should grow in accordance with those values. Nigeria has her own values, and we must adhere to and preserve them.

Laws must reflect the values of the people. Every country seeks to protect what it holds dear. It is suicidal to import foreign lifestyles and impose them as law under the guise of complying with international obligations. As Professor John Ademola Yakubu states in his book Who Gives the Law? Determining the Jurisprudential Question, the only way to avoid chaos in society is for the legislature to make laws that align with the values and aspirations of the people.

More importantly, the National Assembly, by virtue of Section 4(1) and (2) of the Constitution, is empowered to make laws that conform to the social and religious realities of the country.

Surrogacy is incompatible with cherished human values as enshrined in many African and international human rights instruments, including the African Charter on Human and Peoples’ Rights, which has been domesticated in Nigeria. Surrogacy reduces a human being to a commodity and equates them with animals.

The Preamble to the African Charter states:

“Taking into consideration the virtues of their historical tradition and the values of African civilization which should inspire and characterize their reflection on the concept of human and peoples’ rights; Conscious of their duty to achieve the total liberation of Africa, the peoples of which are still struggling for their dignity and genuine independence, and undertaking to eliminate colonialism and neo-colonialism…”

Article 8 of the Charter provides:

“Freedom of conscience, the profession and free practice of religion shall be guaranteed. No one may, subject to law and order, be subjected to measures restricting the exercise of these freedoms.”

Article 29 states:

“The individual shall have the duty to preserve and strengthen the national independence and the territorial integrity of his country and to contribute to its defence in accordance with the law; to preserve and strengthen positive African cultural values in his relations with other members of society, in the spirit of tolerance, dialogue and consultation, and in general, to contribute to the promotion of the moral well-being of society.”

In any case, the distinction between commercial surrogacy and altruistic surrogacy in Nigeria is unclear and impractical. Surrogacy in Nigeria has become a money-spinning business. Altruistic surrogacy is rare, as nearly all surrogacy involves monetary compensation or other benefits. It is difficult to distinguish between commercial and altruistic surrogacy when 99% of surrogacy arrangements are commercial in nature. The woman whose womb is rented is typically paid large sums of money or receives other benefits. Few, if any, engage in surrogacy for free in Nigeria.

Nigeria is rapidly becoming a surrogacy hub. Surrogacy practices prey on the economic vulnerability of Nigerian women. In many cases, women—sometimes minors—are recruited through deceptive Facebook ads and trafficked to other countries to serve as surrogates. This is not empowerment; it is exploitation. Many Nigerian girls coerced into becoming surrogate mothers are either unaware of the full risks involved or are pressured into agreements they cannot freely reject.

Surrogacy is one of the greatest forms of exploitation of girls and women. It is inhumane to ask a young woman to carry a child for nine exhausting months, only to have the baby taken from her while she walks away forlorn and dejected. This is the ultimate objectification of women, and a grave violation of their rights.

Moreover, surrogacy poses serious health risks to Nigerian girls and women. The physical and psychological consequences of surrogacy—ranging from pregnancy complications to long-term emotional trauma, especially when they are forced to give up the baby they carried—are enormous.

Surrogacy also undermines a child’s right to identity, the right to know their origins, and the right to be protected from sale and commodification. This is in violation of Articles 7 and 8 of the United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child (CRC), to which Nigeria is a signatory.

In other words, establishing and preserving identity becomes impossible for children born through surrogacy. Articles 7 and 8 of the CRC protect a child’s right to:

· be registered at birth,

· preserve their identity, and

· re-establish their identity if they have been illegally deprived of it.

Surrogacy arrangements often violate these provisions, as the child may be denied access to information about their true origins, rendering them vulnerable to identity loss and legal limbo.

Surrogacy is dehumanizing—whether or not the woman consents. Often, consent is obtained through coercion or deceit, making the entire process exploitative. Motherhood or “renting wombs”, even with consent, is inherently dehumanizing, as it reduces women to mere vessels. Surrogacy aims to legalize the manipulation and commercial use of women’s wombs, involving embryo manipulation, the import and export of human embryos, embryo transfer or splitting, and the harvesting of human eggs and sperm.

Therefore, even if consent is given willingly and without external coercion, it does not legalize surrogacy. A person cannot consent to break the law. When two people agree to do something unlawful, it is called conspiracy, which is punishable under Nigerian law. In criminal law, consent is not a valid defense unless the law specifically provides for it (e.g., in medical procedures or sports). You cannot enter a contract to violate public policy or existing law.

In Nigeria, many surrogates are economically vulnerable. Their so-called “consent” is often induced by poverty, misinformation, or pressure, making the process ethically and legally questionable.

Under Nigerian law, consent to commit surrogacy does not excuse criminal liability—both parties are criminally responsible. Surrogacy agreements are unenforceable in Nigeria. Even when both the surrogate and the intending parents agree, if the act violates laws such as the TIPPEA Act, their consent becomes legally irrelevant. Consent to commit an illegal act does not make it lawful.

For example, Section 516 of the Criminal Code criminalizes conspiracy to commit a felony, even if the felony has not yet been committed.

In summary: Under Nigerian law, two people cannot lawfully consent to engage in surrogacy. The law remains supreme over private agreements.

On Regulation of Surrogacy:

The two surrogacy bills emphasize regulation, but regulating surrogacy cannot cure the deep-rooted criminality and exploitation associated with it in Nigeria. Surrogacy is illegal and should remain so. Attempts to regulate surrogacy have failed globally to protect women and children.

Regulation would only legitimize an illegal and exploitative practice. When surrogacy involves payment for babies, benefits, misrepresentation, or coercion, it constitutes child trafficking, which is a crime under the TIPPEA Act.

You cannot regulate what is inherently criminal—it’s like trying to regulate armed robbery or fraud. The proper response is prohibition and enforcement, not regulation.

Regulation cannot ensure truly informed consent in the context of surrogacy. Instead, it would institutionalize exploitation, commodify poor women’s wombs, and reduce children to products. You can’t regulate a snake because it will still bite. You can’t regulate illegality because it will still cause harm.

Even with regulation, baby factories and human trafficking will continue in Nigeria. There are many so-called “surrogacy clinics” in Nigeria that are fronts for baby factories, exploiting women (often minors). These are criminal enterprises masquerading as fertility centers, and no amount of paper regulation will stop them from operating in secrecy.

If surrogacy is regulated in Nigeria, it would become a cover for baby-selling and baby factories. People would continue to buy and sell babies under the guise of altruistic surrogacy.

The Real Challenge is Enforcement, Not New Laws

Nigeria already has anti-human trafficking laws, like the NAPTIP Act and the Child Rights Act, both of which outlaw surrogacy. But enforcement is almost nonexistent. Even if surrogacy is regulated:

Bribery
Lack of prosecution
Judicial inefficiency
…will continue to allow abuse.

Regulation cannot fix surrogate-related criminality in Nigeria because the root problem is not a lack of regulation, but rather:

Fundamental illegality
Exploitation
Weak oversight
Systemic abuse

Our real challenges include:

Corruption in law enforcement and medical institutions
Lack of political will
Weak institutional capacity
Poverty and desperation that push women into surrogacy
Without effective law enforcement, public education, accountability mechanisms, and a strong ethical commitment to human dignity, regulation becomes a mere formality, easily circumvented by criminals.

What Nigeria Needs:

Nigeria does not need surrogacy regulation. What it needs is:

Strict criminal enforcement against surrogacy and baby-selling
Ethical adoption and child protection frameworks
Strengthened anti-trafficking enforcement
Crackdown on baby factories
Political will to enforce relevant provisions of the TIPPEA Act and Child Rights Act 2003
Programs to fight poverty
Anti-corruption reforms in law enforcement
Cultural and Moral Concerns

Legalizing surrogacy in Nigeria raises serious moral, cultural, and religious concerns, especially in our deeply conservative society. It could trigger public backlash, erode trust in legislators, and undermine social cohesion.

Therefore, the two surrogacy bills, sponsored by Hon. Uchenna Harris Okonkwo and Hon. Olamijuwonlo Alao-Akala, lack merit and should be discarded.

If the Sponsors Must Proceed…

If Hon. Uchenna Harris Okonkwo and Hon. Olamijuwonlo Alao-Akala insist on proceeding with the bills, they must organize well-publicized public hearings and invite key stakeholders, including:

National Agency for the Prohibition of Trafficking in Persons (NAPTIP)
Nigerian Medical Association (NMA)
Nigerian Bar Association (NBA)
Nigerian Law Society (NLS)
African Bar Association (AfBA)
National Association of Nigerian Nurses and Midwives (NANNM)
Pharmaceutical Society of Nigeria
Medical Laboratory Scientists
Churches, mosques, and traditional institutions
The bills must not be hatched or passed in secrecy.

If democracy is government of the people, by the people, and for the people, then the Nigerian people must be given an opportunity to contribute to the legislative process.

Beware of Foreign Exploitation

Nigeria must not become a dumping ground for toxic foreign practices. Imagine homosexual couples from abroad coming to Nigeria to hire poor, desperate Nigerian girls as surrogates. Once the babies are delivered, they flee the country, leaving no protection for the women.

In some cases, babies’ organs are harvested or they are used for rituals and fetishism.

Shockingly, university girls are now selling their eggs to the highest bidder. At the University of Ibadan (UI), this practice has become so rampant that the university authorities issued a memo warning female students of the grave consequences, including potential infertility in the future.

Final Word

Let us wake up and embrace our cultural heritage and philosophical aspirations. If Europe and America now define themselves by surrogacy and other abrasive lifestyles, we must not blindly copy them. We are a different people, with different values.

A people without identity are a people without existence.

As I earlier stated, the National Assembly, by virtue of Section 4(1) and (2) of the 1999 Constitution, is empowered to make laws that reflect the aspirations and values of the Nigerian people—not foreign interests.

CONCLUDED

The views expressed by contributors are strictly personal and not of Law & Society Magazine.

How to stand tall for an independent Bar

By Chidi Anselm Odinkalu

In 1981, Chief Gani Fawehinmi was already 16 years at the Nigerian Bar and one of its brightest stars. Already a breakout litigator, Gani had also become a pioneer in the enterprise of legal publishing. One decade earlier, he had served the Nigerian Bar Association (NBA) as its national publicity secretary. Among the lawyers of his or, in fact, any other generation active at the Bar, there were few who could claim to be more accomplished.

The hallmark of excellence in legal practice in Nigeria, the rank of Senior Advocate of Nigeria (SAN), was a mere six years old at the time. Then – as now – the Legal Practitioners Privileges Committee (LPPC) was the statutory body established to consider and determine eligible applicants for the rank. As always, it was chaired by the Chief Justice of Nigeria (CJN). By any measure, Gani Fawehinmi was more than eligible to take the rank in 1981.

Instead of sending him to the LPPC, however, then Attorney-General of the Federation, Richard Akinjide, a SAN since 1978 and eighth on the all-time list of SANs, sent Gani to the Legal Practitioners Disciplinary Committee (LPDC) for the supposedly high professional crime daring to announce the existence of a path-breaking law reporting enterprise in which he was engaged. As the Attorney-General of the Federation, Akinjide happened to sit on the LPPC and was also the chair of the LPDC. Vocational or institutional independence for the legal profession was alien to this design.

The complaint against Gani seemed pre-determined. So, he sued. When Candide Ademola Johnson, Chief Judge of Lagos State, ruled in Gani’s favour at the first instance, Akinjide’s LPDC was unhappy. They appealed to the Federal Court of Appeal (as it was called then) and lost. An implacable LPDC appealed to the Supreme Court. Four years after Gani first sued, in July 1985, the Supreme Court tossed the appeal of Akinjide’s LPDC with a unanimous judgment in his favour.

With a case pending before the courts over the lawfulness of the plan by the legal establishment to throw the kitchen sink at him, Gani was frozen out of consideration for elevation to the rank of SAN. His credentials were irrelevant. Indeed, it was rumoured with more than a modest whiff of credibility that they did approach him with an offer to concede the legal proceedings in return for a favorable consideration for elevation to the rank. He reportedly declined.

By the time the Supreme Court decided the case in July 1985, the cast of actors was different and the issues were about to get even more interesting. At the end of September 1983, Akinjide ceased to be Attorney-General of the Federation and, with that, also departed as the chair of the LPDC. When the Supreme Court handed down its judgment in July 1985, the chair was Chike Offodile, then Attorney-General to military ruler, Muhammadu Buhari.

By then, Gani was already deep in another battle with the legal profession as to how to approach Gen. Buhari’s military and anti-corruption tribunals. The NBA asked lawyers to boycott them; Gani refused. The month after the Supreme Court rendered its judgment in his favour in 1985, the Buhari regime was overthrown.

Bola Ajibola, the new Attorney-General of the Federation, was the president of the Bar whose call on lawyers to boycott the military tribunals went unheeded by Gani. When Gani’s name came up the following year for consideration for the rank of SAN, it ended up in the bin. In September 2001, more than two decades after he emerged as perhaps the most eligible to take the rank, Nigeria’s legal and political establishments yielded ground and finally conceded the rank of SAN to Gani Fawehinmi.

Gani’s is the most obvious and most willful exclusion from the rank and for political reasons. He is by no means the only one. Former president of the NBA, Alao Aka Basorun and late lawyer to Fela Anikulapo-Kuti, Kanmi Isola Osobu, were two others probably passed over because of their ideological leanings. Political reasons similarly explain the reason why former Attorney-General of the Federation, Olu Onagoruwa, was passed over for the rank until 2014 when he was too unwell to attend the investiture.

Among the living, former Attorney-General of Lagos and former Chair of the Body of Benchers, Hairat Balogun; Ayo Obe; and Jide Ogundipe are three examples of outstanding litigators whose exclusion from the rank casts aspersions on any claims to objectivity in the decision making process for its conferment.

When, therefore, he claimed in a release on 18 August 2025 that the conferment of the rank of SAN “is not a political appointment, nor is it an executive patronage”, former General Secretary of the NBA, Olumuyiwa Akinboro SAN (who is also running to be the next president of the Nigerian Bar), indulged in both historical inaccuracy and factual revisionism. He was wrong on both claims and he knew it. Mr. Akinboro’s beef was with the requirement for the State Security Service (SSS) to screen candidates for elevation to the rank of SAN.

It is useful to note what Mr. Akinboro chose not to see. First, the requirement for the screening by the SSS is contained in the Guidelines for the Conferment of the rank of SAN made in October 2022 by then CJN and Chair of the LPPC, Olukayode Ariwoola.

Second, those Guidelines specifically required the screening to be conducted respectively by three agencies: the Independent Corrupt Practice Commission (ICPC); the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC); and the SSS. Mr. Akinboro could not be bothered to acknowledge that these were rules made by the CJN; nor did he notice that they also required the EFCC and the ICPC to do the same.

Third, Mr. Akinboro justified his intervention with an emotive appeal to the need not to compromise the rank of SAN and to preserve the “independence of the courts”. Perhaps he did not know that the rules on judicial appointments made by the National Judicial Council (NJC) require also that a recommendation for judicial appointment from the Judicial Service Commission shall be accompanied by a “report by the Department of State Security (sic) on the suitability of the candidate for appointment to a Judicial Office supported by verifiable facts on which the report is based.” The agency referred to here as “Department of State Security” is exactly the same one that the SAN Guidelines call SSS. Mr. Akinboro sees nothing wrong with candidates for judicial appointments going through the same process which he says intrude into the independence of the SAN application process. Apparently what is bad for the rank of SAN is good for the judiciary.

It is evident that these ebullitions from Mr. Akinboro and his ilk do not come from a place of principle. It is not about independence of the legal profession nor is it about a commitment to professional excellence. Instead, these kinds of views seek assurances of privilege for a few procured at the expense of the many and all under the convenient artifice of “independence” of the legal profession.

Interestingly, this occurs in the week that the NBA begins its annual general conference in Enugu, Eastern Nigeria, under the very fitting theme: “Stand Out; Stand Tall.” A Bar and a legal profession that lacks independence cannot stand out nor stand tall. An independent legal profession would have challenged the Ariwoola Guidelines promptly in 2022 rather than wait until after three years later to mis-represent their import for cheap politics. In any case, a CJN would not be the person making the rules for the quality mark of an independent Bar.

Independence of the legal profession is not a privilege handed out on a platter. It is fought for. Lack of independence is congenital design flaw in the institutions of Nigeria’s legal profession. For the record, regimes of exceptionalism such as that advocated for by Mr. Akinboro, do not advance the cause of independence. That is not to say that independence is not a desirable goal. Rather, it is an acknowledgement that Nigeria’s legal profession is nowhere near that goal. Identifying the steps required to get there could usefully preoccupy the NBA when it meets in Enugu this week.

A lawyer and a teacher, Odinkalu can be reached at [email protected]

The views expressed by contributors are strictly personal and not of Law & Society Magazine.

Air Peace and United Nigeria set to hike airfare to N350,500

Two Nigerian domestic carriers, Air Peace Airlines and United Nigeria Airlines, have fixed their yuletide economy airfare at N350,500.

According to a report by Nigerian Tribune, this would affect trips from Lagos and Abuja to South East (Owerri, Enugu, and Anambra) airports and South South (Port Harcourt and Asaba) airports.

The cost of an inbound ticket from these airports to Abuja or Lagos is also N350,500.

The air fares are already displayed on their websites.

For Air Peace, the fare of N350,500 starts from December 1, 2025. It spans from the end of the month to January 30, 2026. For United Nigeria, the N350,500 fare starts from the second week of December (December 11, precisely), and lasts until the end of the month as well.

However, for United Nigeria, one-way economy ticket from January 1, 2026, for Abuja to Asaba, and also for Abuja to Anambra, Port Harcourt, and Owerri, drops to N150,000.

The fares charged by both Air Peace and United Nigeria to the northern part of the country for the yuletide are relatively low.

Air Peace’s one-way economy ticket for Lagos to Kano, for instance, is in the range of N106,900.

For United Nigeria, the airfare for Lagos to Kano is almost flat at N220,499.

Air Peace does not have a daily flight from Lagos to Yola. But it will charge N350,500 as its airfare for the days it will fly to the destination.

Source: Nigerian Tribune

Open letter to Gen. Chris Musa: Either PBAT and Yourself Ought to Tender Letters of Resignation (for Violation of Section 14(2) of the Nigerian Constitution) or You Provide Nigerians With Fee Para-Military Lessons Because the Cost of Karate Classes (₦200,000) in Abuja is More than Minimum Wage

By Dr. Tonye Clinton Jaja

Your Excellency, President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, and Chief of Defence Staff, General Christopher Musa, Sirs,

By way of re-introduction, my name is Dr. Tonye Clinton Jaja, I write in my capacity as the Executive Secretary of the Association of Legislative Drafting and Advocacy Practitioners-ALDRAP.

Our Association-ALDRAP is a professional Association of over 1,000 Legislative lawyers.

Our Association-ALDRAP’s primary objective is to ensure compliance with the legislation of Nigeria by officials and institutions of the Nigerian government.

As you already know, the Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, 1999 is the supreme legislation of Nigeria.

Section 14(2)(b) of the 1999 Nigerian Constitution (as amended), states that “the security and welfare of the people shall be the primary purpose of the government”.

Therefore, by this letter, we respectfully write to request that both yourselves tender letters of resignation having failed in your responsibility to secure the lives and property of the majority of Nigerians. This call for resignation is based on your recent public statement wherein you stated that Nigerians should resort to learning self-defence skills to protect themselves in view of the current high level insecurity within Nigeria.

Unwittingly, your statement is in itself an admission that you have failed in your joint responsibility. Your statement is published online at https://www.intelregion.com/news/general-musa-asks-nigerians-to-learn-karate-others-for-self-defence

Coincidentally, in February 2025, the Director-General of the Department of State Security Services (DSS) made a similar statement as your good self. His statement is published online at:
https://dailytrust.com/we-must-get-communities-to-defend-themselves-dss-dg/

As an alternative, perhaps your good self and your team ought to provide free training in para-military and self-defence skills. This is because the last time I checked online, karate classes cost ₦200,000 which is almost thrice the current minimum wage of ₦70,000.

In the final analysis, your statement is an admission to the fact that the government is failing in it’s responsibility to provide security of lives and property as stipulated under Section 14 (2) of the Nigerian Constitution.

Perhaps it is high time to consider the use of private military mercenaries.

This is better than asking untrained civilian Nigerian citizens to take up martial arts skills or even arms to defend themselves against DRUG-INDUCED AND BETTER ARMED BANDITS AND TERRORISTS!!!

Yours faithfully,
Dr. Tonye Clinton Jaja.
23rd August 2025.

The views expressed by contributors are strictly personal and not of Law & Society Magazine.

Disciplinary committee finds Nigerian/Canadian doctor guilty of sexual impropriety with patients

A Nigerian doctor practising in Canada has been found guilty by a College of Physicians and Surgeons of Saskatchewan disciplinary committee of professional misconduct with staff and patients, including engaging in sexual impropriety with two teenage patients.

Dr. Imafidon Izekor, 42, who was an owner of and practised at two Northgate Medical Centre locations (on Avonhurst Drive and at Northgate Mall), was found guilty of two counts of engaging in sexual impropriety and failing to maintain appropriate professional boundaries with a 16-year-old patient and a 19-year-old patient, according to a decision from a college disciplinary hearing committee dated Aug. 7.

Izekor was also found guilty of disrespectful and unprofessional communication with his clinic employees. 

The college, which is the province’s medical regulatory body, initially filed seven charges against Izekor in March 2022. Two of the charges were later withdrawn.

Following a nine-day disciplinary hearing in May of this year, he was found guilty on two of the charges relating to his patients.

He was found not guilty on two other charges — one of which involved allegations he had engaged in sexual impropriety and failed to maintain appropriate professional boundaries with a female patient in October 2018, and another which alleged he had engaged in sexual and unethical behaviour with an employee, including sexually harassing and assaulting the employee.

The remaining charge included several distinct allegations of “inappropriate and unethical conduct” with employees, including “failing to maintain appropriate professional boundaries” and “failing to treat employees with dignity and respect.” The college found him guilty on some of those allegations and not guilty on others.

Flirted with patient: decision

The first charge of sexual impropriety relates to a Nov. 1, 2018, incident with a 19-year-old patient who came to the clinic to request a sick note, according to the committee’s decision. It was the patient’s first time seeing Izekor.

The patient, who testified at the disciplinary hearing, said as he was examining her, he said, “Are you sure you’re sick? You look great to me,” in what the decision says was “a flirtatious manner.”

He proceeded to tell her she “had an attractive personality and that he would like to be around her personality,” the decision says.

Izekor also asked her where she worked, how much she was paid and what her rent costs, and questioned her relationships and finances, asking, “Why do you work so much? You don’t have a man in your life to pay for your things?” the decision says.

The patient also described him looking her up and down, and said as she was leaving, he “told her to relax and take care of herself,” biting his lip “in a sexual way,” the decision says.

He also asked if he could call her to plan a follow-up appointment and asked for her personal number, which he later called from his personal phone. 

In a response to her complaint, Izekor said that although he didn’t believe the patient was sick, he didn’t record that in his records, according to the decision.

However, he said after a “lot of back and forth,” he agreed to give her a sick note because she was “very brash,” the decision says.

‘Shocked,’ ‘shamed’: 16-year-old patient

The second charge stemmed from a Nov. 2, 2018, incident involving a then 16-year-old patient during an appointment. 

According to decisions’ summary of her testimony, she had originally seen Izekor in 2017 regarding an eye condition, and had been sent for blood work.

During a 2018 follow-up appointment, Izekor asked her what the age limit was for the guys she would date. He insisted “age is just a number” and went on to say men her age were “predators” and “hunters,” according to the decision. Izekor, who is originally from Nigeria, also told her that in his country, “men buy women everything,” the decision says.

He also told the patient,”‘guys have needs,” and went on to make “noises and movements to imitate sex, moaning and grunting,” and “rocked his pelvis back and forth,” according to the decision.

The patient said Izekor told her she should have dinner with him if she was ever feeling lonely, and suggested he could pick her up outside her house so she wouldn’t have to tell her mother.

The patient says Izekor told her she could get her blood test results from his house if she wanted to. It also states during her appointment he asked for her personal phone number, which he then called from his personal number. 

The patient described feeling “shocked,” “shamed” and “fearful” before she left the doctor’s office, according to the decision.

In his testimony, Izekor said his questions to the patient were “medically necessary to determine the cause of her jaundice, including questions about sexual activity and drug use.”

He said he needed to ask about her sexual activity and drug use because it was possible HIV, hepatitis B or hepatitis C could have been the cause of her condition.

However, the patient said Izekor did not discuss her test results with her, nor did he discuss his jaundice diagnosis or its possible causes.

Izekor also denied he had asked her out for dinner, suggested she could receive test results at his house, told her “guys have needs” or made sexual motions with his hips, according to the decision.

Quit 3 times: employee

The third charge against Izekor came from a former employee, who said she had worked at the Avonhurst and Northgate clinics as a medical receptionist from 2017 to 2018. 

She said “either before or after” she started her employment at the clinics, Izekor invited her to discuss work at his house. 

She testified he showed her around the house and led her to his basement, where they sat down on a couch to talk, according to the decision.

Izekor “told her men her age do not know how to take care of women and that she needed an older man,” the decision says.

He then touched her leg and led her into a basement bedroom, where he engaged in sexual intercourse with her despite her protests, it says.

She said afterwards, he handed her money and said, saying something similar to, “You helped me and I will help you,” according to the decision.

Izekor made advances toward her at the clinic, including inviting her into his office for a “meeting,” where he would proceed to touch her inappropriately and try to hug and kiss her, the decision says.

He would also watch her from a surveillance camera over her workstation and comment on how she looked, it says.

The employee said her mental and physical health deteriorated after she began working for Izekor, including weight loss, hair loss and stomach problems. 

When she spoke to Izekor about her mental health after she called in sick one day, he provided her a prescription for depression and anxiety, despite not having been her doctor or conducting a proper medical exam, the decision states.

She tried to quit three times, the decision says. The first two, he convinced her to come back. The third time, he requested they go for lunch to discuss work. 

During the lunch, Izekor continued his sexual advances, so she did not return to work for the clinic, according to the decision.

Izekor “denied inviting her to his home or being there alone with her,” the decision says, and “absolutely denied sexual contact with [her] at his home.” He also “described her as disruptive in the workplace and paranoid,” according to the decision.

Doctor presented as ‘dissembling’: decision

In describing the credibility of the witnesses, the disciplinary committee’s decision described the first patient’s testimony as given “in a straightforward, firm, confident and convincing manner,” noting “she was unshaken in cross-examination.”

The decision said on balance, the committee was satisfied her testimony “was both credible and reliable.”

The second patient “presented as an articulate, confident, poised young woman, who was also “unshaken by rigorous cross-examination,” the decision said.

By contrast, the decision says Izekor “presented as arrogant, disdainful and self-satisfied,” and “by turns, he presented as self-pitying, victimized, exasperated and dissembling.”

Izekor’s hearing also heard testimony from others who worked at his clinics and described “heated exchanges” between the doctor and staff.

The disciplinary committee’s decision says the evidence of disrespectful communication with staff by Izekor was “compelling.” 

The decision acknowledges no workplace is perfect, but says yelling at employees, “particularly in the presence of or within hearing distance of patients and other staff, is not only inappropriate, it is unprofessional, unbecoming conduct” for a doctor.

 A penalty hearing is expected to take place next month. 

Source: CBC.ca

Katsina Massacre Survivor says, ‘We were in 2nd rak’ah when gunfires went up, air exploded

By Ogalah Ibrahim

At dawn, the air in Malumfashi is usually thick with soft whispers of prayer and the faint crow of roosters. But on the morning of 19 August, when the faithful had gathered for Fajr at the mosque in Unguwan Mantau, the serene atmosphere was ruptured by gunfire instead of the rhythm of voices rising in devotion.

“I remember the sound of the muezzin calling us in,” says Malam Kabir, “We were in the second rak’ah when I heard the motorcycles. Then—gunfire. It was like the air itself exploded,” he said, his gaze fixed somewhere far away.

The gunmen stormed the mosque, cutting through rows of worshippers. No fewer than 30 men were killed, most before they had the chance to attempt an escape. The attackers, described locally as “bandits”, left behind blood-stained mats, torn sandals, and the echo of unanswered prayers.

‘When I close my eyes, I see their faces’

Inside the mosque, fear turned quickly to chaos. Survivors recall screams muffled by gunfire, people stumbling in the darkness, the air filling with dust and acrid gun smoke.

“I saw my neighbour lying face down right in front of me. He didn’t move,” says Kabir. “We grew up together. I feel for his family. I had to crawl under bodies to escape.”

When the bandits left, the silence was heavier than the violence itself. “I have not prayed inside a mosque since then. How can I kneel where blood was spilled? Every time I close my eyes, I see their faces.”

The mosque was our refuge

For Malam Umar, a religious leader from the area, the attack was not just on worshippers but also on the heart of the community.

“The mosque was our gathering place, our school, our refuge,” he says. “To attack it is to say: you have no right to peace, not even with your God.”

Leading a traumatised flock has become their heaviest burden. Congregants ask why God allowed such horror. “I tell them,” he says softly, “‘It is not God who failed you. It is man. Evil is the absence of God in their hearts.’”

On whether forgiveness is possible, Umar pauses. “We preach forgiveness, yes. But forgiveness without justice is another wound. What we need now is not just prayers but also protection.”

A widow whose husband was among the dead, her face thick with wailing, said she last saw him at the door, shortly before heading out for Fajr. “I told him to be quick, that I have something to share with him. Those were my last words to him.”

She speaks of her loss with an anger sharpened by betrayal. “The bandits killed him, yes. But the government killed him too, by leaving us defenceless. Who protects the poor in these villages? Nobody.”

For her younger children, she struggles to explain. “I tell them your Daddy is with God. But when they ask if they too will be safe in the mosque, I have no answer.”

We bury, they forget

In Mantau, families return each morning to sweep the mosque floor, to wash away what cannot be forgotten. But residents say promises of protection fade as quickly as the footprints of the attackers. “We bury, they forget,” says one bitterly.

The people of Unguwan Mantau are left with prayers, scars, and a question echoing louder than the gunfire that morning: how long can faith survive when even the house of God offers no sanctuary?

‘We heard too late’

Local security officials admit their response was delayed. “The first alert reached us after the attack was already under way,” says a vigilante who does not wish to be named. “By the time our men arrived, the attackers had fled into the bush.”

The challenges, he says, are huge: too few men, outdated equipment, and a landscape that gives the bandits easy cover. “They ride motorcycles, they know the terrain, and the communities are isolated. We cannot be everywhere at once.”

Asked about trust, the vigilante sighs. “The people say we fail them, and sometimes we do. But we also bury our own in this fight. We need them to see us as allies, not strangers.”

Meanwhile, the Chief of Defence Staff, General Christopher Musa, has expressed concern over renewed violence in Katsina and other parts of the North West.

Speaking on Channels Television, General Musa said the military has intensified operations nationwide, but admitted that killings in the region, including the recent massacre of worshippers in Malumfashi, remain disturbing.

Security analysts say the attack is part of a broader pattern that has transformed Nigeria’s northwest into one of the most dangerous rural zones in Africa. They claimed the systematic campaigns of violence is rooted in poverty, weak governance, and the collapse of traditional authority structures.

Credit: Vanguard

Myth of rounds of sex in marriage

By Bosede Ola-Samuel

I had a discussion on sex with a medical doctor this week. The reason was that I was searching for solutions to the sexual frustrations of married couples. One of the frustrations is the inability to have at least two rounds of sex at a go. This frustration is in alignment with a myth about how needful and good it is, at least, two rounds of sex for married couples. According to the myth, more than one round of sex is a pointer to great sex.

My medical doctor also confirmed the existence of this myth about marital sex.

So, I kept thinking and researching about it, and my findings and conclusions are the heart of this write-up.

Having more than one round of sex in a marriage is important. This is not true. While a married couple can have two to three rounds of sex at a go, it is absolutely not important. Great sex has nothing to do with how many rounds one does at a go. You can have a round of sex at a go in your marriage, and still enjoy great sex.

I do not think my husband and I have done more than one round of sex at a go, for more than five times in our almost 30 years of marriage. We could have sex twice a day regularly, but I can count the number of times we had two rounds of sex at a go. Yet, we are enjoying great sex in our marriage.

As a result of this myth, many couples are labouring themselves on the search for ways to have rounds of sex at a go in their marriage. They have come to tie sexual fulfilment or performance to how many rounds of sex at a go they can engage in. Thus, they crave how to last for two hours during sex with their spouses.

I frequently get asked by some followers of this column how to have more than one round of sex at a time. This is coming from the myth earlier mentioned. No wonder the market for ‘manpower’ has witnessed consistent growth in our generation. No thanks to this myth or make-believe.

There is absolutely no reason why one should lose their peace over the inability to have more than one round of sex at a time in marriage. It is absolutely not important. What is important is to enjoy great sex, which definitely is not tied to many rounds of sex at a go.

What great sex entails

Great sex is beautiful and comes from the art of sex. A wife once said, in a conflict resolution session with her husband, that her husband did not know “how to sex.” In essence, there is a “how” for sex, and not knowing it will endanger a marriage.

As I write, that wife and husband are divorced today, and the main culprit is not knowing how to have sex in marriage.

How to have sex includes the following

*Foreplay

*S3x styles

*S3x timing — morning, afternoon, evening or night.

*Quick s3x

*S3x locations outside the bedroom and bed. Places like the sofa, floor, bathroom, kitchen, etc.

*Get away moment of s3x.

All the above are ways to enjoy great s3x, without having more than one round of s3x at a time. You can have full details of this by reading my book ‘Enjoying Great S3x’.

The myth of many rounds might have come from prostitution or side-chick experience. S3x with a prostitute or a side chick is not something regular or permanent. So, the tendency is to make use of the opportunity while it lasts. It is like trying to have the full value for one’s money for securing the engagement. So, many people involved don’t spare efforts to go as many rounds as possible, courtesy of sex enhancing drugs, in most cases.

Trying to subject one’s spouse to such an experience of many rounds of s3x in marriage is not important. You have yourselves always and for life, so you can take your time to enjoy yourselves to the fullest.

The dangers of the myth of many rounds of s3x in marriage.

*Unrealistic expectations from your spouse. You will come to believe that unless you can engage in many rounds of s3x at a go, you are a bedroom failure. And the same way is how you perceive your spouse and vice versa.

*Emotional and physical exhaustion in couples. You feel emotionally drained trying to engage in many rounds of s3x at a go, and this greatly impacts the physical well-being of a couple.

* Unnecessary quarrels over nothing. This happens when the couple cannot agree on many rounds of s3x at a time. This is one of the reasons a spouse may be dodging s3x, through many excuses. It could be the undertone for many unexplainable conflicts among couples.

So, let married couples stop losing sleep over a myth that has no strong basis for great s3x in marriage.

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