1) Nigerian men seem to believe generally that a woman with a high sex drive had a man in her that “activated” that mode in her and the man still has her master key and would be able to bed her anytime he sees her.
That is the stuff of nightmares. The men end up building a myth of a perfect sexual fiend in her past; an Adonis with better love language, a bigger dick, more romantic nous and decadent sexual devilry in bed and they look at their flabby skin and small dick and feel inadequate.
They end up resenting the woman for her perfect sexual past and feel a crushing weight of inadequacy.
And this same nightmare of a decadent and memorable sexual history is also real for women. They regard their own pitiful sexual history and how they can’t bring themselves to perform skillful oral sex on their husband and can’t help but resent the perfect sexual minxes of his past who indulged him in wild sexual sprees and taught him things they can’t bear to do to with him.
So, both men and women suffer from the imagined glory of the sexual histories of their partners.
2) Men have a misguided notion that size is power when it comes to their penis and there is actually an unvoiced sense of inadequacy that trails most men with normal dick size.
The average penis size is actually not the famed 6 inches but usually 5 to 5.5 inches thereabouts. At around 5 inches you are good to go if you know what to do with it.
Women too have their own breast issues. And bum-bum issues. And plenty of other body dysphoric issues.
When will we learn that the brain is the primary sexual organ and not the body, that is just a lump of passionate clay that can only be controlled by the response and stimuli of the brain?
