VIRGINITY AND FOOD.

(1) You have heard how it was said in the past, “Keep your virginity because it is your pride; it is the one gift you can ever give to your husband.”

But I say this to you,

Do not keep your virginity for your husband or for any man. No man deserves your virginity. Virginity is not meant to be a gift to any human; both you and your man are supposed to be virgins ordinarily. Do not mix it up!

Being a virgin ordinarily means you are not involving yourself in any sexual sin. In this way, you are pure, both in heart and in body. The reward for purity in the beatitudes is that you shall see the Lord…

If there is any reason why you should keep your virginity, let this reason be your number one: “That blessed are the pure in heart (character inclusive) whose body are the temple of the holyspirit, for they shall see God.”

(2) You have heard how it was said in the past, “Teach your daughters not to allow any man to touch them.”

But I say this to you,

You spend all your energy teaching only your daughters how to be virgins and to be God-fearing without considering your sons. Your neighbours down there also spent all their energies too teaching only their daughters same thing…

At the end of the day,

The sons of your neighbour who were not taught to keep their virginity find your daughters sexually attractive and decided to talk them out of all the virginity lessons you gave them. They fell for it. They had sex!

Then your own sons too, who were not taught to keep their virginity, find your neighbour’s daughters sexually attractive and decided to also talk them out of all the virginity lessons your neighbour gave them. They too fell for it. They had sex!

At the end, you and your neighbours only succeeded in fooling yourselves!!!!!!

(3) You have heard how it was said in the past, “Mothers, teach your daughters how to cook, that is the one way to get into a man’s heart.”

But I say this to you,

Teach yours sons and daughters how to cook. Something as important as food that is meant to sustain, nourish, and preserve life should not be left for just one gender alone…

Besides, it is unfair if your daughters could get into a man’s heart through food, and your sons cannot get into a woman’s heart too through food. Don’t gurls eat too? Why deny your boy a basic survival skills of cooking, something as important as food, simply because he has penis?

Why subject him to be always dependent on females before he can eat? That is unfair! That is wickedness!